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Teenage: Help and advice

He didn't text back... Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - This guy is really confusing me! I've asked a question about him before heres the link http://www.dearcupid.org/question/so-does-he-like-me.html anyway today I decided to text him. I said hey what's up. He text back saying so who is this lol? I t...

Best friend keeps stealing my guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Well to start off there's this one girl I used to be best friends with last year, this one guy liked me and she liked him. She constantly was jealous and now we enter the next grade and another train wreck. 2 long months of my ex-bestie getting ...

I lost that special feeling and now that I broke up with her, I want to feel the same way for her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - I broke Up with My girlfriend of 9 months recently and I am so depressed. I didn't feel satisfied in the relationship because it did not feel like it did when we started dating. Now that I broke up with her I am so sad and miss her a lot. I don't ...

Should I tell my mum my 15 year old sister had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I recently wrote the article below but am now wondering if I should tell my mum that my sister had sex? I feel as though I should because I can't lie to my mum about my sister having had sex. I know my mum would get rather angry but she mi...

Does period pain get less as you get older???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Me and my sister get really bad period pain and we just sit around forlike 1 or 2 days and we always know when the other persons got her period, but I never know if moms got hers. I mean she doesn't like lay around all day or anything. I just wan...

Age Disparity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I am writing a paper about if the law should be changed on what age you can date people and if there should be a consentual age. Please respond with any suggestions or information to help me out. Thanks!!!...

He says he doesn't want to get involved with someone younger than 16

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Well I've been talking to this guy. And I really like him, my friends say he likes me and that i should just ask him if he does. But he said that he doesn't want to get involved with under 16s after what happened before. And then theres this girl ...

Sex wasn't a great experience for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - So i was making out with a girl in a club and i was llike really hard that time but then we wanted to take it further..so we went to the beach and we tried to have sex over there ..i got reaaly hard..and i went inside her but it was winter and ...

Is it normal to be interested in older women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - First of all, in order to understand wher I am coming from, it might prove beneficial to know a little about me. I am 18 years old, and in college. I study Computer Information Systems and Network, with a minor in German. German is my real ...

I'm angry & think he's using me but I love him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - This is going to sound really strange, I was with my boyfriend for a year and he finished it saying I basically drove him crazy because I wanted a serious relationship and he felt we were too young. That was a year ago and we have been carrying on ...

Pregnant a possibility?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - hello everyone, I had sex in november and i had my period 2 weeks afterwards and i had one december but it was late! i didn't have one in january which really concerns me. i've looked up symptoms for pregnacy and i dont really have any. i ...

I kiss a lad and now he doesn't talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - me n me bf been going out for 5 months now. he hardly tlks to me and when he does tlk to me its usually about sex or me leaving him. I dnt wnt us to split up because I love this guy. He always ust to tell me he loves me but now he dunt he dunt ...

1st gyn visit--mom will be there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I have many issues that I'm really worried about and have been for years, and I've been telling my mom that I wanted to go to a gyno since I was in 5th grade. She always said we could never afford it even though she had no problem paying to go to ...

Anyone know what this pain might be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - for about 8 months now, ive been in quite alot of pain, its constant, i am sexually active im 15 i started my periods at 13 i use tampons every period, umm ive been sexually active for about 1 year and a half, ive been with the same partner for 2 ...

I told her I loved her but now she has found someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Please i need help. There is a girl who is a close friend of mine,i told her that i loved her and wanted her to be my gf,but she said no. Later she told me she had gotten a bf,i felt bad but bcos i loved her i remained friends with her. But i always ...

Broken hearted and can't seem to mend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - the story is....i was with my ex for 7months, i was and still am head over heels for him, we are still good friends and i get on with the family really well. i was fine with the fact that we arnt togeather anymore, but a new girl has come on the ...

In love & he's too old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - ok i no this is going to sound weird but i go to this store and there is this 27 year old guy that works there and he is sooooo nice to me we talk all the time and he is just the most coolst guy in the world. well at first when i started going there ...

How do I comfort my sister after breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hey, Recently my sister (15) got a new boyfriend. Last night, after having dated for about a month he broke up with her. She was devastated. Shortly after I found out she had sex with him during their relationship, thus losing her vi...

I'm straight but dream about women having oral with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I would just like to know what or whatever others think about this: I'm totally straight, I love men but I fantasize about a woman sticking her tounge up me and swirling it around. Am I a perv for this? Just thoughts tbh x...

I get guys but lately I've just been going after the ones that I know I can't have.. What is wrong with me cuz I'm a wreck right now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I'm just a mess.. me and my boyfriend broke up last week and I've been trying soo hard to get over him. I was in love with him and I got very weak but at times I was strong and I guess I'm over it. I hung out for the first time with this guy that ...

If I talk to another guy on MSN, is this cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - okay, so i have been goin' out with my guy for ages now, and i'm in a secret and luving relationship. about 5 days ago, a lad added me on msn, and we started talking all he does is shower me with compliments, but everytime he talks to me, afterward...

