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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I've been holding back too much, I want to let myself go and show how I truly feel

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - There's someone who i really like at my college. The first time i saw his face there was this instant attraction, and finally after a few weeks we began talking and are now pretty good friends. He does know how i feel about him because i told him ...

Her parents are making her break up with me, help!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and my gf is 14, we've been going out for 4 and a half months now, I really love her and she really really really really loves me, her parents just found out about us, and they're making her break up with me in front of them!!!!! What do ...

How do you know if you are a good or a bad kisser?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - how do you know if your a good or bad kisser? PLEASE HELP!!!!!...

'Oil up for sex'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - So my friend was talking about oiling up for sex with her boyfriend and I'm just curious what it actually means! Is it just using lube or literally covering yoruself in something?...

Job-phobia!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Job-phobia? Ok so I am 16, last year I tried to work somewhere and I worked for like 1 week. It was hard work and they didn't pay me. I am a pretty shy person about this kind of stuff so I wouldn't fight for my money. Now that I am 16 I want to ...

I prefer masturbating to actual sex! What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Ok so a very bad sex experience on a virgin makes him get the wrong idea? coz I am afraid I really got the wrong idea about what sex is.. I didn't enjoy it... not in pain but pleasure... didn't feel anything special... I prefer masturrb...

What can we do to keep it fun except for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - ok well im 16 and well i have been with this boy for like 2 months now and well you no what its like when get to the age of 16 .. well i dont want to rush in to sex and i have talked to my boyfriend about it and hes cool about it but its just i dont ...

I didn't know girls can actually cum...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hey, i didnt know girls can actually "cum" i thought i was called discharge. im really confusing. Any help ??...

So am I pregnant or NOT?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hello, Okay..I was on birth control from like June to December. I stopped taking them in December because I took an HPT that came back positive. I took it because my period hadn't come on and birth control is supposed to make it regular. So..sin...

I'm 13, he's only 10, so should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Ok sooo i think i like this boy but there is a problemo, im 13 nd he iss 10!!! ino i feel so disgusted in myslef that i could fall for some one at that age! But i know that he likes me to!! should i tell him how i feel or should i forget about him, ...

I'm desperate to have sex, any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - i want to have sex but im 15 and want to have sex but cant find a girl who live close to me and i cant find anyone on the web who is close to my age, what should i do?...

Is he friendly or flirty? What should I think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I'm looking for some "outside" opinions on this. I have a person I know who is in most of my classes. I'm in post secondary school. We met when we came to school and have remained aqaintences ever since. He sometimes seems to be flirting or ...

I want to have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - i want to have sex but im 15 and want to have sex but cant find a girl who live close to me and i cant find anyone on the web who is close to my age, what should i do?...

My new b/f is obsessed with making out and I'm only 13!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - my new boy friend is obbsesed with making out and im only 13 so ive never made out with a guy. i really want to make out with him but idk and i really like you but will it be wierd? hes also had alot of experiance so what if he expects me to be ...

Should I tell my mother that I've been using her vibrator?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

16 February 2009 (?) - Okay so I have a major problem. It's the second time that I've had the guilty feeling this bad. But it's for really stupid things. I've done really really worse things and I've never given it a second thought and it just bugs me that I'm bothered by ...

Should I continue working on this dead relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hey guyz im 18 and very confused. my bf of 2 years is an absolute dork. he hurts me and cheats and neva apologises. ive tried leavin him but i always cum runing bk. and nw hes introduced me to hs family. what i want to know is should i continue ...

He is also gay, I thought he liked me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - hey, im 14 and gay. one of my classmates is gay too and i have a crush on him (we confessed to each other that we're gay). we were talking about getting together and stuff, but suddenly on one day he said he's going to meet someone else. what's ...

Did my god brother abuse me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - When I was a child I use to visit my god brothers house. the older one use to do sexual things to me like rub himself on me with our clothes on while his brother watched. I was about 7 and he was about 4 years older. Is it normal for kids to act ...

The girl I like wants to sleep around just to make her ex angry, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - So last night i was talking to the girl ive been talking to we dont date because she is still in the process of getting over her ex that she went out with for 3 years and hes come up frequenty in conversations, this girl has alreayd told me i mean a ...

Shall I dump my b/f and get back with Bryan or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - A few months ago i started goin into a chatroom for the first time. I met a guy in there(Bryan)and he was very kind and caring. After a few weeks of just being frends i started to develop emotions for him. I didnt want to tell Bryan how i felt ...

Should I tell my mom my brother's taking drugs???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I NEED HELP!!! This has really nothing to do with relationships, but my mom asked me to find out whether or not my older brother is doing drugs(he is). She is worried about him and wants to know what's going on. Now I told her that's unfair to ask m...

I'm 13 and my boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I need you advice. My boyfriend (15) wants to have sex with me, but I think I am too young. What do you say? I really would like to have sexual intercourse, but I'm not sure whether I am old enough to decide that....

