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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

We were getting along so great, and now .... we are not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - i've seen that my crushes friend added me on myspace,so i added my crush he sent me a message say hey next thing led to another i gave him my number we started flrting and texting none stop for a week then he said we should hang out the weekent came ...

I'm being bullied at school, what can I do? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I'm really scared of going to school at the moment because im being bullied. Facebook people are calling me things and telling me there's a gang after me. I havent been going to school lately, i will just walk out the door and hide in the wood or ...

She took me home so fast! Does she really just want to be friends or is she looking for more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I was at this new school, been there for about 3 days. I started talking to this girl in my last period cuz she was cute. we started talking about weed and she asked if i smoke. i said yes and she asked me if i wanted to smoke with her after school. ...

My friend has my jacket, she said she didn't, but then she wore it, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Why did she wear it? So my ex best friend has my jacket and I asked for it back a long time ago (we haven't been friends for 7 months on the 13th) and she said that she didn't have it, but she wore it to school today and for the past two weeks sh...

I am attracted to older guys of about 28, could it be because I miss my Dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Why am I attracted to older men? As in old, I mean guys from 28 years or older. I don't know if it's important, but my dad recently died - so maybe I like older men because I want to love a man who reminds me of my dad? I even found myself flirting ...

I love my boyfriend but I fancy his best friend!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - im in a relationship with a boy i really like but.... before i got with this boy i got to know his best friend first and now i think im falling him, i dont know why and i dont understand why i really want to stop liking his best friend but how d...

Why does he always talk about sex to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I have an odd question to ask. My best guy friend and I have our free period together, when the teacher doesn't have a class. So basically it's just him and I and we talk the whole time. Anyway, he always brings up sex, especially me having sex ...

Should I say yes to his proposal... or am I too young?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - 1)My boyfriend and I are both 16. Him and I have connected on an extremely deep level and already talk about marriage and kids. we've been dating for 7 months, and his friends and mom have told me he's planning to propose (they showed me the ring ...

How can I give a good handjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Tomorrow night I'm going to my boyfriend's house and we agreed that we were ready and mature enough to give that step in our relationship. How can I give a good handjob? ...

How do I initiate giving my boyfriend a blowjob?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Okay so here's the thing. I'm most likely going to give my boyfriend a blowjob sometime soon, and I was just wondering how I could get to that moment to where I am. You know what I mean like do I just say hey I'm going to give you a blowjob! Or like ...

Does she like me or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - So, i like this girl and ive liked her for a while (since late october). But recently like about 2 weeks ago, my good friend said he liked her and he flirts with her a lot and she kinda flirts back with him but not as much as him. And when we have ...

Ex won't take no for an answer and has anger issues, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - He won't take no for an answer and he's been violent in the past so I'm scared of what to do next. :( Texts: (btw, the guy he's talking about is my best mate.) Him: y cant i b ur bf still?xxx Me: Cause you argue about the same stuff everyday an...

Does she really want to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Theres this girl that I am real good friends with and I honestly love her and am willing to do anything for her. The reason I am righting this is because she has a boyfriend that she says she loves more than anything in the world, but every time I ...

Is it a coincidence that he keeps showing up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have a history with this guy and I seem to have always loved him( even though there are times when I have hated him)We didnt really end in the best way- yet it wasnt the worst. Well I recently decided that Im done with the boys since they ...

When you are friends with your ex, what is the best way to act to get him to show even more interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Well I have a very simple question and I hope I can get as many replies as possible ... males and females pleasssseee ... so here's my question when your friends with your ex and he is giving you mixed signals what is the best way to act to get him ...

I am confused, I love and hate my ex boyfriend, how can I keep my cool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I am confused I love and hate my ex boyfriend. I know i can never date him again cuz he was a jerk and would use me but that was at the end in the begining he was realy sweet and kind, thats why i love him but now were over and hes being a real big ...

Should I Let Him Go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Okay, me and my boyfriend Jack* have been together for six months, I moved in with him four months ago when he found out my father was abusing me (my father said I could go live with Jack if I never went home again..I was fine with that) Anyway...

I love myself but this girl makes me feel ugly...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - i fell really ugly because there is this one girl where i liv and she looks like lady gaga she idleises her sum but she calls me fat and ugly am i how can i tell... i am 16 years of age and im 5'5 i am 12stone i have black hair that is sholder lengh ...

How can I gain confidence in school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - hi again! I am having problem about cofidence, so can you help me in that? Plz, as i told i am a shy guy but very confident also, but i dont what happens to me in school? When my teachers asks questions from me, i dont give the answer even when i ...

