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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My friends are all getting boyfriends

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9 February 2009 (F) - please help. I know you cant actually comfort me that much as the fact I have are bleak..but I just need to tell someone, anyone.. I feel so trapped at the moment. My friends are all getting boyfriends..or already have bfs and are all so happy...

I don't want a bad reputation but I want to fool around and have fun!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and all these guys are trying to get in my pants, like at a party these hot guy i was dancing with put my hand on his dick, and he had a huge boner, and this other guy kept raising my dress til it was barely covering my butt. Im not ready to ...

I don't want to like him and then he ditches me!

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9 February 2009 (F) - ok so ive met this guy..recently ive had some bad relationships that have ended up goin nowhere and leaving me hurt...so i wanted opinions on this one before i get too involved. ive known this new guy for a couple of years but nothing ever hap...

B/f & I are always arguing about sex!

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9 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend are always arguing over sex.its been an issue for a while. well i finally caved and told him it would be within a few months. i dont really have a problem with this. but then hes like 'no no dont do it, i dont want you to feel ...

Losing my V-card on V-day, I'm so scared and nervous, please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - well ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 4 months now and im a virgin, we have been talking about having sex lately hes 19 and im 16. weve talked about having sex on valentines day which is like 4 days away, i need some advice really on ...

Do you think it's possible to love someone without him/ her loving you back?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Do you think it's possible to love someone without him/ her loving you back? Personally, i'm not sure... it sometimes seems like an obvious NO... but other times, when i look back at people i've "loved" (when it wasn't reciprocated) i think that it ...

If my boyfriend keeps acting clingy all the time I will end up doing it because it annoys me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I was clinically depressed last year and had to see a counsellor for a couple of months. I couldn't function in college , lost interest in my work and couldn't sleep. I was hoping for a better year, recovered new bf and stuff felt happier....

Is he just horny or does he actually want something with me?

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9 February 2009 (F) - So i've hooked up with this guy twice, and i kinda like him. hes just a huge flirt, and seductive. And then last night, i went to a party, and he was drunk and flirting with a bunch of girls, then he came up to me and started dancing with me, and ...

If a guy annoys you in class does it mean he likes you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Okay so i'm in love with my teacher, but on the otherhand I can't stop flirting with this guy in my class. Well i think hes flirting i can't tell because my mind wanders and i always think about this teacher i'm in love with. I just wondered if...

I don't know how to pursue him!

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9 February 2009 (F) - okay so i really really like this boy that goes to my school but he is in the year above me, and i have a pretty good feeling he doesnt like me at all! he looks at me with a strange expression most of the time; he is friends with people in m...

First time humilating sex leads to a bruised ego and erection issues.

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9 February 2009 (M) - Ok So i am 16 years old i tried to have sex with a girl at the beach we were making out and i was really hard(never had any erection problems) it was my first time and when we took off our clothes and i got inside her i didnt quite enjoyed....

I'm 16 and my voice hasn't broken yet. I'm worried!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

9 February 2009 (M) - well to be honest every time i talk on the phone or on the computer my voice is real high and people think either im 11 or im a girl but im a boy and im 16. im rather worried about it coz i get bullied for it. is there anything i can do or ...

My family loves my BF but my friends don't!

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9 February 2009 (F) - What can a girl do if your friends doesnt like your boyfriend, but your parents and sisters and brother like him and they dont know him like i know him. it make me so sad. i dont know what to do.....

Why doesn't he ever text first, does he even like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Ive met this guy recentley. long story cut short, i dont see him often, and we dont have any mutal friends. Ive been speaking to him online for like the past 3/4 weeks and ive spoke to him in real life 2 times. The last time we spoke we got on ...

If I don't tell my mother I had sex, my boyfriend's mother will, what should I do?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who i love to bits but the last time i stayed with him we got caught having sex by his mum. To make matters worse i told his mum that i had told my mum about what i h...

I haven't had a period in two months, what could be wrong?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I haven't had a period in over 2 months. I'm obviously a girl, I haven't had sex. What's going on with me? :/...

I like him but he says I'm too young for him!!

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9 February 2009 (F) - im 16 years old and the boy i like is 19 we have been talking for a while he came over to see me and we talked in his car for 2 hours...then i told him that my uncle said he dont want us dating and come to find out they are friends due to his cousin ...

How can I get my bf to kiss me without being pushed by our friends?

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9 February 2009 (F) - okay so i have kissed my bf but only when our mates force us to . it isnt natural... we were alone the other day and nobody not even our mates were around. i thought that would be a good moment and to kiss naturally without people forcing u...

Why have I been feeling these really bad cramps in my lower stomach?

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9 February 2009 (F) - ive reciently been getting really bad pain's / cramps down in the area just below my stomach. i never get cramps on my period, and my period isnt for another 2 weeks or so. i havent had sex , but i have had oral sex. could i be pregnant ? what could ...

Does he really like me or is he messing around?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Well, there's this lad i like and he is one year older than me, he says he likes my back and he can't go out with me just yet because of family problems but he promised we will be together. The Problem is, he said he liked my friend and told me he ...

Best kind of venues for a first date?

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9 February 2009 (F) - What are some good places to go on you first date with a guy you really like?...

