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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Terrified I'll never see him again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I really fancy this guy that works in a shop. I've only seen him twice and have been back to the shop twice more and he hasnt been there and now im scared i'll never see him again. :( what will I do? ...

Help for chapped lips???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (?) - Why is it every time I think about a guys strong and lean body(and other parts) I get really horny? Another question is does anyone know of a really good chapstick for REALLY chapped lips? I put chapstick on like 4 times a day and it does not help...

What should I do about my boyfriend's ex girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - My life is going pretty well, I have a great boyfriend and the problems with abuse have been sorted out. But I dont know what to do about my boyfriends ex girlfriend, she is pretty jealous of me and seems to hate me, but they are still friends,...

I like this boy, I hope he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, There is this guy that goes to my skool and i really like him and i dont kno if he likes me... im way to scared to talk to him though...... what should i do???? ...

I get violent with my friends when they agree a boy is hot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - hey aunts i have a problem with jelousy but it isnt with my boyfriends its with guys i fancy, all my friends have noticed well its kind of hard not to because if i say the guy i like (lets call him chris)is fit and they agree i will literally rip ...

I am stuck on a crush and need to unstick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Last year I met this guy in one of my classes. We didn't really talk that much, but I developed a really big crush on him. I guess you could say it's the biggest/strongest crush I've ever had on a guy that wasn't a celebrity. Basically he doesn't ...

We've been a couple three days, I want to break it off already

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - How do you break up with an extremely sensitive guy who claims he is IN love with you, and its like nothing he has ever felt before, bearing in mind we only started going out 3 days ago? I honestly thought I liked him, I knew he liked me a lot more...

Why does he keep asking me these questions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - this guy and i are getting to know each other.. i like him and he tells me he likes me too.. but he keeps asking me how long has it been since ive been single, if ive ever gotten pregnant before or had an abortion:( i told him my ex was carefu...

Why do I feel this way about sex?? Am I weird???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I am 20 and I've not had sex for a year and couple of months now... I've had 4 bfs.. I slept with 2... cos i loved them but they broke my heart and left me. All my friends think i should just have fun.. cos they sleep with guys like within a we...

I need your help guys! Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5256 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - hi aunts, ok so where should i start im 14 years old in year 9 and in love with 2 different guys one of them is one of my best friends lets call him scott and the other 1 lets call him chris i havent talked 2 in nearly a year now, they both go 2 my ...

An orgasm out of nowhere!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

11 December 2009 (?) - Sitting in class writing a paper I had an orgasm like feeling but I was not doing anything. Just writing a paper and listening to a teacher. Is it possible to have an orgasm out of no where and since I was wearing a long tampon instead of wide ...

One minute we're lovey dovey... next he doesn't care. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - hiya. There is this boy and we have been such good friends for a couple of years. I started to fancy him about 1.5 years ago. He knows i fancy him and so does everyone else. He has just never mentioned it. When we are alone (eg. in the computer...

Christmas ideas needed, desperately!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Sorry, it's so long but, Okay, so PLEASE don't judge me on my age or anything. I'm 14, and my boyfriend is 15 going on 16. We've been together since October of 2008, I love him with all my heart and I've been wondering, a lot about what to get him ...

What happened to us? Are my actions in the past to blame for his actions now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are real happy together most of the times but ever since he’s gotten off probation he’s been a whole different person. We’ve been going out for a year and the whole time we have been going out he’s been on probation for a crime ...

Boyfriend and Christmas, any present ideas for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My boy friend just turned 14 and i am 13 and him and i have been going out for almost 3 weeks, but we have liked eachother for months! it took him awhile to decide how to ask me out. Anyways, christmas day is gonna of course be christmas, but it is ...

What could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - i think i shouldve started my period already, but i dont keep track of them so they might be irregular. I usually get acne and cramps like a day or 2 before my period comes. But ive had cramps on and off for about a week and ive got a REALLY B...

I would tell her how I feel but she has a boyfriend and her brother is one of my best friends! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - I need to know what to do there's a girl who i work with in a part-time job. I'm 17 and she's 20. I'm still in secondary school and she's in second year in college. What I look forward to is the weekend so i can see her. We can talk about absolute...

I'm shy and not very good looking - how can I make her my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - [Moderator's Note: You dont actually ask a question here - please feel free to resubmit but make it clear what your problem is and what you want to ask the aunts/uncles here on Dear Cupid] hi there, ok so i am in love with a girl. I am little over...

Is it normal to dream about a boy that doesn't even know I'm alive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - hi, i was wondering... well...i had this dream about i guy i like and that we were together and me just lying in his arms... except he doesnt talk 2 me or practicaly know im alive but i was just wondering (because this isnt the first time iv had ...

Its our first Christmas together, any ideas for a gift on a tight budget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - mY boyfriend is 17 im 15 and this is our first christmas toghether. He works i dont so i dont want him to spend a lot of money on a gift form me when i dont even know what to get him... what can i do? help...

