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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

She is blaming me for my ISP problems

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - my girlfriend is pissed at me and wont talk to me because i keep disconnecting because of my internet was stuffing up on msn... i was full stressign and trying to reconnect but then when i got back on she said that when i kept disconnecting she ...

How can I introduce myself to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I know this guy in my gym class and I asked him to ask the guy I like if he knew me and he said no.. so then he asked the guy I like if he had a girlfriend and he said he didnt, so then he asked the guy I like if he would consider going out with me ...

Why is my dad acting so protective?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I graduate this month and I turn 18 in July. I don't plan on staying in town when I go to college and my boyfriend doesn't want me to be alone (good thing too). So I told my father and he flipped saying "not while he [my father] is still around." ...

How do I fix my marriage ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Me and my husband just had a baby 5 weeks ago and ever since we fight and for some reason he irritates me so much he is a marine so I understand he works a lot everyday but he comes home from work and "relaxes" he doesn't help with the baby he ...

Do you think it's possible that this guy might have something weird going on with the neice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - My friend has been chatting online to a guy that we both know in a round about way. I know the guy's neice, and she apparently goes round to his house every single weekend. The guy is 18 years older than the neice, and my friend says that the guy ...

How do I handle this situation? What would YOU do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I hope you can help me.. I'm just a guy that has never been in a real relationship and have never been kissed. A few months ago I met this girl through a friend of mine, we became friends and we talked to each other about personal t...

Drifting Apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - i have been in a relationship for just over three months now, and it seems that in the last few days we are drifting apart... in the beggining of the relationship things started off quite quickly, and then immediately slowed almost to a halt. there ...

How do you know when your hymen is gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - How do you know when your hymen is gone? I've managed to stick 2 fingers in there and a 6 inch dildo. Is it still gonna hurt my first time??...

How do I help my friend forget her love from 2 years ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hi a very good friend of mine had a crush with a guy 2 years back. He also liked her but he was new in school and didnt know other girls. They both had silent love for a month then he started ignoring her. After time he told another girl that he ...

I'm not sure I feel the same way I once felt about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Okay, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 months now. he's one of the few good guys left in the world. he's sweet, nice, and caring. but the only problem is he doesnt go to the same school i do and he doesnt live near me. ...

Every time I have sex, it always hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - well im a teen and been having sex for a while and it seem like every time i have sex it always hurts. like it's the first time .And i dont know what to do ...

I miss my dogs and I can't have any now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (?) - My dog died 1 and a little more than half a year ago, he ran after a cat on the road and teenagers who were going way to fast hit him. Then I got another dog and since we moved, where we live now we cant have pets so we had to send him back too. ...

This MSN guy says he wants to have sex with me and we've just met!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - If this sounds a little weird, I've just gotten out of a difficult relationship so I'm paranoid about new guys ha. I started talking to a guy on msn 2-3 days ago and he lives near me but we haven't met, the thing is that he says he REALLY likes ...

She said she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me but now she has left me for someone else!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Hey. I just found out last night that my gf of 2 years broke up with me. We've been kind of off and on because we live just far enough away that we can't see each other that often. Another reason we don't see each other is because my parents hate ...

I really want to go stay with him but he is being different with me and not replying to my messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Why is he being off with me? Basically theres a guy i met on holiday, we speak everyday, we like each other. He lives 2 hours away, im going uni next year in the city he lives in. We've always spoke loads, saying how much we cant wait to ...

He's my world... so why can't I say these 3 special words to him...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - i can't say i love him and i can't say i don't. let me explain. i'm so paranoid.i worry about things i shouldn't be worrying about and i overthink things. this has been going on for exactly a year and i'm worried and i'm loosing sleep and ug...

What have I did wrong that he's acting this way towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hey im sorry if this wastes your time but i have a weird situation with a guy mate of mine. For the past nearly two years ive always felt like i get treated differently from the others. I wouldnt say always in a bad way but its definately not good. ...

I am on an emotional roller coaster and I don't know where my life is headed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - so i sat down tonight and started thinking..what am i gonna do with the rest of my life? and all i came up with was-i dont want to go to school the rest of my days and go to college and learn to do something i dont even want to do but at the same ...

Is he dangerous or harmless?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I have an online friend that is 40 years old and i'm 15. We met in a game. He plays around 7 hours per day in this game. At the beginning he spent a lot of his time with me and all our conversations were game related. He usually made me feel ...

He wants to wait but I want him now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Im 15 and a 26 year old likes me and i like him he say he'll wait till im 18 i want him now tho what should i do?...

My boyfriend is a yoyo, here, gone, here, gone, will he be back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. Well basically, I was with my boyfriend for over 8 months... my first proper relationship. He dumped me on Thursday, saying that 'he didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend right now.' Yep, I know what you're thinking, anot...

Am I bi... or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - I don't know if I am bi or straight. When I was like 10, I fell in love with this girl and I am still in love with her and have been for 9 years but I still like boys too, just not as much as I like her. So... am I bi... or straight?...

He spends more time with his male friends than he does with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Is it normal for your boyfriend to hang out with his friends 3 times a week after work without you? I know guys need time out with the boys alone sometimes but is 3 times a week to much? He only see's me twice a week on his days off. Thanks for any ...

I am getting mixed signals, and I don't know if she likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - Recently me and a girl who i got on fairly well with in the past, have got on like a house on fire. For some days we are even unseparable, well one day we literally were! As we were tied to each other by the arm so obviously we were very close that ...

I am in the middle of my own soap opera!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Well to make a few things clear i am a lesbian, but my spouse is bi sexual...and we are seniors in high school. okay so i really don't know ware to begin. It all started junior year i began to like her. but she was still straight so i keep my mou...

How can I just let her down easy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

5 December 2009 (M) - hey everyone, its not really a problem but i need help. one of my bestfriends has a sister that really likes me but im not interested plus she too young. shes 13 and im 19. i just wanna know what to say to let her know im not interested without ...

What could this gunk around my eyes be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

5 December 2009 (F) - Well i Havnt Been Tested Yet Cuz Iv Been On Holz But i Need 2 Go Soon My Eyez Feel Really Hevy And It Gose Blurry Sum Times And Evry Time i Wake Up From a Sleep i Have Gunk All Round My Eyes Could Dis Be The Chlamidya Spreeding ? ...