He says he likes me so much its degrading..what does that mean?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Long story turned into a short one, i'm with a guy who told me that he likes me so much it has got to a point where it's 'degrading' to him, like he's changed his ways. He emphasised on the 'degrading' part and i know what degrading means but I'm ...

Are we truly in love?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I went out wit this guy 4 two months and we broke up because of a realistic reasons. After a few months we became really close, but we never went out. This tym we started going on dates and ended up kissing. When it comes to sex he ...

Are we related? Could we marry?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I have A cousin (thats what i call him) but i dont know if we are really related. My partenal grandma had a brother the brother had a daughter. the daughter got married and had a son. this son is the cousin of mine. My question is are...

My boyfriend doesn't trust me after I kissed a boy for a play and then kept in touch with him unappropriately!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

9 February 2009 (?) - Hi, about a year ago i was involved in a play that required me to kiss this boy during many rehearsals for about a month. at the time i had a boyfriend of six months and i'm still with the same guy. after the play ended me and the boy kept in touch...

What I'm wondering is what are my chances of being pregnant?

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9 February 2009 (F) - Basically last Saturday I slept with a guy. I really cannot remember anything of what happened but i do know we slept together 3 times that night. I have no clue also but i think it was definately unprotected sex, i do not really know the guy and so ...

Ladies & Guys..is this the RIGHT way to let go?

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9 February 2009 (F) - I was getting to know this guy after a month he always seemed like he was playing games emotional ones and i had enough of it. if you look at my other questions i posted..that will give u some back ground so i decided to say bye.It was a nice go...

He says I'm a deep thinker and wants to see more of my personality

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9 February 2009 (F) - I have a huge crush on this guy i think he might like me too but i don't know. He's rather friendly to most people (smiling, joking, etc.) so it probably isn't anything special that he's nice to me and smiles at me in the hallway...but he told me ...

Am I a 'slag' for wanting sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and recently split up with a boy I was going out with for 4 months. I thought he cared about me and he started off really nice but as soon as we made it official he wasn't as attentive - not calling for days etc. whenever i mentioned why ...

Should I worry about being circumcized?

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9 February 2009 (M) - im an 18 year old guy from Australia, i was wondering if i could have some uplifting advice on being circumcised....as i am. i worry about what a girl will think if i am..should i worry if i am circumcised or not?? ..and my mates always crack jokes ...

Will going out with someone else help me forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - hey i like this guy called james* hes lovely sweet and every thing i mean we have kissed and stuff before and i want to ask him out i mean tommrow in history thats when isit next to him and chat alot but hes one of my best mates and in are ...

Pregnant & sad

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9 February 2009 (F) - i'm 15 years old, and im almost 4 months pregnant. the father of the baby, i was with over a year.. then we broke up .. now he is putting alot of stress on me and i don't know what to do, he doesnt want anything to do with the baby or me. but ...

I don't want to lose her as a friend by dating her with the possibility of a break up! Please help!!!!!

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9 February 2009 (M) - Alright i have a few questions.... i have liked this girl for a few years now and we have just been good friends. we have alot in common, and i have the sence that she likes me to. she is always giving me random hugs and what not. so i think its ...

She broke up by mail but we still love each other, I want to get her back, help!

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9 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of six months just broke up with me and I want her back so bad. She meant everything to me and I loved her with all of my heart. We broke up recently about a week ago. I have not made any effort to contact her since then. I was im'd ...

How do I convince him that he's the only one for me?

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9 February 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is afraid that i'm gonna find somebody better than him when i go away to college. how do i convince him that he's the only one for me?...

I desperately need some advice on how to be more trusting.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for a while now and we've been friends since we were in elementary/middle school. I trust him mostly, but he has a history of being very friendly and flirty. He works with mostly young women his age and has MANY female ...

How do I know if we are just "dating" or in a relationship?

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9 February 2009 (F) - How do you know if your someone's "girlfriend" or not? I've been going on dates with this guy since the beginning of January.A few days ago,I went to his house and he made dinner for me(which i thought was VERY sweet) and we watched movies.H...

He invited me for a walk, you think he likes me? What should I do to get with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

9 February 2009 (F) - Ok it was me ,my twin,my boyfriend,his brother,his friend and we were hangin out at his brother house and my boyfriend didn't talk to me or anything not one word was said between us and when it was time to go home he got frustrated cause my ...

I just had to hear his voice

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9 February 2009 (F) - Okay, So me and and this guy broke up and and we dated for a long time and and i miss him alot and and we still talk and and say i love you but he gets mad at me alot and and i just can't take it. . .i love him so much and and i ...

Should I be dating him before we have sex?

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9 February 2009 (F) - So me and and my ex have been talking about having sex and and all that stuff and and i love him very much so i know it would not be a mistake if i did it but i have one question should i be dating him before we do...

I have a hard time getting boyfriends because I'm in a wheelchair

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9 February 2009 (F) - ok, i have a hard time getting boyfriends...or even guys to like me becuz im in a wheelchair. i feel really left out alot becuz all my friends are dating. i've tried dating websites, chat rooms..i dunno what to do ne more...and my friends say they ...

I want to sleep with one and date the other!

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9 February 2009 (F) - Greetings all! I met these two guys through my friend and we all partied together. I was drunk and made out with one of them two nights in a row, although he wanted to do more but I didnt let him. He is an exchange student who will only be here six ...