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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My boyfriend's dad hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I think i need some solid advice here... the story is that at the moment i feel really down. i have spoken to my bf about it but he dosent think that im as depressed as i think i am. as it is at the moment money from my part is really tough. ive ...

Does anyone maybe know why I had this dream and what it means?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (?) - Does anyone maybe know why I had this dream. So it started out with me sitting with my friends and then a guy came over to sit with us. The guy which we will call um Jerami (fake name for the story). So Jerami and I started talking and that...

Depressed and lonely

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I just finished school this year and i have never had a girlfriend. I'm not popular and i don't play any sports. I'm not very chatty. I prefer to be alone and be depressed. Why can't i find someone that can love me? I'm desperate....

What can I do to win her love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I'm a bit upset with the rejection I get from girls. I'm 15 and really like this girl in my year and have for ages now but she doesn't feel the same as me and I really like her, what can I do to win the heart of my love?...

How can I get a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

8 December 2009 (?) - I also want vaginal orgasms too not just clitorial. I know I have already asked this but I just dont know what to do at all. I am nervous and dont want to ask my mom because it is embarrassing but I want a toy. I dont know if she will let me nor d...

How can I get him to leave me alone!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Right. There's this guy who i met last year, and he is OBSESSED with me! I've tried to get him to stop texting me, as im with someone i love very much. He keeps saying he loves me, then when i say i dont feel the same he calls me horrible things. ...

Opinions are needed. Does she like me as more than just a friend?

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8 December 2009 (M) - I've known this girl for about 3 years and I really like her, but I don't know if she likes me. She always used to talk to me, and then the 2nd year I knew her We didn't talk that ofte, but now we talk pretty often again. She always sits at the ...

It's as if I don't exist, how can I get him to notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - hey i'm 14 and there is a boy i reeally like, but he's in the year above me and he's never noticed me, it's as if i don't exist. we've spoken before, but after he's never paid any attention to me how do i get him to notice me? x...

I like him, how can I stand out from amongst the crowd?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - This guy and I are friends, However I want to know if he likes me as more. We talk all the time, Have gone a few places in a group (ice skating) He will say hi, or wave when he sees me, and he always makes me laugh. He sometimes stares at me, and ...

Does he like me, I wanna know, how can I tell if he likes me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Does he like me? I mean, he flirts with me, no doubt, I can tell that. The problem is that he broke up with his girlfriend who was cheating on him 2 months ago, and he also flirts with one other girl, my friend. He flirts with us about the same ...

I think I made a mistake...

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8 December 2009 (F) - I 'think' I've made a mistake, i had just had a huge fight with my boyfriend and i went to a mates house, we chatted and watched movies. it got late and i stayed over i borrowed a nighty but it was a bit big and kept falling off. we shared the bed ...

How can I show him he shouldn't be nervous around me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I am having a big problem. I am in my first year of college and have fallen hard for this amazing guy. We are both crazy about each other. We started messing around but he only wants to please me... He does not ever want me to give him head or even ...

I need some tips... What can I do to show him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Ok here goes - occasionally we will hang out but not that often and when we do he doesnt talk much but when we do talk it's sooo fun and we get along really well. I'm also mates with his best friend and i get along with all his friends, but i like ...

Is he just flirting with me the way he does with other girls or does he REALLY have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Heya :) When ever I write on here, i get answers that I don't understand.. So i have decided to tell you everything. There is this boy in the same year, same form. We have been so close for about 1 year and a half now. My very strong feelings ...

What do I do about Lee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I just thought I’d write in because I am in need of some help over a boy. I mean it’s pretty weird because I don’t normally stress about boys much but this time it’s different and I am a bit confused. I’m 16 and in my last year at high school ...

Was it his ex who called him? What is he hiding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I so hate my boyfriend right now. After we got into a fight on sunday evening because of his ex he told me sorry and i forgave him. The next day we both went to work and he didnt call me the whole day like he does on a regualar basis, after work i ...

Penis problem!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - Hey guys i have a question. So im a 15 year old boy and i was wondering if you could help me. Under the head of my penis there are like tiny little bubbles that sometimes puss out white stuff. I was wondering if any of you know what it is? I'm ...

I need some flirting tips so I can get him running around after me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - i really like this boy, but the problem is that the other month i rejected him because i have some family issues and a boyfriend was the last of issues, but i let him down really badly. i want some tip on how to get talking to him again, so ...

I'm embarassed that I am still a virgin but personally I don't want to lose it yet!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - please help! i am 16, and i've not really had much relationship experience. I've liked guys a lot and almost everyone in my grade has lost their virginity. I definatly don't want to lose mine yet, but what about peer pressure? Also, the guys i like, ...

