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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Is there such a thing as being too tight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Is there such a thing as being too tight? I am a virgin but I've messed around with lads including all foreplay, oral sex etc so Im not totally inexperienced but I've never gone all the way as I have this fear I am too tight. I've explored a...

How can I "be there" more for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - How can I be there for my girlfriend? I go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend and we can't see each other that often. She feels lonely and that she has no one to talk to. I assured her that I am always there for her when she wants me...

What is the most romantic way of asking a girl you like out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Ok this is a question mainly for the girls because they know about this stuff, but fellas your help will be appreciated too. This is going to be a hard question and I can't wait for your ideas!! What is the most romantic way of asking a girl you ...

MSN problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm 14 years old, I have MSN and a lot of people I didn't know added me, I blocked them and deleted them but once one freak added me several more did it was like when I didn't come online on MSN a lot of people added me and when I came on I had a ...

My mum just hinted to me that I was born a mistake...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My mum just hinted to me that I was born a mistake and she never even denied it. It really hurts knowing that. I love my mum and everything but when something goes wrong she blames me never anyone else just cause I'm the youngest in the family. They ...

Whenever we make out I just lose my mind!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 14 year old guy and I'm in a current relationship with this girl, I'm really in love with her and she's in love with me.. we've been going out for 8 months. I really want to have sex and I know you're gonna say ohh I'm too young, oh there...

Would you sleep with him and do you you think this whole thing is my fault?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm the girl with the pornstar boyfriend again and I have a little bit of situation. My boyfriend and I had a talk about work at his apartment when I spent the night and he said he does accounting instead of the real answer. He now wants to ...

Should I take him back after the hurt he's caused me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and last year February I stopped going out with my boyfriend whom I had been going out with for a year and a half. We broke up but it was still like we were going out as we were still kissing etc. Then I went on holiday in mid August and w...

How to prolong the climax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Okay I am about to have sex for the first time. I want to know if there's anything I can do to make myself not finish fast. Any advice would be great. Oh and yes I am being smart, I'm using a condom so don't worry about that. Thanks...

Should I trust him or is he in over his head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hey I'm 14 and I have been told that I'm mature for my age I guess I am. A have practicly been taking care of myself and my brother and sister for two years now, and to get to my point, boys my age are stupid so my bf is 18 we know the risks of ...

What is the deal with this guy?

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19 February 2009 (F) - We had a big argument we made up after that and i didnt hear from him and i didn’t contact him either and 2day he called me after a few weeks and he was acting like nothing is happened he was just asking me how am doing and i told him to ...

Am I really an evil homewrecker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - About 4 years ago now i started talking to this boy who was in my class... we became reali close friends and told each other everything. I helped him get through his break ups and vice verser. About 1 year and a half ago now he called me asking to ...

I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I'm terrified that I might lose this baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I was wondering if there is any way to tell if a woman has an incompetent cervix before she actually loses the baby? I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I'm terrified that I might lose this baby! I know that most woman feel pressure on there bladder or ...

How to get a vibrator?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I have a question. Can somebody tell me how to get a vibrator? Because it is boring fingering myself, and i dont want to use my sisters' one. ...

Does it matter that I'm 2 grades behind her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - ok theres girl anne and shes a junior whos 16 right now and will be 17 in august, im a freshman whos 14 and will be 15 in may. ive kissed this girl before like a week ago and i cant tell whether she likes me or not. how do i find out if she still ...

Will sex be painful?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I have a tight foreskin and I'm going to have sex with my boyfriend. Would it be painful? If it would is there anything I can do to stop it being as painful?...

Should I have a baby? Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - When my mom was 16 she had her first child. which was my older brother who is now 32 and got a 7 month old baby of his own, which is my neice and he has a wife. I am now 16, 17 in september and I have been suffering from depression since I was 13 ...

He got me nowt for my birthday and I'm upset about it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I planned a great vday for my boyfriend of almost 3 years... he had so much fun and so did I but it really bothers me I didn't get a gift this year... he has always gotten me one. Should I really be upset he didn't get me anything? I mean I didn't ...

I'm 13 and really want a baby! I'm depressed!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - hiyyahh help me i realy want a baby and i'm 13 all my mates are sick of me twisting about it i feel depressed because i want one that bad i crave it ive saved money up and thought it through the only thing i dont want to tell my perants i k...

Any ideas for sexy pictures for my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to take some sexy pictures for him, I've taken them before and I know I can trust him with them because we've had fights and even split up for a couple of days but he didn't show anybody or do anything with them. I really want ...

My best friends went on vacation without telling me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My two best friends went on vacation together without me and now one keeps texting me and telling me all the fun things they did/ the hot guys they met. i was hurt enough just finding out about it. now, it's like adding insult to injury, you know? ...

Appetite problem, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - hey..i just wanted to ask umm like lately i havent had the appetite to eat..and i am very skinny..every morning..my stomach hurts and want eat because i cant..i just wanted to know what that means?..but like i dont have sex so i know i cant be ...

Is it only words? I don't feel I really matter to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am confused. I was dating a guy for 5 months, we broke up, and got back together a month later and are still together, now. My only issue is that I don't feel like I matter to him. He tells me he loves me, he tells me I'm his world, yet I don't ...

How do I get my dad to drive me to see him without telling my dad about us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I have boyfriend who is 2 yr older and lives 80 mi. away. How do i get my dad to drive me to see him without telling my dad about us? I have a cousin down there so i could say im visiting him(he introduced us actually)but that will get old quickly. ...

I dreamed about my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - ok so i had a dream the other night whilst at my boyfriends house. the problem is it was about his best friend. in my dream we were together and we kissed. it was one of those dreams where you feel as though you are really in it and you can feel ...

