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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

He wants to get more intimate with me and I feel I'm ready. How can I be less nervous about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - okay so my boyfriend has been trying to finger me for the past month but I never let him because I wasn't ready. I'm ready now and I want him to, but I'm a little nervous about it! Ya know like whether or not I should shave down there, and that ...

Why am I so attracted to black guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I'm 17, white. Okay so I've always been attracted to guys of all races, but recently I've been really attracted to black guys. What's with my sudden interest?...

Will it be third time lucky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (?) - Well....I like this boy and his name is Bill, but i asked hi, if he liked me at thee beginning of the school year, and he said no i would like to just stay friends, then i asked him again later in thee year and he said the same thing. But i asked ...

It's driving me crazy how this "thing" is not progressing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Ok so I have a classmate (we have all classes together) and I like him. A lot. and I thought he liked/like me too BUT I'm not so sure anymore.. This has been going on for a year and in the meantime we've kinda become friends. At first there w...

My girlfriend of 13 wont even kiss me, she is frigid!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Ok i am 13 years old and have a girlfriend who is friged but dosent want to be and she gets scared and backs away when i try to kiss OR EVEN HUG HER i like her alot and really dont want to dump her but for weeks now it seems that she dosent even ...

My cheatin' heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - I cheated on my fiance. We have been together 6 years. I cheated and about a week later I couldn't handle it anymore, I had to tell her. I know I made a mistake and wanted to be honest. I love her to much to lie and get away with it. I knew it ...

If he likes me, is there a chance he won't forget about me and we could get together next year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - how can i know if he likes me? i met a very handsome and popular boy in our town a few weeks ago. we don't go to the same school, but we have some extra classes together once a week. in our group there is one more girl that doesn't like the fact ...

Boyfriend doesn't act like he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said he loves me but doesnt act like he loves me! he wont hold my hand when his friends are around but he held his ex-girlfriends hand all the time! should i tell him how i feel or just leave him?...

Why has she started ignoring me when it was going so well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - right, so i've been going out with this girl for three weeks and we get on really well. we seem to be getting closer every time we see each other, we always hold hands and have kissed a couple of times. we went out last wednesday night and it was ...

Please help!!! How can I tell her how I feel about her without scaring her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - hi! I am Ali and lookin for help for my problems so can you help me? Plz! ok!! So i'm 13 and am in love with a girl but i am very shy. I am overweight and have a medium height. I always get nervous whenever she passes me nearby, i think she also ...

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant but when I confront him he's denying it!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I recently found out my boyfriend has another girlfriend that's pregnant and he told me its not what i think. I really like him, and im like falling apart without him. He called me the other day becuase he didnt know i knew about it. Then aft...

How do I finger my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is coming over to my house today. She might give me a hand/blowjob for the first time. I might also finger/rub her. Need some advice though as to what to do....

I lost my virginity on Friday and I'm worried about the bleeding

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - i lost my virginity on friday and i lost quiet alot of blood straight after (about a full knicker lining) then after that the bleeding stopped and the next day i had a bit in another set of knickers as well. i havent yet started my periods so could ...

My first time giving my boyfriend a handjob. How do I know if I did it right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I just gave my boyfriend a hand job for the first time last nigh. It was also the first time I have ever given one. I was just wondering how I could tell if he enjoyed it or not?...

What is the Kama Sutra?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (?) - What is Kama Sutra or however you spell it? My boyfriend whats to do it or have it or whatever. But I have no idea what it is....

How do I tell a friend I fancy that I might be bi-curous?

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13 December 2009 (F) - hey, i need some help. ok im not sure if i am bi or not. i guess you can say bi curious. but im not sure how to tell my friends, and i kind of like one of my really good friends. she is bi herslef but she has a boyfriend and im not sure if she feels ...

Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - okay so i have been dating this guy for 3 months now. and everything was going great he treated me better than any other guy ever has. but a couple days ago people kept coming up to me and telling me that my boyfriend was planning on breaking up ...

Is this a sign he cares???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - I had to break up with my bf and havent heard a word from him since. He has messaged me and is apparently too scared to talk to me, or call me. i feel kind of hurt by this, as we've shared so many years together and he doesnt have the guts to pick ...

How can I give the boy I fancy an extra Christmas present without him guessing that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - ok for christmas im giving presants to my friends but my friends who are boys are just gunna get packets of sweets but with the one i like i really want to give him two but what excuse can i use to give it him without him knowing i like him? x x x...

Why does he act like this when we are not together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - hey there, i have a problem and im just getting sick of it. My bf has been acting really weird lately and in a mean way, he has been ignoring me and pushing me away. I try to talk to him about it but he just pretends he doesnt hear me or he just won...

My boyfriend wished his ex happy birthday on facebook but ignored mine!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Things have been going amazingly well recently between me and my boyfriend. But I recently saw something which really upset me and got me thinking. This year, despite the fact that we text/call each other every day, my boyfriend didn't wish me a ...

My ex is now going out with my friend and I am sooo jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - so im inlove with my ex, and hes got a new girlfriend now. she and i r friends and im so jealous. i want him back sooooo badly. idk wat to do. and i cant just move on. iv tried. its so hard. i want to be with him. any advice on how to get him back?...

I don't want to give a gift in bad taste

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Is it in bad taste or bad relationship etiquette to give my GF the same gift (a custom-designed collectible) two christmases in a row? She loved the one I got her last year and I thought about getting her another one this year....

I feel like I am cheating my ex when I am interested in other boys

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - So my last boyfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago and now him and i are really good friends. we get along and were still kindof flirty but its all fun. him me and my other girl friend are really close and we always hang out. the problem is that ...

I don't know how to tell if boys are interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Not very long, but I feel really stupid asking this question. Guy #1: We've never talked in person to each other before. He started to text me in October, and when he did, he asked me a bunch of questions like what my favorite bands are, etc....

I have heard rumours my 15 yo boyfriend is gay, and I am a girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hey, im 14 and my boyfriends 15. i'm worried about his sexuality and i'm not sure if its just rumors starting to sink in or if he really is. don't get me wrong he is really sweet and very funny but sometimes he sends off signals. when we first ...

A boy who wants to have sex with me and his girlfriend are upset with me, my ex wont get back with me and another friend is pregnant and I am dropping grades due to all this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - Hi there I'm 15, and right now, I'm extremely stressed out, so I thought I'd come to you guys and ask for some advice. Within the past few months, I've had a hard time social wise because of a boy that I can't seem to fall out of love with. H...

My emotions are taking over my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (F) - My emotions are runing my life at the moment. im extremely conscious of myself, its ALWAYS on my mind and when lots of people are around itend to cover my mouth and nose up so no one can see my face. my counciler says i worrie too much. i dont li...

I want to know how to strike up a friendship with her without looking silly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

13 December 2009 (M) - Her: funny, cute, is in all the little clubs (NHS, Freshman support, Early childhood development, Key Club, choir, etc, etc) she gives amazing advice (one of the many reasons i like her) shes a senior in high school, and is really well known in the ...