Should I be angry because I was not invited to my friends party?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - hello today a friend of mine was having a party and she invited everyone accept me.i felt hurt and my other friend who got invited said i dont deserve to go and also was saying some nasty things and untrue things about me to another mate of mine. i...

My girlfriend wants sex more than I do..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - It's been a year My girlfriend wants sex more than i do, the majority of the time i cannot climate before she does we're only young and have sex A LOT how do i regain plessure?...

Its not fair on my boyfriend to still be in love with my ex, how do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Hi My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. I'm currently with a guy who treats me far better and loves me far more than my ex. I can't seem to get over my ex, no matter what I do about it. 1.) is there anything I can do to try to get over him? 2.) I...

Why do I start to feel like this 3 months into my relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - i was with my ex for 2 years on and off, we only lasted up to 5 months each time tho because after 3-4 months id start to feel as if i no longer had feelings for him but as soon as another girl was on the scene i cudnt handle it and all a sudden my ...

I dreamed of a boy I no longer have a crush on. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - What does this dream mean? It starts out Dylan(the guy I used to crush on who's a year older than me) was in my house and I was in the backyard walking to school. I see him and decide sinse my parents aren't home I will just skip school and hang...

Should I tell the guy I like I think his friend is a creep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - i like this guy and he likes me but its like forbidden love declared by our parents. anyways him and his friend stayed at my house after i had a party and hes been creepin on me ever since and i dont want to hurt the guy i likes feelings should i ...

How can I re-ignite this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for three years now, and have known her for 7. We got together pretty young (we've liked each other since the age of twelve), and she feels like the spark in our relationship has started to fade. She misses the ...

He's 17 and I'm 14. Should I ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - This is kinda kiddish but I'm a freshmen in highschool and im 14. there is this guy in my health class who I really like and he is a junior and 17.. All year I never made an effort to talk to him but he always talked to me. He flirts a lot and I do ...

If a guy is shy but really likes you, does he treat you differently from everyone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - You know when a guy really likes you but seems too shy to do anything or awkard about it for some reason, is it normal for him to just not treat you the same and sort of of treat you like his other friends like... not ingoring but he sort of ...

Help!!! What do these dreams mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Ok waht could these dreams mean? Its weird i keep having dreams about me and one of my guy friends going out together. Thing is stuff happens at the start like we kinda ty and hold hands but one of us pulls away and stuff, basically it starts with ...

16 and possibly pregnant... any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - FREAKING OUT!!!!! I'm 16 years old and I have been pregnant before when I was 15, I had a surgical miscarriage. I regret it every bit, but I know for a fact that i was not ready for a baby. I'm still not ready, I think I'm pregnant again, I'm show...

My labia seems to be getting bigger... any ideas why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I have been having sex for 2 years now... my vagina isn't bigger at all in the inside, but the "labia" or "lips" as some people call it seem to be getting bigger... is it because of the way my body is changing or is it really because of sex?? ...

I am soooooo sexually frustrated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. He's 20 and I am almost 19. In the beginning of our relationship, we got physical quickly and I loved it. After a couple months it died down, due on his part, and nothing ever happened except ...

Is there such a thing as a "drunk dick"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I recently had sex with this guy and he was drunk... I did things with him sexually before and he could always "finish" even when I gave him a handjob ... but he couldnt when we had sex and it brought down my ego... he said it was beacuse he was ...

I don't understand what he's trying to say...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so i've always been really good friends with this boy. But recently were starting to think that we have something more and always send sexual texts and joke around with eachother about how we have a crush on each other... it's extremly ...

I am scared that I might be pregnant! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm 16 about 4 days ago I had sex with my boyfriend. He used a condom but I'm so worried I might be pregnant I don't think the condom "broke" or anything, I would've felt it or heard it,right? I didn't notice a tear or anything in the ...

Just what do guys find sexy in females?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - What are good ways to tell someone you want to have sex with them without coming on too strong? And what is sexy to guys.....

What can I do for cramps besides pain meds and heating pads?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

8 December 2009 (?) - What do I do for cramps besides taking pain medications and using a heat pad? My period comes tomorrow and I can already tell the cramps will be bad. Also I dont have time in between classes to change my tampon and most of my teachers dont let...

Sometimes I can't stand my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I really do love my boyfriend I just can't stand him sometimes. Sometimes I think about breaking up with him but after talking to him I change my mind. I don't know what's up with me. He's 17, a senior, and Im his first official girlfriend. I do...