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Archived questions from: 10 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

He's just told me he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship at the moment...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I dont like myself at the moment. Today i was incredibly happy, i realised how fantastic my friends are, im seeing a great guy... yet now i feel so so different. I have been seeing this guy for 3 weeks, and he is lovely... brought me a lovely p...

I'm torn between to different guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I'm torn between to different guys. When i say different, i meen compleatly different! The first is annoying and infuriating, he is so arragont and up himself, but he is so funny, and can be nice when he wants to be.He dosn't sound like a goo...

Do you think this boy likes me and wants to get to know me better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - There is this boy that keeps on coming to my school to pick up his friend he knows me from church but every time he is at my school he stares at me like he wants to tell me something but he nerver does? Does he like me?...

They just sit and talk about people all the time!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and at my age in my school people talk about people and i hate being talked about and i never speak up or anything in class because i don't wanna be talked about or at the centre of attention so i avoid participating in class and going to ...

I enjoy sex much more while I have my period, does anyone else agree?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - hi all. i enjoy sex much more when im on my period. it feels so good "down there". does enybody else agree? and why is this? ...

He's a senior, I'm a freshman, and he blows hot and cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Today, I was walking with my friend to go outside because of a fire alarm, and I saw him and he clearly saw me. I waved at him and he ignored me and said hi to my friend. Then afterwards when we were walking inside, I tried waving again but he ignor...

I am a 16 year old boy, strongly attracted to another 16 yo boy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - Every Friday evening I go to a youth club with 2 of my friends (for arguments sake, they’re called Keiron and Tom), both male, like myself. Every Friday after the Youth club, me and my two friends muck about, playfighting for an hour or so. ...

I would LOVE to go out with her but she only likes me as a friend...

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10 December 2009 (M) - help! i have a total crush on a girl but she doesnt like me like me she likes me as friend but thats it. i love her so much and i just wondered if anyone had any tips for me not to be big headed or anthing but im quite attractive and most people ...

I was in love with him, until he fell in love with me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I'm really confused at the moment. I really liked this guy, I kept thinking about him all the time. Then he told me he liked me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I said no. I have no idea why, but as soon as he started to like me, I completey ...

My ice cream craving!!!

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10 December 2009 (?) - Why do I have a craving of ice-cream so much? I have a bowl to the rim every day and that's not enough for me? Is this normal?...

I bought a test kit but its too soon to see if I am up the duff

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - i had sex with no condom 4 days after the last day of my period, he didn't cum but i still know there is a risk of havin a kid. what r my chances of bein up the duff do u think? got a abot 2 - 3 weeks til my period comes to worry, already got a test ...

We are not going out and he started touching me, does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - well thers this guy and we're not goin out or any thing but when we snogged he got close to me and started fellin me up what does this mean does it mean he like me as more than a friend...

I feel worthless, upset and unloved because he doesn't like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - My guy friend and I talk to each other a lot. He used to wink at me, joke around and flirt with me a lot. I really thought he actually liked me. Sadly enough, I like him a lot. On the contrary, he's always distant with me when he's around his ...

In school, I lose my confidence!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - Hi there, Ok! So i am 13 years old. I have a medium height and am little overweighed. I am very unconfident guy. When teachers asks questions, i know the answer but i cant tell it to them. If they ask me, i say that i don't know or didn't answer, ...

Shyness can get in the way!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Hey i need some help i like this boy in my college course and he is really shy and so am i but i dont think he likes me in the same way. I wanna try but i just cant get the confidence to go for it. I have tried talking to him on facebook but he o...

How will I know when he wants to kiss me?

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10 December 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend and we have never been on a date and i want 2 know how will i know when he wants to kiss me on our date...

Should we do anything about this teacher?

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10 December 2009 (F) - [Mod note: I think it's safe to assume that the poster is not between the ages of 26-29.] A new teacher came to my school this year and I don't have him except for roll call in the mornings. But my friend has him for geography, and she is the type...

Ideas on how to work on my confidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - hi guys ive got abit of a confidence crisis. I think it started in primary when i was bullied alot for how i look because i was 11 stone, was wearing glasses and my hair was terrible and i have a lisp but i wanted that to change for high school ...

What can I do to be healthier?

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10 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I am a university going girl of age 20. My height is between 5'5 and 5'6 and my weight remains between 39 to 43 kg. Recently due to severe sickness, it fell to 36 kg. I have a problem of irregular periods since my 1st period that was in my 9th ...