How do I say NO to my ex boyfriend's best mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am a single, young woman of nineteen years and I am currently in a friends-with-benefits kind of thing with two young men my age (only making out). I honestly do not feel good about any of this. You see, one of these guys is my ex-boyfriend's best ...

To scenarios to enable me to talk with her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I really need help! I like this girl and she likes me. When we are at school she's often quiet. I want to be able to talk to her. I want to use the time and just talk. Do I walk up to her and just start talking? Would that make her comfortable?? I ...

I'm not sure now if I did the right thing... advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 18 and just dumped my bf of 2 years. He's spoilt and full of pride. When I dumped him I was kind of hoping he would beg me not to. Instead he just said ok! It hurt so bad and I really don't know what to do......

I have a boyfriend but have a crush on someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl who has had a crush on a guy 2 years older than me for a few months now. At the same time I still feel strongly about my boyfriend. Unfortunately I'm not sure if he feels the same anymore. If things are to die with my curr...

Why am I turned off by boyfriend's attention (or lack thereof) to my breasts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - When my BF and I started dating, we talked a lot about sex, what we liked, what we didn't ,etc. I made it clear how much I liked my breasts to be touched, etc and he happily complied (or so I thought). Although he says he's not a Breast Man, but he ...

We're ready to move our relationship up a notch... how is this usually done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hey... I'm 18 and I have very little experience with the whole "dating" thing. I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of months, and I think we are ready to move up a notch in our relationship (I'm talking physically here)... Ok, I should say I ...

How can I keep the noise down during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - This is a little daft asking I think but here goes... I live in uni halls, a block of 16, and our walls are very thin. Last time my boyfriend came over to stay the night my next door neighbour made a joke about being able to hear everything through ...

I couldn't get an erection because I was too nervous, how can I relax more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hey I'm 15 and the other day I went to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time (my first time ever), but I couldn't get an erection. I already posted a question on why this was and people said it was because of nerves, if this is the case...

Do I have an STD???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - What's wrong with my genitals? I have this blister on my genital (bottom part) and it burns and itches, I try some cream to make it better but a few days later it comes back again.... could this be an STD? I am too shy to go to doctor and show the...

Tormented because my skin is too black.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am slim, tall, and I think I am pretty enough in my face. But I have very very very dark skin and in my country this is not a good thing. It affects your life badly, I will not have marriage proposals or the ones I do get will not be good offers. ...

I've just had sex with my TEACHER!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I've had sex with my teacher last week and I don't know what to do. I can't look him in the eyes any more, I feel ashamed and bad. Can somebody give me an advice what to do?...

Am I over-analyzing or what??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - The girl I like includes quotes when she emails me sometimes. Her latest, which she started her last message with, got me thinking: "If you make it plain you like people, it's hard for them to resist liking you back." Am I over-analysing n...

I'm having sexual thoughts about my mate's MOM!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hi there, I don't know how to say this but I have sexual thoughts about my friend's fat mum. Should I try something with her or what or is that wrong??...

I feel so slutty! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hi I really need help :/, I'm only fifteen and I can usually get boys with ease but everytime I go see a boy, This may sound werid but I always get really horny and want sex with them and straight after it I always seriosul...

I trust my boyfriend but don't trust the girl who likes him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - okay umm there is this female i'm-a call her H she happends to like my boyfriend you know it wasnt really a problem at first i mean they had went out before but they broke up. so me and H have known each other since about 6th grade we have bumped h...

How do you offer fellatio?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - how would you give head to your boyfriend?? do you let him cum in your mouth? do you deep throat? i NEED details...

He was my first, what can I do to get over him!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Well, Me and my boyfriend split a few weeks ago, because I moved states.... And within a week of us breaking up, he slept with 2 people....And then continued to mess with my head for a week after. Like one day he would say he still loves me an...

I want to have sex but a promise I made stops me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - i love my boyfriend and all and i want him to be my first BUT i promised my frends that i wouldnt lose it till i was a FRESHMAN. a promise is a promise but i aint sure that it is a promise i can keep cause everytime i think about him and me doin the ...

We don't trust each other with our friends, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My guy is of the feeling that his best friend likes me..This has created some kind of misunderstanding in between us.No proper understanding:(:(However I am very sure that there is nothing like what he thinks.We even had a talk on this.The reas...

Bisexual or lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship with this guy. I'm 17 he's 20. I like him alot. but i think i might like girls MORE than him? ive always found myself sexually more attracted to females. and i dont want to hurt his feelings...im confused! i love him...

Why is phone sex all he wants from me????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Ok me and this guy have been talkin for awhile but the thing is we never met before because we met online..i'm 18 and he is also 18. We'll be meeting pretty soon.The things that i love about him is his personality and he is good looking, and he ...

Met him at a wedding, I don't know what to think, does he feel the connection as I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - this is my story its really long though,please answer my question it would mean the world to me...i'm 15 and the guy i like is 19..we live far from each other,he lives in milwakee and i live in az so we dont see each other..i went to milwakee to a ...