Was he joking around or serious? I couldn't tell

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - here goes, so lately me and my friend have been flirting abit and i like him so much hes everything i look for in a boy he has blond hair, brown eyes, hes slightly taller than me, hes slim and he has braces(dont ask). At first i thought he liked...

Somethings missing from my new relationship...i still long for my old half-lover/half-friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - So, I have a friend, a boy, who means a lot to me about 4 years by now. And now when I`m in a relationship, I started to miss him. We were much closer before, and I was always hoping that we will become more then just friends cause he used to give ...

Ideas for our 1 year of dating anniversary...???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I need help quick please! Our 1 year anniversary is coming up and i dont know what to get her. I am writing her a letter but i dontknow what else to give her. I have already given her many stuffed animals before and a necklace, i dont know what to ...

Please help me understand boys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - hi i need help understanding boys. how they flirt, what they enjoy talking about, what they find funny, are they really as laid back as they seem. any thing really cos i am clueless. so if any guys or gals here have any info on how boys tick please...

Am I a lesbian? Will I ever fall in love again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - So I haven't had feelings for a guy since last year. I went out with this guy and he gave me goose bumps, he made me smile and laugh. But he cheated on me, then he dumped me by getting my two friends to call me up. Three days later he had a new ...

Help!!! Why is he acting this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Theres a guy in my year who i really like, we didnt used to talk much but recently he's been really (kinda over)friendly n spoke to me loads. but last time i was in a lesson with him he was with lots of his mates and he wouldnt look me in the eye. ...

How many times a day should you masturbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - i know it sounds weird but i really want to know. how many times should a person masturbate. because i do it 5-6 times a day which i think it is unhealthy. i tried stopping but i just cant. so tell me how times so i can be convinced and limit ...

Is it wrong to tease my female best friend when I only like her as a friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - hello everyone, just a simple question, is it wrong to tease a female bestfriend? like hugging too much, acting romantic toward her a lot, being overly nice to her, holding her hand. i only want to be friends and only like her as a friend though...

If we are friends how come he doesn't message me like he does other friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - hey again :) ok... theres this guy in class. he's one of my best friends. the thing is we became best friends all of a sudden. i mean we've known each other for a year and a half, initially we hardly used to speak to each other. n in the past two...

I like this girl and am not sure if I should let her know I want to be more than friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I have this friend, I liked her a lot for some time and I eventually told her, but she had already gotten a boyfriend and sort of friendzoned me. I stopped all kinds of contact with her for around five months. Two months ago we saw each other at a ...

He bought condoms was that a BIG hint?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much. He bought condoms righttt infronttt of me and I dont know why. Hinting? How do I hint that I would like to be fingered? Im not shy, neither is he. I just dont know how to tell him hey...Im up for it?...

I want to experiment more buy my g/f says its too weird

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Ok, i have been wanting to ask fro some advice. My girlfriend of about 10 months barely gave me my and her first hand job about a week ago, and it was also the first time i rubbed/fingered a girl and it was her first time too. She ended up liking ...

Does she fancy my friend or me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

Help...I'm pregnant...again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Ok.... Well me and my Boyfriend have been dating alil longer then 4months... yesterday i found out i was pregnant... Scared shitless and verry unexpected... but we were taking the risk im not on birth control and he hated condoms... so we used the ...

Does pre-cum contain sperm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - Does Pre cum have sperm in it? I wiped it off myself still yet to cum and the decided to finger my girl friend there was time in between and i tried to wipe as much off onto another surface... i was just not thinking...

My ex is threatening to rape me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

14 December 2009 (?) - help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say: "listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona...

Do teen guys like "it" shaved?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - So I'm a 14 year old girl and I want to know... do guys from 14 to 17 years old like "it" shaved? I am too young to go that far, but I'm really curious about it! And I want to be ready in case "something" happens! Thanks!...

Help..how to seduce my cousin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hey, So my cousin's really hot. He's 17 and I'm 14. We chat sometimes but we never flirt, and he has a girlfriend. But I really want to get him to notice me! How can I do so? Please don't say "you're too young" or "it's your COUSIN get real". F...

Could our adolescent sex play have turned her into a lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - When I was younger, me and my cousin played doctor and it went a little too far (sex, anal sex and oral sex). I was 11 years old and she was 10 years old. She was the one that talk me into these acts but after the first few times, she did not have ...

I want to date her but don't want to ruin the friendship in case she declines

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I met this girl about 4 years ago. But we never really spoke properly until about a year ago. For the last year, we have spoke basically every single day, sometimes for up to like 12 hours, but the problem is all this takes place on MSN and not in ...

Why am I attracted to older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I am seventeen and a senior in high school. I have a little bit of a problem. I'm only attracted to older men. My friends try to set me up with people in my grade, but I always say no. They ask me why not and I have to lie to them, because I'm ...