What do I do if my feelings aren't as strong as his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Yesterday I decided to say yes to this guy who asked me out and has really liked me for a while, it was a hard decision because I wasn't sure I wanted a relationship and I thought it would be weird for him because he likes me more than I like him. ...

Is this a phase you hit when you are under pressure?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I've been thinking about this other guy lately. He and I dated a few years ago but never got to see eachother so we decided to just be friends. I'm getting married soon to the most amazing guy ever and I really do love him with all my heart... I ...

Why do people like to inflict pain on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I've always wondered this and it's getting worse by the months. More and more people tend to be horrible to me and i don't know why. Is it because of the person i am? Or what? People like to afflict pain on me. Why? For example, one of my friend...

My crush for a college tutor

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Hey i need help as i am 16 and i have just started college and i fancy my 35 year old tutor. He takes me for most of my classes and i cant stop thinking about him. It started strangley from the first time i had him realy as he seemed really n...

No period for 2 months--am I pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Well, last October me and my boyfriend had sex. I am getting a little bit worried that I may be pregnant. I havent had my period for two whole stinkin months!!! Could i be pregnant? I'm 14 and I can barely take care of myself. Help please?...

We've been seeeing each other for months but I think he's losing interest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - ok so im only 16 an iv been meeting this boy about 11 months recently got togther..but often ignores me an talks about other girls to me. i don know wether he likes me anymore or is cheating on me....

He says he likes me too, but I wonder if he's playing me

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10 December 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I really like and he knows it. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We talk, text each other, sometimes talk on the phone too. He acts like he likes me. Like, I sent him a text saying that I was talking to my guy BFF and that ...

I'm afraid to pursue a girl who likes me because of what my friend says

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - So I'm talking to this girl who likes me, and I really like her. Its been almost a week, and things are going great but my best friend is getting in the way sorta now. He just found out today that we are talking and the first thing he said was "don...

I hate my life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - pleasee hellppppppp me..im an 18 year old male that hates his life and everything in it..i think i am veryy uglyy. fat people tell me im ugly all the time and when they do it brakes my heart because i should be used to it by now. i was always t...

Are these symptons a sign of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - i'm 14 years old, and im stressing because i think i might be pregnant. recently i had sex with my boyfriend, but only twice before we dicided to stop becoz it didnt feel right. ive been having many pregnancy symptoms like missed period, i have h...

I get all uptight around women and I want to unbend a little

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - Guys and gals, I have a problem. For a long, long time I've convinced myself that I'm just incompatible with women. That I'm not handsome enough, fit enough, funny enough etc to draw the attention of any females. I've also told myself that women ...

He is the sweetest guy but after a month I don't want to date him any more!

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10 December 2009 (F) - I have the sweetest guy ever. He's the one every girl wants but the thing is I don't want him and I don't know what to do because he's so in love with me. We've known each other for a year but just started dating a month ago and now Im just tired of ...

How do I get over my baby's dad?

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10 December 2009 (F) - My question is how do I get over my baby's dad? we only dated for 2 months i got pregnant on the second month. For reason i had to move back to my old state where i then had my daughter and we have been talking over the phone for about a year now...

Would I be more manly if I played a sport?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - I am 15 and i don't feel like a normal teen boy i don't play sports nor watch them (i'd rather watch cartoons) I don't try to go out with girls or anything im just nerdy and quiet and im the only child so im used to being lonely and to me i feel ...

What can I do to still feel like he's around and not have to cry every night because I miss him?

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10 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We talk on the phone and text every day. We're always in contact, but tomorrow he's leaving for his winter vacation and won't be back until January 7th. That's 4 weeks! He's going to a ...

What are causing these pains in my back and my stomach?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I am having really bad pains in my back and in my stomach it feels like I kinda have real bad gas in my back it even hurts when I breathe in too hard. Now I been having symphtoms of a bladder infection so I thought this was what I had. I have been ...

I just can't stop texting him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I still can't seem to stop messaging him and texting him... he always blows me off and says he's busy and can't talk etc... I can't blame him for not really wanting to talk to me but I can't seem to stop ...

Why are orgasms on my period better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

10 December 2009 (?) - Why was the orgasms I had today on my period better than they ever were when I am not on it?...