Why does he ignore me for so long but then acts like he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - ive been "together" with this guy for about a year now. hes never made a real commitment to me and we dont consider each other our boyfriend or girlfriend. i just turned 18 and hes 21 so its hard for us to hangout on weekends and stuff bc im at p...

Sleeping positions during pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I may be pregnant..if I am ...im not that far along...is it safe for me to sleep on my stomach because thats really the only way I can sleep...

Does he still care about me or am I just seeing what I want to see??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - my ex and i have been broken up sence the 3rd of this month but i still love him....recently i feel like he kind of still cares about me but i am not sure. 1. he stares at me in the hallways at school (but not a creepy stare lol) 2. he ta...

She's worried she will called a whore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hello! I really need some help! So theres this girl I really like. Shes hasn't lasted more then 3 days with out dating someone until now. Shes dated 3 people since shes has moved here to my town. Shes looking for a good relationship. So...

I have an attraction to both sexes! I want to tell everyone...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Well.. for a start, I have a attraction to both genders. The only person who know's my sexuality is my girlfriend. I really want to tell my friends and family, but how can I? I live in a small town in the west side of British Columbia, Canada. Where ...

Is it possible to forgive in time even when the trust has been broken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a falling out. We live together and I broke his trust. He hasn't moved out or anything he's refusing to when in the past he has just left me. Saying he didnt love me anymore and that we were over its only been 5 days. But what ...

Tender breasts, nipples bright pink... is anything wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - recently my breast have started to become more tender and my nipples have become a brighter pink colour im not sure if this is because they are growing or if there is something wrong. does anyone know what could be wrong or is it something i ju...

Ahhh!! Out damn spots, out I say!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - for many years i have had spots not really bad ones just ones that are always there also my whole face if just covered in black heads what is the best thing to do to get rid of them? and what makes spots worse?...

Call me a bitch or a whore but you know I'm right.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I really laid it on thick with this guy who already had a girlfriend. I even made made him cheat on his girlfriend by having sex with him while they were together. They were together for two years and broke up two months ago after she caught us ...

He is the PERFECTEST guy ever but my parents would shoot me, but I'm really not caring, and I just want to be with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old and I've been talking to this 19 year old, I'm a freshman and he graduated last year. He always says how much he likes me and he wants to be with me, and ive had sex with him. He bought me a phone so i can text him, and he is paying ...

I don't want our friendship to end. What is going on with her? Why is she being like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am bisexual and have fallen in love with a girl I've known for about 6-7 months. By the way, I am 13 and so is she and I'm a girl. We go to the same school. I wanted to be honest with her so I told her I was bisexual and that I liked her. A few ...

What interests older men about younger girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - What interests older men about younger girls? I'm not talking about a 40 year old and a 12 year old... I mean, like, a 30 year old and an 18 year old. She's too old to still be too innocent, and isn't that what mean are usually in to? i'm asking ...

Does this mean I am bisexual and if so am I normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - 2 weeks ago i met this girl that looked like a boy. i felt attracted to her then when i found out she was a girl i still liked her. she started to feel my legs and writing me note and i wrote them back, then one day after school we kissed I liked ...

I wanna have sex, but I'm just too scared. Is that normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Eventually I wanna try to have sex but I'm still so young. I would have sex now, but I'm terrified of the condom breaking and I'm too scared to ask my mom for birth control so some of the stress of sex can rub off. I don't know how to handle th...

Does anyone know if I should restart taking the pill as normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I started on the pill about 3 weeks ago and was taking them correctly. However on Wednesday (I'm posting this on Sunday) I was travelling from uni to my boyfriend's and the sachet I had brought with me somehow fell out of my bag on the train so I ...

What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand. It's just... his hands are so masculine, and I just want to know their feeling. Plus, I think he might like my hands as well (they're small and soft)... I feel like this sort of ...

Sexual advice needed please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Ok, well I've madeout a lot and cuddled and shit but I do think I'm prude and I get pressured to get fingered and giving blowjobs and handjobs and sometimes even sex. I do wanna try to get fingered and try a handjob and a blowjob. I know what the...

How can I let this older man know I'm interested in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hiya, I'm 18, I live alone and have a daughter age 2, I know a man from working at my uncles gym he lives a couple of doors away from me, well I really really like him and got feeling for him that I have never felt before, he's a lot older than me ...

Will having anal sex hurt me or will I feel pleasure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been toghether for 2 years. Our relationship got physical a while ago but he says he wants to try anal. I am really scared of doing it because it will be the first time I have done that but I don't know whether to let him ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I let his friend finger me???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hey, One day I was at my boyfriends and he introduced me to his best friend. At first I wasn't attracted to him but as time went on I started to like him more and more. A few weeks later we were all under a blanket watching a film and he held my ...

What should I do? I don't know how to tell him I have some what feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5556 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I met this guy and we've been talking for a couple weeks now. He seems like the perfect guy but people have said he's majorly prude, and very shy. But he's so hot and cute and we seem like we click. We get along very well. But I don't know how to ...