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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Losing control with teenagers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - A couple of days ago I asked for help with my teenage sons and mentioned that I removed the older from my home due to violence. i had a few good helpful responses. This evening I asked my 15 year to wash his hair. I gave him money for barber...

He wants me to have his baby but I'm so not ready yet! How do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Ok! I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and hes soooooooooo ready for me to have his baby. I love him so much thats my baby but I'm not ready yet. I want to but not just yet. How do I tell him this??????...

I haven't heard from my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks...

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6 December 2009 (F) - I havent talked to my boyfriend in almost 2 weeks. I messaged him on facebook and asked him what's going on and he messaged me back last night and said "you told me to f*** off, so I did." I dont remember ever saying that to him, and it doesnt m...

He keeps saying we don't have a future after 2 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (?) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years. But whenever i want to talk to him about the future, he freaks out and we always end up having a huge argument and we both end up crying. In the end he always apologises and we make up ...

I haven't been on my period for nearly 6 months now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I am 17 and i havent been on my period for nearly 6 months now. My last period was near the end of july and it is now december. I had sex in september and tried a withdrawel after the condom splitting. I have been to a clinic and took a pregnancy ...

I'm not sure how to go about getting him to see me as a girl, rather than a friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Hey :) Well ive just started a new job as a waitress, and ive met lots of new people. Theres a guy who works behind the bar, and im sorta interessted in him. But I dont think he would be interessted back for the following reasons: Im the younges...

Why will my girlfriend not tell me her secret?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - There's a girl who told me she has a secret that makes her cry every time she thinks about it. she wont tell me at all and we're going out. She's dropped a couple hints here and there but I'm confused about the whole thing.... I think she is being ...

How can I get past this emotional baggage and not be so upset?

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6 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I've asked a couple of questions here before. I'm not really sure how to phrase this as a question, I just need some advice. Bear with me as it's a bit of a long story. There's this guy, "Chaz", who I met about three and a half years ...

My mum wants my weekends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - OK, so my parents hav split up. Not legally but they dont live together and dont love each other anymore. I have a girlfriend which im really seriosu about and want to be with her as much as possible. The thing is that my mum wants to see me almost ...

Loving a pregnant teacher

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I never thought that I was a lesbian until I saw this new teacher at school. She came in the second term and she was just perfect.I dont have any friends at school and so I am usually very friendly and nice with the teachers.She was so nice with me ...

My life is boring and I get jealous of other peoples lives!

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6 December 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and my life is so boring i don't get to go out much because i don't know anyone so i stay at home all the time. I have one friend but he's boring as a stick he's the type of good person i wanna go out with but he doesn't like to do anything i ...

Why has he suddenly gone all cold with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Hi All, I accidentally came across this site whilst trying to find ways of getting over someone. I really need some advice...my brain knows what I need to do..yet my heart isnt listening...what is the best thing to do? 3 months ago, there was a ...

I want to stop feeling so depressed all the time - how can I change that and make myself more likable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old and am in year 11 at school and I feel depressed all the time. I have 2 close friends but I'm not very good at making friends and they both have other friends that they can hang around with. I sometimes hang around with one group of ...

I don't want to ask or accuse him of cheating when I'm not sure but I don't want to be played!

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6 December 2009 (F) - hi i'm amanda, i'm 17 and so is my boyfriend, josh. we've been dating for 7 months. ive been really upset lately and i don't know what to do about it. i have a feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me. He's always around his ex girlfriend, ...

Will he go back to his first ex or stay with me? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I looked up stuff about my boyfriend's first ex. theres plenty of stuff about him and her. and how much he loved her and how much she wants him back even though its been a year since their break up. and I've been scared ever since. what if he leaves ...

How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...

I really dislike porn! How can I get over this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I know this may sound really bad etc But I really dislike porn. I don't know why etc but I just do. Thing is, i've asked my boyfriend not to watch it, because it upsets me and I get jealous. In case he finds the girls in it more attractive than me,...

My close friend likes my teacher too, it makes me so jealous when she spends time with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - This is probably the most stupid jealousy question you've heard! But anyway, student-teacher-whatever-you-want-to-call them. I'm in one. One of my teachers is just the nicest guy etc. etc. We get on quite well, and we can have a laugh pretty eas...

How do I resolve this major fight I had with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - ok, long story (fight between friends, needs help straightening out) Well it all starts with a fan site for a band. Me and my friend are both members. What it is, is a chance for fans from all over the world to chat with each other. You can e...

Do you think I did the right thing letting him know that I recognize my mistake and giving him a timescale to come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me a few days ago because 'he didn't want the commitment of a girlfriend anymore'. Obviously I was devastated, but agreed with the break up and wished him the best, I didn't beg or plead. Just this morning, I e-mailed ...

How can I start a relationship with Jay? He's so hot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My bestie Kiara used to talk to this boy Boo and he introduced me to his friend Jay so I wouldn't be the 3rd wheel. I ended up having a one night stand with him, later on down the line I kinda K.I.T. with them for a few then hanging out with Kiara ...

I feel he's growing distant...

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6 December 2009 (F) - Lately it seems like my boyfriend and I are growing distant, we're talking less and it doesn't seem to bother him like it did before. I haven't said anything until I realized it myself I should be saying something about it, to see where his feelings ...

Fallen for a gay guy?

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6 December 2009 (F) - im so confused. ive fallen for a really nice guy the only problem is that hes gay what the hell do i do? ...

