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Archived questions from: 17 February, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I learn to be less clingy???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are kind of broken up, but at the same time we're not. He said I'm too clingy! What can I do so I won't be so clingy because I want to get back with him really bad and I want to fix this! Please help...

15 and wanting a baby!

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old, and my boyfriend and I have been trying to have a baby for three months. My boyfriend is 18, and we both have agreed we're ready. We already live together. I don't have to worry about dropping out because I do online schoolin...

My friends did the worst thing ever... they told him I like him!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I really like this guy more than I've liked any one before and my friends went and did the worst thing ever and told him I like him and he said he don't like me but I always catch him looking at me and I've liked him for the longest time and I just ...

What age does puberty end for guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I know you have penis questions all the trime on this site but I really need to know... when does puberty usually end for guys? I think I started when I was 11 and now I'm 14. I feel really insecure about my penis size. When it's flacid it's aro...

I am having a baby boy and I need help with names!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

17 February 2009 (?) - HELLO!! I am very excited, and I know this is a relationship site but I would very much appreciate your opinion? I am havinga baby boy in a like two weeks and me and my husband can't agree on the name. We want something powerful and I was think...

I'm over my ex and dating again... so why do I still keep thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - My ex broke up with me 4 months ago and like I'm dating and I'm confident but I still find myself thinking about what it would be like to be with him. I don't understand....

If he's ever single again what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Okay, so here goes. There is this guy, we'll call him bob. Bob claims to be straight, but he has also told me that he loves me. Bob and I are very good friends, and I think he means love in the friend way. He has come out before as "Bi" but take...

Should I ask her out and any tips for how to handle getting nervous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Prom is just around the corner and I don't really have anyone to go with planned. Well today me and my friend talked with a girl I have a little bit of a history with. I used to hang out with her cousin, and back then she showed interest in me as ...

Is excessive masturbation the cause of his lack of love-making?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a sex problem. My boyfriend of five months is unable to have sex with me. We get to the stage, past all the foreplay, and then he loses his erection. Sometimes he fails to get one at all. I hate to sound sex mad but the lack of "action"...

Why did this text make me feel angry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Well a long story short, I feel anxious about something and don't have a clue why? 7/8 months ago a guy stayed at mines, we were drunk, he was given me kissEs, groping me, he didnt care when I says I would help him with down stairs(when he was, lets ...

I don't NEED a guy, but I really WANT one. Why could this be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Im 16, soon to be 17. I've only had one boyfriend, which was in May 2008, but it ended before it started. We didn't kiss or get intimate in any way as it was my first. He was the only guy that liked me back. However, I really really want a gu...

Do I tell my ex how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I still have feelings for my ex and its been bothering me so much lately, because we are really good close friends and im finding it hard hiding my feelings. Theres two reason why i don't wanna tell him how i feel. One is because i don't think he ...

Should I stop having sex with my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

17 February 2009 (?) - I´m in college and I have sort of fallen in love with one of my teachers. I did have sex with him once. I didn´t feel bad about it, but he kept saying how sorry he was. He says it´s not the right thing to do, but he doesn´t really do any action t...

He couldn't penetrate me, so what could be the matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - OH MY GOD HELP. Ive been with my boyfriend about a month and already love him so much and we both think we're ready for sex. So today he was round mine and we were getting very close and intimate and he whispered to me he has condoms. So he w...

I find her attractive but I'm the shy type...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - So here's a question that is probably asked in different ways, countless times on here. There is a girl in my environmental studies class who I find attractive. We haven't talked to each other, and I'm not really sure if she thinks anything of me or ...

Staring and staring? Is he playing mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - We used to flirt with each other and he used to act like he likes me but then he stopped. And there's this one girl who told him that she had a crush on him and he said that he liked her back. They're not dating or anything. But what pisses me o...

How can I make him last longer than 20 minutes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Im 17 years old. i have a 17 year old boyfriend. when we have sex its good but its only for like 20 minutes.. then when he cums he doesnt want to do it anymore, or let me touch him down there, why is this? and how can i make him last longer? please ...

What should I do about my anal hair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - This is slightly embarressing, anyway its beginning to bother me. In between my bum cheeks, i have hair (ahh cringe!) and i would just like to know how to go about it? Like any of you have the same thing and what do you do about it? Should i shave ...

I'm stuck in the middle of their affair, what should I do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - well this is sort of for my friend(s)?? im a 18 year old bi sexual guy and my best friend is a 17 year old straight girl.. i will name her paige for this and she has been seeing a guy who is now 20 il call him micheal, well they have been seeing...

She's "talking" to other guys while we are together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and 7 months now. She's left me about 7 times to date other guys, but for some reason I always took her back. Now I'm in another situation. I looked through her phone I know it's wrong but I wanted ...

I like this girl but we are good friends and she may be out of my league!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - OK, so I'm a normal goofy guy, and i make people laugh and I like this girl who is totally crazy (a good kind though). She has been having a tough time at the moment and she keeps crying on my shoulder at school. Her boyfriend just dumped her and I ...

Is this real love or does he enjoys making me happy for the record?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I'm going out with this guy and recently I told him hurtful stuff about my past. The thing is since then he has try to make me happy. He completly changed his plans for school by coming to my school and now he wants to come and stay with me. He's ...

I am completely, irrecovably in love with my football coach

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Heres the deal. I am completely, irrecovably in love with my football coach (I'm a girl from england.) He is just over 16 years older than me and married with 3 kids, with a son not far off my age. He had kids young. The thing is I cant stop thi...