Help me, I'm in love with my friend, but I messed it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for about a month or two now. At first I tried to surpress my feelings but his name kept cropping up everywhere I looked. So I admitted to myself that I liked him. We'd just started to become friends at that time and we walked ...

Does he mean it when he says he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 3 months and in the beginning of january i found out that he had doubts since the beginning of december if he loved me anymore, we sorted things out and he told me that he does love me and ...

Any girl here who is in relationship with a Capricorn? How did you "catch him"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hello.. I have one quick question for all of you, who are interesting and experienced in astrology. I found myself very attracted to Capricorn guys (that's because i have all "love planets" - venus, mars and mercury in this sign). But they're ...

I'm in my last year of high school and it's been hell...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - i really need some help. im in my last year of high school and its been hell. last year my previous best friend went out with my ex behind my back (among other things), and now it seems like everyone is still in love with her. all my friends tell me ...

Why did he cause this scene for a common cap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi everbody......So my boyfriend and I finally broke up about 3 weeks ago and I just found out he was cheating on me. Our break up wasn't official, we just stopped talking. I thought it was one of his silent treatments but then I found out he is ...

Does this mean my mum suspects I'm gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Hey eveyone, just so you know right from the begining, I'm 15 and gay. Im still in the closet about the whole thing. Now, my mum always makes the comment of, "you will make your wife very happy" or "you will make your girlfriend really happy" j...

I don't want to be rejected for the 3rd tme!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. I'm at university and im having a good time although im at a bit of a loss of what to do. Im finding myself falling for one of my housemates (whos also female), we are very close and in a friendship group who are deciding to live...

Any suggestions on how to get more sleep?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - It all started when my first dog that I ever known got put down. I use to be able to sleep fine 10 hrs. But now I only get six hrs of sleep a night. I know that its from grievance but what can I do to help me sleep more? Asking for help...

Jealous? Or something fishy going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Ok, i'll keep this as short as possible, but it's a somewhat complicated, long situation, so here goes: I'm 18. My gf is 16, and I've been with her 2 years now. It is a long distance relationship (she lives in the town where my father lives, an...

I'm seeing a 'party boy' and I'm not quite sure what to do in some situations

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - hi, this is a silly question.. but im 18.. and lately i've been seeing this guy thats 24 and unlike me he's pretty much a party boy and i dont mind that, dont get me wrong. but he picked me up at night and we went for a drive around and the thing ...

He's moving on after a week, will he realise what he's lost?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend split a week sgo. He has already hooked up with 2 girls, and says that their just his rebounds, to try to get over me. He's not in a relationship, just fooling around fun. I'm heartbroken about it. Do you think he will re...

I'm 15, why do I REALLY want a baby???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Ok this may sound totally stupid and immature but yeah... I don't know why but for some reason I REALLY want a baby (A daughter mostly) I have been wanting one for almost a year now... I am 15 for gods sakes! What the hell! Out of nowhere last week ...

I've asked her out but she keeps changing her answer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - Hello, The question that i have is that a girl that i really like has been sending me strange messages. I asked her out on a date and she said yes......then maybe.....then no altogether. She has repeated this cycle for a while now, and has sai...

I lost my virginity last night and now I'm feeling itchy..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Hi. I just lost my virginity last night. It hurt, but that's to be expected. Now, I'm quite a bit itchy ''down there''. I've got a bit more discharge than usual, but it doesn't have a strange scent or color. I'm wondering if I was just allergic to ...

Keeping relationship secret but I'm worried he's seeing others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Okay so i'm 16 and i've been seeing this older guy. He seems to like me, but we can't let anyone know that we talk, cause he's just above the age limit for my families approval. So he tells me that he wants to be with me when i get older, and we ...

It means he cares, right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - hi. so.i had a problem,the guy i love (we arent going out yet but i think he is in love with me too,we are close friends).well..i had texted and called him a lot of times from the past 2 days without getting a reply.i got really scared and assumed ...

Pregnant from bj?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - I gave my boyfriend a blow job, and I'm afriad I may be pregnant because the sperm got on my hands. i waited about 30 mins before i went to the rest room though. what should i do?...

I'm scared that I don't love my fiance anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - been with my fience for 3 years. im scared i dont love him anymore,i know deep down i do,but im scared im doing it all wrong and maybe there is someone better out there for us both one minute he annoyes me and we will argue and the moment i see him...

Am I in love witha straight guy? Or is there a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

2 February 2009 (M) - It's taking alot of courage to write this, but basically i've recently started university, and a few months ago i began talking to this one guy on my course. He's the same age as me and we have similar interests. Since then i've grown to be his ...

I get very jealous of my boyfriends behaviour

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Ok so, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years of and on but now we're engaged and I'm so jealous and I don't know how to stop. I mean I love him to death but he talks to all these other gurls on myspace and calls them babe and stuff like that I ...

How to get rid of hormonal breakouts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

2 February 2009 (F) - Urggg! My period just ended, so naturally, i'm a hormone fest... so i'm breaking out! joy. i tend to break out around my nose, and chin around my mouth if that helps. it's not too bad, luckily, but still! what can i do? what do you do when you get a ...