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Archived questions from: 2 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Help with teenagers required!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I have two teenage boys. the oldest I had to rehome as he was insulting, ungrateful and depressed me. He now lives on his own but still tal;k and he comes round and stays and eats. his 15 year brother is developing similiar styles. I feel as ...

How can I talk to my new found crush??? What can I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - A few days ago I saw a guy in HMV. I think he worked there cause he talked to some of the staff and was being shown round. But last night I realised I have a little bit of a crush on him even thought I only saw him for about 20 minutes. I'm 14 and ...

How to make her trust me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - hello, well i just need ur advice on how to get the trust of the girl i like which i do and its not a lie !!, ok i know her for a while now, we are almost together, i like her and she likes me back and everything is going well between...

Did I bring all this on myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - When i was going out with my boyfriend, we went through this phase of him liking someone else. And after a while, we got back together, after he apologized and he came back. So some time later, we were kissing and making out and stuff and then i ...

I don't want him to end up resenting me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Willing to break up with his girlfriend for me, but, I don't want him to end up resenting me if things don't work out how he plans between the two of us (he's a good friend and I'd hate to lose that). We have such a good time together, doing ...

We can't even be friends with benefits any more as he's seeing someone else now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I was dating this guy and i really love him. i lost my virginity to him. we broke up 3 days after we had sex for the first time. its been 3 months and weve been friends with benefits since we broke up. its not good enough for me any more. i know its ...

Am I being unreasonable not wanting them to meet up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys! Well basically I met up with an old friend as he was tutoring me for my end of year exams. We got pretty close and have ended up sort of seeing each other. Well we act like a couple, but were not officially going out.. I guess were still ...

I've been cheating, but only out of politeness!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (?) - I'd been going out with my boyfriend for one and a half years when he cheated on me with my best friend. That was 2 months ago. I saw them kissing at school (needless to say I am only just forgiving my friend). He immediately stopped seeing and ...

I was planning to lose virginity to my b/f when my male friend kissed me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

2 December 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year now and feel that we are ready to have sex. We are both virgins and believe that you should only have sex with someone you love. The date was set for last night. He tried to make it really ...

I am bisexual and I have a crush on another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Ok here it goes, I have a massive crush on another girl who is in my drama class. She is gorgeous and wish I could tell her. However I think she is straight, don't talk to her often and don't want to make a big fool of myself if I do tell her and ...

We are just friends to him. If I tell him, I'm scared it will spoil everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Hiya, i really really need your help on this one. There is this boy and he has been my friend now for like 2 years, but there is one slight problem, I have fancied him all along but just never told him. About 1 month ago we had just become friends ...

I dumped him by text, hoping he would ring me to fight for me but my plan backfired! Did he ever really care for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - So I've just dumped my long term boyfriend, after I got sick of him not calling, not texting me, not wanting to see me, and just basically ignoring me and pretending I didn't even exist. I dumped him by text, because he won't meet up with me for l...

I have lustful feelings towards another male teacher.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - Okay, theres this teacher at my school who teaches me English and well...basically every time I see him, I get hormonal..so to speak, I cant help it, I guess you could say I lust for him. Anyway...a few days ago I had a detention with him (for not ...

Should I force myself through another semester at a college I hate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I know this is a relationship help site... but I really need advice and I love the advice the agony aunts (and uncles) give here... so I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I am a freshman in college and I am miserable. I don't like the college...

Help me to write this love letter...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - hi, i need a little help.. my boyfriend is going away overseas on a business trip. i would like to write him a love letter before he goes letting him know how much i love him and miss him already. i know kind of old school... im not exactly sure ...

Ex troubles!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Hey, I am in a good relationship with a boy. I have recently spilt with one of his friends, before I started seeing him. I love my boyfriend and am really happy, but my ex is ignoring me and I just want to be friends with him. He is not only ig...

I just wanted to be in someone's arms...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my girlfriend for a little more then a year, I adore her, i love everything about her. problem is that we are in a long distance relationship, so we have such trust issues and miss each other dearly. so we were broken up, she s...

I am totally in love with a man who will not love me back.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - There's this guy I cannot get over. He is amazing and charismatic and I just can't get him out of my mind. Sometimes I hate his guts and other times I swear that he's going to be mine. It's been more than a year now and I'm stuck, I really don't ...

My b/f sends me poetry, but he doesn't write it himself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Every so often, in an e-mail my bf will send me a poem. Call me a skeptic or whatever, but I usually google the first few lines to see if this was original or if he copied it from somewhere else. Most of the time, they're copied from somewhere e...

I want to date her but am worried about what will happen if I then dump her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - I've been talking to a girl recently after a terrible long-term relationship of mine ended. This new girl is kind, loving, quiet, and has a heart of gold, but she also has flaws. She was raped as a child by her own mother and her mother's countless ...

I am 14 and worried my love for my fiance is fading fast

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my fiance who lives 750 miles away for 1 year and almost 2 months (who was also my first boyfriend), and I feel like my love for him is gone. I an't explain why I feel like this, I just startd to feel like this after I came back from ...

I was Drunk and Dancing and am now on facebook

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2 December 2009 (F) - when u go to a party and people take picturez of u dancing when u were really drunk! and posted them on myspace and a guy u like saw them he parties too but always knew u as a good girl does girls that like to drink and party develop like a bad ...

We want to explore but not have sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - What would be some fun things for me and my girlfriend to do, without having sex, but things to do with some of that sort. Like exploring each other in an intimate way. We are both up for it but we dont have any ideas. Any one out there have any...

I have questions about my body, can somebody answer them please

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I am still a virgin but have fingered myself. I cannot fit more then one finger in even if I lubricate. Is there something wrong with me? Im scared that when I am ready to have sex in the future, it won't stretch enough. Help!...

I worry a lot about his commitment to our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - hey there i have another problem, i have the hardest time trusting my bf, he tells me he is so in love with me and that im the only one, but then he tells me i wouldnt trust you if i were you you and i ask him why and he says look at how much tro...

He looks at other girls and I'm not sure he's fully committed like I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We both know we love each other everyday, and I know he means it. However, I tell him things like "I only want to be with you and nobody else. I want to spend the rest of my life with you because ...

If I am pregnant what do I do? Am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - i think im pregnant. but im not sure. im still young and im scared to tell anyone because my parents will kill me and i dont want anyone thinking anything bad. it was just once and it got carried away. it happend 2 3 weeks agoo.. and im supposed to ...

Sweet Sixteen and Never Been Kissed

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

2 December 2009 (?) - 16 year old girl and has never been kissed?! Why do I feel as if no guy does not like me in a way to want to get to know me? I can grind with a guy and he can get a boner, but no guy wants to get to know me? Why is it that I feel that no guy want...

He is blowing hot and cold and I am left confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I was dating this guy for a year and everything in our relationship was great. We were loving and romantic to eachother and the physical part was good too. Then during the last month of our relationship he was acting weird like not saying i love you ...

I want sex all the time and I don't want too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - well i have a problem me and my girlfriend have started having sex resently and ever since we had our first time together i cant quit wanting sex with her or anyone i am like always horny now and this has been going on for like a week now can ...