I have too many boys after me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Please help me. I don't mean to, but I always have boys chasing me. I cant help it, Im just nice to them but the always see it as more. None of them will leave me alone. I try and tell them Im not interessted but they think im playing hard to get. I ...

I make things miserable for him and he still loves me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Valentines day past, and he didn't get me anything again. I don't know what's wrong with me but it hurts and I told him before and he said he didn't know how to love me but he says he loves me, and wants to marry me, but that I have to stop getting ...

Should I have sex at 14?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - im 14 and I want sex and i dont know what to do. I already masterbate and its not good enough. what do i do?...

Planning a wedding and I'm not even engaged - have I gone crazy??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Am i crazy? im 16 and do have a boyfriend of almost a year and a half. this may sound crazy but we have spoken about SOMEDAY getting married, when we're about 22, 23. on saturday i went to a wedding and since then [today is tuesday] i have l...

Is he embarassed to say he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Ok, me and my best friend hangout with these boys. One of them is my brother and she is going out with him. When them two are together i stay behind with the boys. I find myself atracted to him and he told me he liked me too. We kissed a few time...

I feel like I'm going to pee during sex but never climax!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - When we're having sex or fingering, I always feel like i'm going to pee, but it never happens! ... Any tips?... How to get an organism?...

We don't have anything to talk about!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - ive just got a new boyfriend yesterday and weve pretty much proved we love eachother but weve realised that we dont have anything to talk about! what do i do? P.S dont give me any sexuality advice i dnt want any....

I hate myself and my personality, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Im 25, I have a good job, lots of friends and Im nice looking. But I hate myself, I hate my personality I feel that people think that Im weird or boring and dont want to hang out with me. Im also quiet when I go out with friends and worry I wont ...

Shall I wait for another week and take a test, or just brush it off as nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a horrible feeling I could be pregnant. My last period was around the start of January, and I know for a fact that I should come on by now. I've also been feeling sick in the morning, starting to get aches in my body and I *think* my...

Do LDR relationships work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - ONE SIMPLE QUESTION: DO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS (LDR) WORK? answer however you like.. yes, no, youre opinions or experiences etc. anything would be helpful! thanks...

Do I forget about this incident and hope its a one time thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - ok been on a date with this lad and it went really well we went for a walk and a long chat, i then invited him to my friends house as a few of us were meeting up he turned up drunk and he had driven as well he also smokes which kinda puts me off, ...

I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. ...

I'm not sure about these occurences with my g/f!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I met a girl online when she was dating another guy, we talked for months and had undeniable chemistry. We met 5 months after we first started talking, it was an unbelievable night, culminating in our sleeping together. At the time she had not ...

What was I to him? An ego booster?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - So there's this guy and I used to like him a lot. And he probably got the hint that I liked him coz he started acting all nice, touchy-feely and being all flirty. It seemed like he really liked me. But there were some days when he would just ignore ...

I worry about our religion, could it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Now this isn't racist or nothing like that..and i don't really want a lecture about what religion teaches etc. I'm a Sikh and i know Alot about my faith.So i'm not being brain washed or none of that rubbish. I'm nearly 19-done nothing with a g...

How do I make him wrapped around my finger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - okay I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years... everything was great and we were very happy He always showed he loved me and said nice things to make me feel good. but these past few months he has been showing that he doesnt care, he has ...

Is my ejaculatory fluid normal in colour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - Hi When I have ejaculated my cum isn't white like normal cum its more see through like its a bit white is this normal and iam 17...

What makes a boy want you even more then he already does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - what makes a boy want you even more then he alredy does? before me and my boyfriend were dating he chased after me and i played hard to get ... he chased after me and showed me how muchh he wanted me.... now we are together and he feels like he has ...

So I squirted, does it mean I orgasmed as well?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Hey, I was doing some research on this site, looking up woman's orgasms and squirting. At first I was going to ask if it was normal, but apparently it is! I'm kind of embarssed about it, it seems so abnormal! What I am wondering is when I ...

What should I do to make him show that he cares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I've been dateing my boyfriend for about two years now, we were very happy at first and i was extreamly in love with him .... however, things started to change in the past few months. He is acting like he does not need me and he does not give me the ...

What is a normal amount of sex a couple has in a week?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Can anyone tell me what is a normal amount of sex or fooling around an average couple has in a week?...

I want to pleasure my girlfriend but not have intercourse yet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - I'm 15 (she's 15 too) and from USA and i'm in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months, And i don't really wanna have sex in such a young age but i really wanna pleasure her? What do i do? do i ask or just do it? thanks...

My girlfriend has a history of cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

17 February 2009 (M) - She tells me she loves me. She swears she's not lying. I know some of her ex-boyfriends, they say she said the same thing to them. She has cheated on every boyfriend she has ever had. (She told me herself.) Every night I think about how she wo...

Two friends fighting what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Okay, so a couple years back, I met two really cool people, "Payton" and "Karry" I started talking to Karry first and she introduced me to Payton. I knew that they had dated before but now they were both single. I ended up falling for Payton and ...

If I get lost during sex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 14 year old female. I'm about to have sex for the first time. I'm not totally clueless about sex like I know what it is and how to do some stuff, but I'm afraid I'll be bad at it. What happens if I get lost and don't know what to do?...

Should I go on the pill in advance and how can I bring it up with my mum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm 18 and in a long distance relationship and have just found out that my boyfriend will be able to come over in August :) We will have been together for a year then :) Anyway, I would quite like to have sex and I think that at the leas...

What to do when you're about to fall in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5555 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - So there's this boy that I'm really feeling well I'm 14 years old and he is 17 years old and I like him a lot, I'm always thinking about him but the thing is that we go to different schools and I don't see him as much and I think, that's why we're ...