What should I do to have her when she won't break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - Ok we have known each other for almost 2 years but we are not that close to each other. She has a bf of 5 years but she wants to end the relationship. Her bf just wouldn't allow for a brake up. They broke and patch back many times. She started ...

Should I recreate a scene from the "Twilight" book?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - When I was in the 6th grade, a school right next to mine was closed down, and some of the students there came to our school. One of these students was Lisa (fake-name). A friend of mine had a crush on Lisa's friend, so a group evolved. We saw each...

Is this a good start to a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Ok I haven't been with my boyfriend that long.. and we've only known eachother for about 2 months but I'd do this with other boys I've known and been with longer aswell.. Basically I don't mind If he watches porn or kinda silly flirts with other gi...

How can I get a first date?

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6 December 2009 (F) - im almost 14 and i have never been on a date with a guy. ever! i dont talk 2 many guys at school but i would like to. if i flirt with i guy i always want him to come over and make the first move, but they never do. how do i get talkin with boys...

How can I get my wish to come true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I have a wish that reallllllly needs to come true. I try everything and wish every day. Does someone know anything to help my wish come true? Please help....

Can anyone help me with my Ipod?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I just got a new Ipod nano today, the new 5th generation and I dont like how it plays the music out loud, can somone please tell me how to like, turn it off?...

I don't want him to think I am in love with him just because we had sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 3 mo.We see each other once a wk - Mainly me initiating it.Recently we had plans and he 4got to call(he told me b4 hand that he had to help a friend but wasnt sure what day of the wk/wknd it'd be.Well It was that ...

We have both moved on but I still get a little jealous of his new girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Long story short: The ex and I broke up about a year ago after a two-year relationship. We then went on to hook up randomly throughout the last year even while dating other people. Also including once recently while I've been dating another guy. I ...

How can I please my g/friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - OK, so here is the situation. me and my girlfriend are now getting a sexualy intimate. I have lately been fingering her. It seems like she enjoys it very much. But getting her to orgasm seems difficult. She will not take off her pants. so i undo her ...

We have broken up but she doesn't want to stay connected with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - hi, me and my gf who i really cared about broke up a couple months ago we dated for a year in were actually in love.things when bad like most tyoung relationships do(im 19, she is 17). Our relationship was still good though and im not getting over ...

A girl I like says she has a big secret, and I think I know what it is!

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6 December 2009 (M) - listen to me... i have recently been talking to this amazing girl. we were talking today and she was telling me about how she was crying all the time and how one person does it to her and all this. she said it was her one secret she never told ...

Boyfriend problems... should I break up with him or what?

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6 December 2009 (F) - I'm 13 and last week I had sex, my boyfriend and i have known each other for 5 years. And have been together for 3 years. It was wonderful, he and i reached "you know what" at the almost the exact same time. He loved it, and so did i. although, when ...

Should I dress to impress or to suit myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - who do you dress your self or others? I know this question may sound silly but is been in my mind for a while now. I don't have a lot of clothes and I like to look nice. But when you don't have much to wear people tend to notice what you wear since ...

My girlfriend is 15, I am three years older, we are considering sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - I am 18, and my new girlfriend is 15. I have don't plan to have sex any time soon, but you never know. I am wondering about the legalities if I were to have sex now; is it still statutory rape because i am 18 and shes 15, if for what ever reason...

A pregnancy question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I want to kno if you can get pregnant even though the penis is not all the way inside you but the head goes in but not far while you are on top and he has precum?...

When she is out of sight she is always on my mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a problem whenever I don't see my GF for a few days I get the feeling she is cheating. I have told her I don't trust her and she was very hurt by it (I said this in anger) but still I told her I will stay on my toes! she has assured me ...

My girlfriends family keep trashing me

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6 December 2009 (M) - ok down to the question like always im dating my 18 year old girlfriend i love her and all but her family is always getting in the way i mean her dad talks trash about me as well as her grandmother and grandfather... and it annoys me and just ...

My girlfriend is put off by my orgasm

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - Some time ago my girlfriend (of a couple years) and I were making out on the couch. For the first time she put her hands down my pants and started giving me a hand job. I must say that it felt really good. In fact, perhaps too good because I ...

What does sperm taste like?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I'm thinking of giving a blowjob to my boyfriend and since it'l be my first time then ofcourse I'm abit fridged about it. I've read nearly all the answers on tecniques but I'd like to know: What does sperm taste of and whats it feel like? Li...

My boyfriend's behaviour has changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I'm in a commited relationship and have just completed 5 months. we both are really in true luv, but nowadays my boyfriend has seemingly changed.. he lives 545km away from my house.. now every 6 of month we used 2 wish each other 4 the completion ...

Sweet 16 and in love with Dad's 61 yo boss

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - hey wat up, well i'm 16 and i'm in love with my dad boss. we lived close by so we knew each other well i mean very well he would tell me about his life. We started talking more deeper and deeper and only time he told me he doesn't love his...

He has had another girlfriend, but through it all still seemed to like me!

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6 December 2009 (F) - hey jsut a curious question here because its happened to me. This guy really seemed to like me well used to and kind of still does. Is it possible for yoy to really like someone, maybe know that it can never happen(things got made difficult for us...

We broke up due to cheating, but now she is cheating with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - 5 Months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend with whom I'd had sex with and with whom I'd been with for a year and a half. She was too jealous and too clingy, and as a result of this, she split up my whole group of friends, as they felt they couldn't ...

Can I be pregnant if the guy cums on my inner thigh and I had jeeans on?

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6 December 2009 (F) - Can I be pregnant if the guy cums on my inner thigh and I had jeeans on?...