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Archived questions from: 1 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can he have a girlfriend if he really loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - hey..i know im only 16 but i really need help! i already talked to my mom about it but i need some one elses opinion too please. ok so i know this guy since like 4 years ago and the very first day i seen him i was like WOW!(and i was only 12) we ...

We have been dating for a month and he is breaking my heart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I,ve been dating my boyfriend since the beginning of November and he was happy for about 2 weeks. Now he tells mehow depressed he is and It hurts me coz I thought I was making him happy .I,ve tried everything to help him and Now he,s withdrawn from ...

He likes to party but I don't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - i like this guy, and he seems to like me back. the problem is that he loves to party, and i don't party because i was brought up in a Christian home and i have no problem with the fact that i don't party. for months since school started we've been ...

My boyfriend makes me feel insecure. My fault? Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Ok, so...I have been dating this boy for 6 months. At first, he was amazing. He complimented me all the time, and he made me feel like a princess. However, over the last few months, he has started making little comments that are starting to break ...

Three years down the line and he's still never told me he loves me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Why won't my boyfriend of 3+ years not profess his love for me...?...

My best friend and I BOTH like the same boy... help!

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1 December 2009 (F) - My so called best friend is so very immature and insensitive. For the second time she has gone out with the boy that I really fancy after promising me she doesnt like them and knowing that I do. The boy in question this time told 1 of my other be...

Is it okay to make out with someone when you're about to break up with your girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. I was just wondering if it's okay to cheat if you're about to break up. I have a gf and i'm not really happy with things so i'm going to break up with her when I see her next. I was wondering if it's okay if I make out with someone ...

Best friend told me he loved me, everythings changed, now its as if we're not even friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - My best male friend told me he loved me 2 weeks ago, at first i wasn't sure if he said it jokingly or if he was being serious as he has confronted me about past feelings of being more than friends in the years i've known him. The night he told me...

I don't want to be the idiot that's used as a doormat.

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1 December 2009 (F) - I found out that my boyfriend has been sending texts to other girls of a sexual nature along with this he has also been sending texts saying that he wanted to be with them. this is the second time that I've found this out in the space of a couple of ...

I think I'm falling for him but I have a boyfriend...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Someone please help me! I have a boyfriend (let's call him G) and we have only been dating for about a month but it feels so much longer! I love being with him, he makes me smile and feel happy. But recently there's been another guy.(let's call him ...

I've been seeing him for 3 months so why am I so nervous around him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 14, and I am dating this guy, and I love him a lot, me and him have been dating for 3 months yesterday, November 30. and I am wondering how do I keep from being nervous with him?...

I don't know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not.

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1 December 2009 (F) - I dont know whether or not to tell my ex that I lost our baby last week or not. He was awful the way he broke up with me and told me not to contact him again. It was only in the very early stages of pregnancy and i didnt know i was pregnant...

Help! She cheated on me and I forgave her but I can't get the incident out of my head...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - I was dating my girlfriend for 2 years, she recently felt tied down and is in her last year of high school and says she wants to be free and able to go out with her friends. she tells me she loves me and can see us being together in the future she ...

Do you think I've scared him off?

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1 December 2009 (F) - He drove for an hour to see me.. we went for a ride. I asked him what he wants from me and he said he doesn't know.. he wants to get to know me then decide. I haven't heard from him since thursday night.. I am confused. Should I text him anythin...

Is the age gap too much here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - When we first started dating we were in love and wanted to do everything together, we both were virgins and we had our first time with each other together, after that i wanted sex all the time and she was giving it to me on a regular basis then i ...

Should I talk to him?

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1 December 2009 (F) - My friend and I about six months ago were having this little thing... I liked the same guy as her, I liked him after I hung out with him a couple of times... Me and him would text for two hours straight and never run out of something to talk...

The person I love is in an incestrous relationship... and I'm shocked!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - i am in love with a girl in my class we were friends since childhood, shes cute and smart and am totally over her so i wanted to confess to her but when i came to her house(we use to studying maths together) saw her making out savagely with her ...

Please can anyone help Me? ..I am headed for a breakdown!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but underneath i...

What is the source of this bleeding and discomfort?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I'm 15 though i turn 16 in 2 days. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a few weeks,we were both virgins to begin with but we always use a condom. I had my period last week and it finished on Saturday. On Sunday we were having se...

Is there a secret to the first kiss?

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1 December 2009 (M) - how can i get her in for the first kiss? is there a secret to it?...

One year anniversary ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - hey guys, its coming up to my one year anniversary with my partner in january. i like to plan ahead for things. ive really got no idea. guys ur advice wud be appreciated... my bf is not the romantic type and dosent do soppy very often... howe...

Kissing (and sleeping) Cousins, what if the family finds out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Me and my second cousin are 17 we fell in love in secret, slept together in secret i also found out i was pregnant but we had a miscarriage, our family would go crazy at us he said he dosent care as long as he's with me but i cant help but be very ...

Should I try and have a deeper relationship with her?

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1 December 2009 (M) - Hi I'm 19. I've been sorta of dating this girl for a while and she's been asking me if I've ever had a girlfriend. Which I haven't. I really like her and stuff but I'm not sure that I want a girlfriend. I've never had one and never been close to a ...

How can I come out of my shell when I'm with him?

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1 December 2009 (?) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and when I am with him i want to be able to come out of my shell. in my mind, i see myself being free and aggressive, but when i am with him i have trouble with that. also, what are some fun ...

I don't always feel that crazy spark when we're kissing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend and think he's just absolutely perfect for me. One thing that causes some major hangups, though, is that I don't always feel some crazy spark when we're kissing. I love being close to him and we get each other on so many levels, ...

Watching lesbian porn turns me on! Normal or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - right, this might sound wierd but i enjoy watching lesbian porn, in turns me on. but im not a lesbian, is this really strange? does it make me a lesbian, because i really like men and i wud defo say im staight but then i dont know why i get turned...