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*el boy
writes:hi, i have been in a relationship for about a year now, and it's had it's ups and downs but lately its been good. however i have been having feelings for another girl since last year and lately they have become very strong. i can't stop thinking about her, even when me and my girlfriend are together. i want to get out of my relationship but i love her too much and i don't want anyone else to have her. i really want the other girl and i am worried i might cheat. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, eel boy +, writes (22 February 2009):
eel boy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advise, but i don't think that talking to her would be that good. she knows the girl and for the past year she has hated her because we are good mates. i know that if i told her how i really feel she would just go crazy and the relationship would finish there and then and she probably wouldn't talk to me for months after. i have thought about talking to her tho, but i bottle it everytime. i just don't want to lose her.
Thanks anyway :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2009): sometimes a relationship can loose the 'honeymoon' feeling, and you fall into a routine. it may just be that this new girl who you have feelnigs for is just something exiting for you. but you now have to decide wether it would be worth risking you relationship for this other girl. weigh it out; loose your girlfriend, break both your hearts and gain a fling, or forget the fling and stay happily with your girlfriend.
any help?
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reader, lena1  +, writes (22 February 2009):
 if you love that girl so much.talk with your girlfriend and explain situation to her.so you dont have to cheat on any body.
good luck
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