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Archived questions from: 3 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I think about this girl every minute of the day...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Well I think about this girl every hour of every day. This has probably been happening for a year now, but has gotten worse. I don't know why but I have never felt the way that I do for this girl about any other girl. She has a boyfriend and does ...

This is about teachers, but not your typical topic

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

3 December 2009 (?) - Ok, so I'll be 17 in a few weeks and I'm in love with one of my teachers. This is not what I want anyone commenting on, I just thought it would be helpful because I'm not asking whether you think he likes me back or if I should tell him or not ...

I really like him but I don't think I'm his type. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (?) - Okay so there's this boy named Michael, and I've liked him since August. I stopped liking him for like a week or so. My friends do not like him. I mean they hate his guts! So I really cant talk about him around them. Well now I'm falling for him ...

I can't figure out what to get him for Christmas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some help. Me and my boyfriend have been going out since October and im not sure what to get him for christmas. We are both 13 and I don't know what to get him. He loves playing guitar and writing songs. He plays xbox360 and like spo...

His weight gain is causing me to find him less attractive...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I hope you can help me. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now. The problem is that I am finding him more and more less attractive as the days go by. I find myself feeling so guilty about this and I don't usually base ...

We built our relationship up so high only to be knocked down again. What can I do to get him back by my side again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Well me and my best mate are gay 14 year olds, we have been going out for about a year. I think he's lost interest in me for our other mate we hang out with. He's bin spending a lot of time with him now and doesn't pay any attension to me any more. ...

Am I wrong? Should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months today, in the beginning it was fine, (isn't it always) and maybe 2 or 3 weeks into the relationship he asked me to do something sexual and I told him I didn't want to, well he got really ...

13, want a boyfriend and want sex but think I'm frigid

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - right so i am 13. i ahve no boyfriend and i am really really fridgid, i am scared to even talk to a boy when i am going out with them. but i really want to have sex i tihnk i am phisiclly and emotionally ready, but its just trying to get over my ...

How to get thru to my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have only been with my man for 2 months. It was all going great - I had met all his family he said he liked me unlike any other girl he had been with. but then a week and a half ago he told me he felt weird and needed some time to think. S...

Is flirting considered cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - If your in a relationship, and you flirt with someone else would you consider that to be cheating? I haven't done this, i'm just curious to what people think......

Does he love me back the way I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, So my question is... Does he love me? He says he loves me but how can you really tell... Well let me start from the beginning. We have been dating for 4 months and we try to see each other as much as possible... sometimes we don't ...

Why hasn't he removed himself from the swinging websites he used to use?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 9 months used to go on swinging/sex/dating websites (the type where basically all's you want is sex) I found this out the other week when on his laptop (I wasn't snooping it just popped up) so what should I do? He joined up to them ...

Why wont she admit that she is still in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - this might take long so please bare with me. 3 days ago i just found out my ex who lives down south is wanting me back and my mate told me cause she was talking to her on msn. my mate told me that my ex wanted me back and is missing me badly and ...

I am frustrated because I cant decide if he likes me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - dear people of dear cupid, i feel i have a massive problem, but before i tell let me just say i am 15 and never had a boyfriend. my problem is that i feel that i am in love with the guy at school he is really nice most people tell me just to tell ...

She mixes with celebrities but I am just a ordinary guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Greetings everyone. I'm here to ask a very strange sounding question; just make sure you read everything I have to say or it may seem a bit confusing. See, I've been seeing this girl long-distance for almost two years now. Where I live, I'm fairly...

I really, really like her, but does she like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - how do i know if she likes me? ok so i met this girl and now we are good friends but it seems like if she likes me i like her but i dont know if she likes me we flirt like everyday and she always gets close to me as if she wants me to hold her o...

We are going to wait for sex, but maybe I should give him a little taste test!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Ok... So I have many questions about me and my 19 year old bf. this one us goin to be a alittle different. We have been togegter thru alot and and I mean alot, well I think that I want to tell him to wait to have sex until we are ready again, I ...

How long should I wait before we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hello, I am 18 years old and I am a virgin I have a boyfriend who is 24 years old and we have only been going out for a while I do want to end up having sex with him but I am kind of scared but also at the same time I don't know how long we...

It's over but I can't move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 months broke up with me almost a month ago, and I still can't bring myself to move on. I've been left before and none have hurt this bad. I see her at school and it's like she's completely erased me from her momory. Like we never ...

At first I said no, then I said yes, he disappeared and now he is back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I was 13 when I dated my then boyfriend who was 16 at the time. He was a pretty boy and came from a wealthy family,so did I,meaning he was the player type. We dated for abt a week before he asked me to come over to his place. I made it clear before ...

My best friend is turning into macho man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - This started yesterday. My best friend slept over at my house. We were just lying around and he just started acting weird (e.g. staring at me). Then he said something really weird, he's like, "You know I love you, right?" I wasn't sure how to reply ...

I still love my girl but have cooled off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - So, I"m 17 and my girlfriend of 11 months is 16. We're almost at our 1 year anniversary and I can't shake the fact that my feelings for her are swinging up and down. I've never been so confused in my life. I love this girl but at the same time I ...

I want to ask my date to be in a really funny way ....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - So I need help, the winter formal at my school is in 2 weeks and I want to ask my date-to-be in a really funny way, I'm willing to embarass myself haha. Any ideas?! Thank you!...

Is my girlfriend still a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Is my girlfriend still a virgin? my girlfriend and I (she is 18, i am 20) are wondering if she is still considered a virgin if her ex boyfriend just got the head of his penis inside her. The way she explains it is he tried to penetrate her but she ...

I am only 17 so I told her I was older

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - OK story time! Here I go... I met a girl the other day who I got along well with and we have been messaging back and forth since; she is 19. I feel like an ass I said I was 18 when I'm really only 17; anyways I am going to be 18 in like 3 months. I ...

How do I break the news that I'm pregnant to my mom? Is what I did so bad? Am I a fool?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Im 16 years old im in 10 grade. I just found out i was pregnant for my boyfriend whos 17. I kno im to young to young to raise a child but it wasnt my fault. My boyfriend wanted a baby so i wanted to make him happy. Becuse he been so good to me so i ...

What do I tell him when he asks again if I'm virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - A guy i like is not a virgin and he asked me if i was and i just looked at him and turned around.. his friend said oh she gave you the look, i dont really know what that means ? I know he is gonna ask again.. but i dont know what to say .. help ...

I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since October of 2008 and I have no idea what to get him for Christmas! He likes football, wrestling, nascar, etc. But, I have no idea what to get him what so ever. Any advice?...

I'm afraid that I'll be alone my whole life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I know this is probably a very common question, but I'm just gonna go ahead anyway. I'm afraid that I'll be alone my whole life. I've never had a boyfriend or anything, and I don't think any guy has ever liked me. I'm not very pretty, and I re...

I'm looking for positive quotes and sayings to write in my notebook.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Im looking for quotes and sayings...or anything i can write in my notebook. I want to fill it, with positive things, and memories. Im going through a really tough time in my life, with things like school, "friends", my bf that ive lost c...

Why could I barely walk after my fourth orgasm yesterday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 December 2009 (?) - Well I had at least 4 orgasms yesterday and the last one seemed so intense that I could barely walk when I got up? Why and how is this possible? Does anyone know what might have caused this?...