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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How to stop being nervous about sex and such!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - im fine with foreplay with my girlfriend and fingering her and stuff but when it comes to her giving me handjobs and blowjobs and sex im just nervous and it is ruining my erections. how do i stop being nervous cuz im nervous that im not big at all ...

How do I find out if my girlfriend is cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - hey im 16 and iv been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years nd 8 months i think shes cheating on me but i love her and dont want to split up with her i just want to no if shes cheating on me how can i find out if she is cheating on me?...

Should I tell my Dad I'm dating a black guy when he said he wouldn't approve?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I'm dating a black guy, we're both 16. My mom is fine with it, but my dad has always told me he wants me to date white guys only, which I think is awful for him to say. So I haven't told my dad yet. I'm worried how he'll react. Race has not come...

Is it possible to get pregnant if he hasn't penetrated me fully?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hi is it possible to get pregnant without properly having sex? Like can i get pregnant if he is just rubbin his penis up and down the inside of my vagina but not actually going right in? ...

How can I stop my former teacher from sexually abusing someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I am desperately seeking advice or help on this -- I am 19 now; but when i was at school i had a bad experience with my teacher. I had my shirt tucked in by him when i was 11 and thus established a crush on him which pushed me to move into his grou...

I need help to drive my boyfriend wild!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hey all! I'm an 18 year old female and I was just wondering if anyone had some tips for me. My boyfriend is great and he does things to me that just drive me crazy (in the good way of course) and i was just wondering if anyone had some secret things ...

She lets them feel her up and I don't want to sit with her anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - ok here goes one of my best friends is kind of a slag, i mean shes pretty shes really thin has big boobs and is really confident, but even tho she has a boy friend she still lets all of our male friends feel her up at dinner time, she trys to make ...

I get very worked up watching lesbian porn, does that mean I am a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I am quite young. Like in my early teens. And I just Started Watching Porn. I watched a man and women having sex and it didnt work me up. But I watched Lesbian Porn and I got Very excited with it. It made me wet and very horny. So now i wa...

I get an erection too easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - hi. um i want know how stop an erection when im with my gf? even putting my arm around her waist when we watch tv gives me a woody what do ido?...

Do guys always take action when they get a hard on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - hey guys, ok my question is mainly for guys. I was just wondering if when u guys get hard do u always act on it! like the other day me and bf where sitting on the couch kissing and just chatting away when i could feel him get hadr but he never tr...

How do I make my friend stop touching me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - My best guy mate keeps touching me? He comments on the size of my boobs and touches my ass and my boobs, its not as big an issue as it used to be but ive told him not to and its really starting to piss me off now. What do i do to make him stop ...

Period ended 2 weeks ago but I found some blood today!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - I finished my last period between 1 and 2 weeks ago but today i found a little blood in my knickers? Is this normal?...

Why cant I move on?! I just want to be happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Why Cant I just get over him?! He treated me like I was nothing I knew this and now I know what a stronghold he had over me.I have no contact with him at all, yet still some part of me still melts when he walks past. I hate that part of mys...

Scared my jealousy is making me a bad friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - My mate is overweight, spotty and has bad teeth, the only attractive physical feature she has is that she has big boobs. She cheats on every single guy she meets (literally) and she has sex with any guy that looks at her. Thing is, i'm sick of guys ...

I am crushing on a celebrity and my friends are teasing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - hi again aunts, im just curios about something, ok so ive completely fallen for joe off the x factor i mean come on he is fit, any way i told my friend i like him and 4 of my friends who are boys keep saying hes gay an this really annoys me and my ...

Worried about the party tomorrow night

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. Basically I have party tomorrow night and I'm so neverous about it. I'm know once I'm there I'll enjoy myself but, building up to it, I'm dreading it. I've bought a dress and although I do look nice in it, I'm worried about peoples' r...

This pervy man has threatened me, posted pictures of me on the internet and I just don't know what to do!,

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - This might seem like a strange question to ask help for, but I don't know who to turn to for advice. When I was 16 I was friends with an older man who told me he was a photographer. I was happy at first because I was studying photography at c...

I have only one ball!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Hi, im a 17 year old guy still in school im a virgin and my dick was 6" last time i checked maybe 5 months ago but thats not my problem my problem is i only have one ball in my sack nd i can feel the other one to the left right above my dick nd this ...

Stimulating my boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hi can anyone help me. I have met a new guy and we have had intercourse on a couple of occasions but he has hinted that he would like a hand job. One problem. He doesnt seem to have any skin to pull up and down over his penis. he has a plump shiney ...

I wish he would treat me better and be there for me as a friend! Is that to much to ask?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - How can I move on when whatever I do he still talks to me? I and my friend/crush have been having some problems. He ignores me and treats his other friends better than me. So I’ve been confused. I already told him that I like him and he acted nor...

Should I presume my boyfriend is cheating on me with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - hi i know i seam to b asking lots but that's only because i've found somewhere to get it off my chest and u guys have helped with the other 2 questions. my third and last thing is to ask should i be jealous of my boy friend and my best mate are ...

All about the senior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Well, once again it's about the senior. He's sending me mixed signals again. He's been ignoring me for about a day or two, but then suddenly today, he starts to talk to me and acts all sweet again. Then he starts texting me again after about a week. ...

Help for a tight foreskin???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Hey... I'm 14 years old an I have a slightly embarassing problem. All my life I've had a tight foreskin, it's impossible to retract. I'm a little concerned because I don't want this to restrain or prevent my sex life in the future. I really don't ...

School cast system (or something similar) eating away at me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - So I have a crush on a teacher of mine. I'm in high school, and I know nothing could ever happen--or at least, the REALITY of the situation tells me that. He's not so much older than me (there's only a six year difference), and he's actually quite ...

How do I become her close friend without messing up her relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - Ok to start off there is this girl I really like. And she's sort of my friend. But she has a boyfriend already. I'm not going to interfere with that cause that make me an A hole. But I want to be a better friend nut not sire how. I talk to her ...

What's the best way to get in touch with him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Well, I'm just wondering if anyone can help me with this problem I have. It's a long story. When I was 15 I had this huge crush on a guy that was also a brother of one of my best friends at the time. I was (and still am) very shy and never told h...

Serious doubts... or marriage jitters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we are making plans to get married. i have known him and his family my whole life, i love him and so do my parents wich is a big plus. But for a couple of days now i have been feeling really ...

I hate my life... I feel worthless, lonely and pathetic... please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

15 December 2009 (M) - I hate my life. I feel worthless, lonely and pathetic. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not very social, i don't have a social life. I feel all alone, with no one who really cares.I don't really have any true friends and i've never had a ...

What should I do, I'm afraid to hang out with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - So my ex boyfriend says he wants to hangout wiht me. Im afraid to though. When we dated he was abusive to me and tried forcing me to pleasure him. So what do i do? We have been friends for so long. But what if he gets me alone? Im scared he willt ry ...

Tips on taking steps?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

15 December 2009 (F) - Okay so i've been in a relationship for a while and my boyfriend wants to do some stuff. I've been fingered before and that's it. I started giving a guy a handjob but had to quit. My current boyfriend is older than me and i'm nervous about doing ...