Will he come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - i had a break up with my boy friend 7-8 months back. i really loved him but i think he cheated me, but i still love him.will he come back to me and does he have the same feelings for me as have.he is dating one more girl these days.will he come bac...

To be or not to be... friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - i just broke up with my bf of 2 years, he was too occupied with his new friends, it was never the same again, so i just about had it. he texted me "i fucked up, and im guessing there is no second chances, maybe in the future we'll resolve things, ...

He got another girl pregnant during one of our breakups, and my heart is breaking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Well I'm 14 years old and I thought I found the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with... We quickly fell in love but we also faught way to much. These weren't just silly little fights they got serious to the point were he tried to kill ...

Is our relationship going to survive, if we interact better by sms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - so if you and your bf talk beter when you text each other then you do in person, is your relationship doomed to fail? xoxo, miny...

Is he abusive/dangerous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5210 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have a (long) question about my ex. My best friend says he emotionally and almost physically abused me and needs help or he may go on to physically as well as emotionally abuse other girls. But my friend is really overprotective of me and has had ...

I am in love, but she has a boyfriend and when I see them together I die inside

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - hi, i'm on love with my best friend (a girl) i mean want whats best for her love not just the humdrum. but she has a boyfriend whos. well. bound to get her into trouble. they make a nice couple and all but everytime i see him with her (always) i ...

Could my period be messed up because of stress?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Hiya, I'm not sure whether i'm pregnant or not. I had sex about 5 days ago but we used a condom, pretty sure it didn't break but i have this uncontrollable fear of being pregnant. What I think was my period came on yesterday but it seems to be ...

She has a b/f, do I tell her I still like her and hope the feeling is mutual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - So, wen i was,like, 10, I lost contact w/ a girl who was realy important to me. She was my first kiss, first girl i ever had feelings for, and the first person who ever made me truely happy. It's been 3 years sinc I last talked to her, but, the ...

She is bisexual, should I tell her I am, too? Does this explain her recent behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Ok, whole problem has changed now so it needs a new question. Basically theres a girl in one of my college classes, who I really like. problem was I'm a girl, and I found out she had a boyfriend. Straight? My Gaydar thought otherwise, but h...

How do I break the bad news to my Mom?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

11 December 2009 (M) - this is not really sex or love or anything, but i need advice on how to break some bad news to my mum. see, i through being foolish got my laptop infected by a virus, and i sent it off the factory for other repairs hoping it would be fixed, which...

Does my ex friend stare at me because she's jealous?

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11 December 2009 (F) - Why does she do this? My ex best friend will stare at me when I'm not looking, then I'll turn around (not on purpose just turning around) and catch her and she'll turn around real fast. She always looks at me, but really when I'm with my new frie...

I need help finding the right Christmas gift for my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I'm having problems finding the right gift for my 18 year old boyfriend for christmas, n he already has a gift for me..what should i get him??...

Should I go back out with him?

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11 December 2009 (F) - I am 14 and in the 9th grade. Well my ex boyfriend is 17 and in the 12th grade. I could tell that he liked me, because I got kicked out of the classroom and he stood outside in the hallway with me and was flirting around with me. At that time I ...

How do I bring up the idea of my conservative boyfriend dominating me in bed?

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11 December 2009 (F) - I've had a huge interest in this for a long time, but I can never figure out how the heck to bring it up without sounding like a freak. ...and to me, being a freak isn't a bad thing, lol, but my BF is super conservative. I was surprised even whe...

Why do I feel like his mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - Why do I feel like I am more of a mother to my boyfriend then a girlfriend. I feel like this because I am always telling him what he has done right and wrong it's like he is only saying the answers that I want to hear. I am always the one th...

My friend is a maneater and now she really likes the guy I'm seeing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have a friend (lets call her gemma) and she is a maneater ! She has a boyfriend but yet wouldn't pass if anything better came along. She is getting a reputation for herself but that isn't what bothers me as it is her life... however, my pr...

I like him but he used to be my best friend's boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - This is kind of lengthy.. but please read and help.. So recently I just started talking to an old guy friend of mine. He was seriously one of my best friends; I felt so comfortable around him, we were into the same kind of music, movies, etc. I a...

Why has he gone cold on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I have currently known and have been friends with a guy for around 2 months now and i really like him. I have been round to his house a few times and shared passionate kisses. I really like this guy and want to be his girlfriend... his was really...

Where can we go to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are high schoolers and are thinking about having sex, but we don't want to get caught or anything. We live about two miles apart so it's a bit hard to just walk over to eachothers houses. I've been trying to get him over to my ...

Should I have a chlymidia test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - I am too minds about having a chlymidia test... i haven't slept with the guy i was last with but i did do oral sex...and he is known for being a player. As we all no chlymidia has NO symptoms...and college are giving tests out for free. ...

He asked me to masturbate in front of him but I feel so guilty doing it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

11 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to masturbate in front of him, but I've never masturbated before. I started to rub myself but I had to stop as I was overcome with guilt. He wants me to try again but I'm worried that I will start to feel guilty again. He says ...