Help! Could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - okkk well im scared i think that i might be pregnant but im not sure i had unprotected sex a few times since my last period but my partner did not cum inside me until yesterday. my period is due in a few days and when i went to the toilet i had...

He wants a "settled adult relationship" what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - ok so im 17, ive been going out with a guy who is 20 now for bout 2 and a half months, hes not the most outgoing of people and he is a bit shy, we havent had sex yet (neither of us are virgins) but nows hes talking about he wants a settled adult ...

Sex the first time hurt so much, now he wants to do it again and I'm terrified!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Hey so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time together it was good but became painful at some point and the pain went on for a week or two, now he says he wants to have more but I am scared of the pain and feel I can't do it now so how can I ...

Why do I feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - HEY!!!! again its lotmoney13!!!!!! Hey, so lately i've been thinking and getting advice from all my friends but one thing kinda dosent add up.....Why do i feel like this when he's around? i have a really deep crush on one of my friends ,he's...

So did I break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - okay, so lately i've been getting horny and i began masterbating frequently. i haven't given myself to a man yet. here's the problem. so a few weeks ago, i was masterbating with a toy for the first time (instead of my fingers). after i was finished...

She asked me out as friends but I like her, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Right. I am in my holiday, and i have really gotten to know and like this girl in my school. We talk frequently over MSN and txt. And she said if she wanted to meet up. I said i wouldnt be sure if i was free. So i said could re-arrange another time. ...

I am confused, does he still want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I am so very confused. I thought things were over with a guy, I had texted him saying "I guess your over me, thanks for letting me know. see you around" after I hadn't heard from him in over a week then he responded "I'm sorry, you're so fun. ...

Why did he text me so much if he didn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old and i just found out that this guy i liked is going out with someone else. We had been texting each other all them time everyday for about two weeks and i had really thought he liked me or at least i hoped he did. Even thoug...

Are most beautiful women viewed as sex objects by men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I have noticed at my university that girls who are in relationships tend to be plain looking and most of the good looking women are single. Even though I have heard that I was beautiful many times, I have never had a serious relationship. Men view ...

Will he ever change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - me an my bf are on our 8 months,im 14 he's 15 we were the best couple ever we did everything together,my friends loved him,i was so happy to have him,,he was so important to me,, at the end of our 4 months wen summer ended,we started schools,he ...

I don't like him like he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship that happened very fast. I had just met the guy 3 days before he asked me out. We've been going out for a week and 5 days and he's become very affectionate in public. I don't feel right when Im with him I feel uncomfortable and ...

I really like this girl but can't bring myself to talk to her what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - I am in love with a girl whom I think is just God-blessed in everything she does. School-wise, she's been around since kindergarten, though I hardly noticed her throughout those years. As we became mere high school freshmen in 2004, I began to...

Does he actually want to brake up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - me and him been going out for 11month's. its going great right now, only that he has been acting a bit different, but its not because of us. (family problems he says). well last night i had a dream about him braking up with me. i was devastated, and ...

Hurt and betrayed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Ok i need too know what is going through his head! heres the deal... about a month ago my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. they didnt sleep together he just lied too her saying me and him werent together for 4 days straight he was ...

So why did he point out that I actually talk in another class?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - ok... so i'm really quiet in one class, because i'm not too too into it, you know? but i'm a good student. but, of course, most students have at least one class they can let loose in, one they feel comfortable in. i have 2. but the teacher from...

Abortion or adoption?....17 and torn.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Alright so I am seventeen years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. I don't have a job but am vigorously looking. My boyfriend has a job with very few hours and min. wage. I just found out yesterday that I am about 17 weeks pregnant...

Should I confront her and ask if the V-Day card was from her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (M) - Thing recently haven't been good family problems and one main reason a girl. I am the kind of guy that doesn't talk about anything to anyone but recently I have become close in a straight way to a guy we talk about everything and this girl. H...

She just won't listen to us... her boyfriend is cheating on her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - ok, my cousin's bf was cheating on her and has been cheating on her for a long time he broke up with her on sunday to go out with another girl, my cousin says she will always believe anything i say over him but i told her today the he had been ...

How can I become a sexual SASHA FIERCE with my first real boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I am trying to prepare myself for havign a REAL sexual encounter with this man I love, I am 19 and he is 28! I love him a lot, and I think i am ready to have sex with him. but I'm sooooo scared! I don't know anything about sex, and I want him to ...

Help! My mum caught us in the act and now she wont talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were watching a film in my room and we were laying on my bed we started kissing and then he started to finger me. My mum walked in and now she wont talk to me. I don't know what do! Please help. ...

He's going into the marines, should I end it now or wait till he leaves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a realtionship that's not that serious yet, but he is going to the marines in a few months and we aren't going to continue this. So should I just end it now, or contiue with him until he leaves, and break up with him then?...

I know he loves me but I don't think he loves me whole heartedly like he says he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I just made 6 months. We've been through more then the average couple would go through in this time period. I love him with all my heart. I don't have to think about it I just know. I know he loves me but I don't think he loves ...

Should I listen to my friends or stay with my man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - I'm going out with a older guy and all my friends don't like him. I'm not allowed to date everyone, so I kept it a secret, but we got into a huge fight and broke up for 2 days, which a few friend found out we were together in the first place and ...

I love him but he loves someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - My name is kareena. I love this guy. his name is shahid. He is my cousin. He is 16 and I'm 14. I love him loadsss but he luvs this other girl. Her name is amrita. I just hate it when ever shahid talks about her. Me and shahid used to be very very ...