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Archived questions from: 18 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My friend is planning on cheating on his girl..what am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - My friend started dating a girl i sort of have known for a while a month ago. They seem to be getting along fine, but recently they haven't been spending to much time together which is mainly because they are both pretty busy which is ...

I need some "first time" advice.... quick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - For the past year my best friend and I have been getting closer. We have decided to have sex for the first time this Friday, so in two days. Is there any advice somebody can give on what to do and what not do? This is my first time but not hers. So ...

I don't want to be the "fill in guy"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - For a couple of years I have had very strong feelings towards a friend of mine. However I never tried to push this feeling, and so we remained "just friends". I would occasionally drop in a cheesy line, or a small flirt, but nothing serious. ...

I'm freaking out after my horrible sex experience with my BF, can you help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - So i'm seventeen and my boyfriend and i had sex last night as a late valentines day present and now i'm freaking out. Well my boyfriend kind of pressured me into having sex at this camping trip and he didnt stop when i told him to stop being so ...

I think he's cheating, but I'm not sure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Im having trouble in a relationship and Idk if he's cheating or if I should leave him,his 24 and I 18and he also has a child.we only see each other 3 times a month, he doesn't have a cell phone so I can't get into contact with him, I can only speak ...

What's going on in his head? I need advice

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I started dating my first boyfriend a month ago.I am just turning 18 and he is about to turn 19. He spoils me,and takes me out to nice restaraunts,and I lost my virginity to him acouple weeks ago. eveybody thinks he is my prince charming including ...

Sex after dating him for 5 years - would this be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - and im 16 and i was wondering if i wanted to have sex with someone i been dating for 5 ears would it be wrong if i had sex with him since i know we will be together for longer time?...

I just wanted to know how I keep it at the level of 'potential' girlfriend, without getting too close.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I've met a lovely guy, and have been on a few dates as well as talking on the phone/online etc. He has been very open with me from the start that he isn't sure what he wants yet, We have both just come out of bad long term relationships. ...

Where did all the blood come from???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a big concern here this morning... I lost my virginity 3 days ago - Sunday night, to be more specific. I had some light bleeding that went on during the next day and a half. By Tuesday night, it had stopped completely. This...

How do I get this girl to lay off my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm 13 and I live in the nice part of Kent. I'm really stuck at the moment because I have a really nice boyfriend, and we used to share everything, except now I have a problem - my best friend, who went out with him in year 7 is being a ...

I've cheated and been taken back, but can I still be friends with "the other guy"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I've been with for a bit more than a year, but before our anniversary we fell out (Broke up and made up 4 times) and I cheated on him with our friend who had a crush on me. The friend shares a lot of interests and ho...

Can she keep using the kids against him to make sure we stay apart or could we be together and him still see his kids???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old girl and I was seeing a man of 33. We have known each other for nearly 5 years but we were only seeing one another for about a year and a half 2 years. When we first got together he had a girlfriend which I knew about and two kids ...

He finds it so difficult to move out because of the children...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Myself and someone I work with fell in love with each other about 5/6 months ago... we both told each other and things progressed in to a "love affair". There was one problem though. I had a boyfriend, who I ended with because I had no feelings for ...

How can I fix the relationship & make him see what he wants?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - hi, im 16 and female. i was pregnant 4 months ago but i had a still birth i developed an eating disorder the only thing i cling to is my beloved boyfriend weve been together 2 years and he asked me to marry him on valentines day. i know were ...

I'm always the single girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - hey im almost 15 years old, and ive like this guy who is going out with one of my sort of friends. (we arent really close or anything, but we are friends) i dont often feel this strongly about guys and now i finally find a guy i could see myself ...

I'm worried I won't be able to hold onto her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Well here is my situation: Me and my girlfriend have known each other for over four years we have been practically been best friends.. and just recently begun going out for about 3 months now..i am 19 she is 18.. Here is my question: She wants to...

Why did he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - when me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time [we have been together well over a year and it wasnt so long ago that we did it] it was really good, despite being told the first time is always rubbish. it only lasted a few minutes but, just as ...

I think he dumped me cause I passed gas during anal sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I started dating my first boyfriend last year and all was going well until about 6 weeks into it and we started doing anal sex on and off for a few months, and it seemed nearly every time we did it after 2 or 3 minutes it I needed to break wind 3 or ...

Found out from my friend he is seeing someone else and am crushed...please help...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old and i just found out that this guy i liked is going out with someone else. We had been texting each other all them time everyday for about two weeks and i had really thought he liked me or at least i hoped he did. Even though w...

Marriage before I go away to the navy??? Or not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says that he wants to marry before I go into the NAVY and that this is our engagement stage.... oh yeah we have been dating for 7 months... but any how when I tell our mutural friends he comes back and asks me why did I tell them that ...

How do I talk a girl into trying/having anal sex?...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I have this fetish with having anal sex with girls. A lot of girls won't even try it but I have a real big fetish with it. How do I talk a girl into trying/having anal sex?...

My g/f thinks I won't wait until shes ready to have sex... What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - I am 19, my gf is 16. We have only been togheter for a month but already talked about sex. She is a virgin and I have slept with 5 girls in the past. She said that she wants to wait until she's ready and I tell her that I respect that and am willing ...

My g/f has self esteem issues, how can I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend at times has selfesteem issues..one moment she is telling me how great i am and sometimes when she mentions it shes crying saying she doesn't deserve how i treat her and she doesn't understand why i love her i deserve better....usually ...

What's going on? Am I ready for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - There's this guy at my school that I really like. Whenever we try to talk to each other we get nervous. I get sweaty between my legs and I feel a yearning for him in my clit and vagina. What's going on? Am i ready for sex?...

Did my 15 year old boyfriend leave me because I wasn't pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend is fifteen and I'm fourteen. we were dating for around three months before we broke it off, but we had other 'flings' prior to that. Needless to say, I fell for him long ago, and I never got back up. My ex lives about two hours aw...

I was wondering can vaginas get tighter, because I have a really tight one.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I've had sex in a car before the break out bleeds, and he got his penis in me pretty easily. Then he tried a bed today and he had a lot of trouble getting his penis in me today. I was wondering if vaginas could get tighter, because I have a really ...

I am leaving in 3 months. Is opening up worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

18 February 2009 (?) - Hello, Ok. the problem is simple. I miss my ex, but I do not love him, if it makes sense. I miss our moments and I wish me and my bf had those momenst too. (we've been together for almost 4 months) not exactly the same, but that things were similar....

How to make a player fall in love with you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - How to make a player fall in love with you. I don't like to play games but I deserve a really cute guy I'm cute and the cute guys are always players. So how to I get myself one?...

He is so established and knows what he wants, and one thing he wants is a woman who will have sex with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Dear Readers, I met this guy Dec 23. I am head over heels for this man, I am 19 and he is 28! He is so established in life, but most of all his is very religous as I am! His words sit in my head, when he touches me I stop breathing, just yesterday ...