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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Both my friend and I fancy him, but he sends mixed messages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Well tbh I need some advice. Basically what is going on is that I have liked this boy since I first started secondary school with him and he asked me out frequently over the years but I always turned him down because I thought I would only get my ...

I watched porn the other day, is that okay and normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm 14, and a couple days ago I watched porn with one of my best friends. I liked it a lot and everything, but I was afraid her parents would catch us. Anyways, is it okay and normal for me to do that? ...

Met a new guy, he's really respectful but I have no idea where this is headed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I went out with John*[Mod: Name changed to protect Identity], a guy who is a yr older than me on Saturday night. We worked together in the summer. He picked me up which was very cute. He mentioned that my hair cut was cute! I was impressed that he ...

He's much bigger than my prior boyfriends and I'm worried sex will be painful

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (?) - hii so imm 16 and this boy imm dating is 18. we have a rlly good time together and he makes me rlly happy (: we havent had sex yet but we both want to and will probably do it soon. the problem is.. ive had sex with 2 other guys, both of which ...

My boyfriend makes me wear very revealing outfits all the time, is this right? If not how can I make him stop this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend insists on me wearing very skimpy clothing even in the winter time. I live in Toledo, so it is cold down here! He has made me wear very short skirts and dresses, with little boots,it does look cute but not for every place we go. I am in ...

Haven't had my period yet, but now I'm getting a strange discharge, any ideas what this could be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I'll just dive right in. I am 14 years old and have never had a period before. But about 2 days ago I found a huge brown/bloody splotch on my underwear. I changed them and put on a pad just because. Then later that night nothing else had happened, ...

They say he bad mouths me behind my back, but to my face he's lovely, what's going on!?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - ok well i like this guy alot and people say he talks behind my back about me negativly, but every time i confront him he rejects it 100%. i sometimes see him look at me from the corner of his eye. i want to talk to him about a relationship but hes ...

He's not contacting me as often, did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I finally got to go on the date with the guy I like. I think I bored him a bit but otherwise, it went well and we really clicked, (in my opinion.) He held my hand, hugged me, acted really sweet. But introduced me as a friend. I guess that was ...

My girlfriend gives horrible oral, but is more than happy to give it, how can I make her better at it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - I'm with a girl who I love a lot, and things are fantastic... to a point. When I give her oral sex, she loves it, moaning and grabbing and clawing... all the things I could imagine are good signs. But when she goes down on me (she is very willing to ...

Parents wouldn't approve of my young relationship, how do I keep it from them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - [Mod Note: Stated age incorrect, OP is 13 years old] Ok so I liked this girl and she asked me out at a party and I said yes. We're now going out and I am really happy. The one problem, were 13, and if my parents find out, I will get in a lot of t...

My friend's ex is sending me messages on Facebook, is he interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - ok, about a month ago my best friend went out with this boy who isnt that close a friend of ours but still a friend and he started messaging me on facebook. I thought it was just because he was going out with my best friend and he wanted us to get ...

I can't read her signals about sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - I have been going out with an amazing girl for nearly a year. I have felt her up before and she hasn't stopped me. She knows that I want it but she hasn't given anything back but signs I can't read. I need some help on asking her, and reading her ...

13 and addicted to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - Hello I am 13 years old, but I'm addicted to porn. It sounds bad and my family knows I am, but I can't help but keep going back!!! I have tried everything, but it doesn't work! I have been in trouble with the family because of this. I need help but ...

In love with an older, unhappily married woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I am a 18 year old female who is madly in love with a woman who is 37 years old. I know that she love me too but she is married unhappily. Is she worth fighting for?...

No feeling during my first blowjob

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (M) - I just got my first blow job today, and for some reason when she went to do it i just couldn't feel it. it just felt like i was moving my wet hand on it. she wasn't sucking and she didn't want me to look the first time... could something be wrong ...

I had sex for the first time and am now worried I might be pregnant

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - pleeeaaasse responde im so scared! i am 13 years old. i turn 14 in 5 days. i really like this guy who is not my boyfriend, he is 16 and is used to having sex a lot and says he really likes me and wont leave me and seems very different from the other ...

I love him, I love him not, I love him, oh dear I love him not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - so i have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months and we say we are in love, which i am. so recently i broke up with him and made out with another guy, then we got back together - broke up, got back together - broke up and now were back together. ...

I don't want to do the same as the rest of my family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - I have a sister and a brother. We're all 16 (obviously, we're triplets). My mother is the cheer leading coach for our high school. My father is a football coach. I guess you could say I'm "the runt of the litter": I'm smaller, weaker, and I've...

My boyfriend is 10 years older, and my male friend called him a cradle robber!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - Earlier today, my boyfriend and my two best friends were hanging out at my house. My boyfriend was playing with my hair and watching my friend playing video games. My other friend was being very emo (aka emotional) and he wouldn't look or talk to ...

Summer Lovin' .. I want my summer romance back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

23 December 2009 (F) - This passed summer my best friend's brother and i got really close and ended up together, well the whole time she and i didn't speak because of a few other issues. We had this amazing relationship for about a month and then suddenly he just stopped ...