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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

My sex drive has died, could it be the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hi, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend this year, it was both our first time. I went on birth control Microgn 30 two months later to help improve my periods. On these i got quite ill and moody, but i did have a good sex life with him. After 3 months ...

How do I come to terms with what they said about me behind my back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - How do you forgive somebody that has made fun of you in the past, someone that you like a lot and you weren't really surprised because they called you it to your face before. This time though they said it behind your back to like three friends and ...

Her parents getting divorced is ruining my chances at a relationship with her!

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7 December 2009 (M) - So I'm talking to this girl now that I've liked for awhile. She's beautiful, smart, funny, and just an amzing person. We both liekd each other didn't know it until recently. So after school today she found out her parents are getting a divorce, ...

Should I get him a Christmas present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Ok so, this guy and I haven't been going out very long, but I've never felt like this about anyone before. Since christmas is coming up, I wanted to get him something, but I don't know if that would be awkward for him? I am only 13 and he's almost ...

They were on the verge of going out and suddenly he's screaming at her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - how does one deal with a situation where your heart is telling you one thing about a boy and your mind is tellign you another my friend has this guy she likes and they were on the verge of going out but suddenly hes mad at her and they are having s...

I'm torn between my crush on a girl and my crush on my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - hey aunts im confused about whether im gay, bi, or straight can someone help? ok im 15 have this mega crush on this girl in my year i like her alot but she wont go out with me ive tryed everything with her but none of it has worked i sometimes get ...

Why are guys so interested in breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Why are guys so interested in breasts. I have to live with them and why are they so special. My boyfriend is always talking about them and he even gave them a nickname. I get a little uncomfortable sometimes and at others i love it. I always think ...

She's breaking up with me, so it's hard to show her she is special and also to suggest there might be another way to handle this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Hey, My girlfriend of 2 years and 6 months just broke up with me. Apparently the biggest part of it is that the relationship felt 'tainted' she loves me, i know this is true, and i love her more than anything in the world. But she says she doesn't ...

My boyfriend's friends never let us be alone together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriends friends piss me off they are always there when we want to hang out my friends give me and him alone time he wont leave his friends i don't know wat to do because they don't let me be with him and i don't think he has the guts to t...

Why does she act so weird around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - ok, Pretty straightforward. There's a girl in one of my classes and I really like her. Problem is, I'm gay and she has a boyfriend. That suprised me, I was dead certain she was gay. The way she walks, talks, sits, dresses, speaks, her non-...

I am a virgin being tempted by a sex addict yet wanting to resist

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am an eighteen-year-old female virgin who does not intend to have sex until her wedding night. While I do not have a purity ring (I think I'm getting one for Christmas, though), I do have kind of a purity symbol--I write the word p...

Kissing Cousins of the Bi Sexual Variety!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - ok, basically me and my cousin are really close but we are almost like opposites shes chav im emo bla bla bla but me and her are best mates we tell each other everything and i know all her secrets and she knows all mine but today she turned round ...

Why do my friends always get attention instead of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - hi aunts x, at dinner time me and my friends hang out but my friends lets call them lisa and fran always! get attention from all our male friends and it makes me feel really left out, i mean ill try to get noticed like taking my jumper off an ...

I have mild feelings for people of the same sex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - I've had mild feelings for people of the same sex over years, but maybe i'm taking it too seriously... a simple 'man crush' I think I'm having at the minute. How do I contrast a crush with full on feelings and is a crush harmful for our friendship ...

He says he loves me like a sister!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Sorry if this is just obvious and it sounds stupid but one of my best guy friends said to me he loves me like a sister. He's said in the past once when someone went and spread a load of lies that he loved me as a friend. But now he says he loves...

We're not a family and I just need advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - okay wellll.......... when i was little, i lived with my nan bekoz my mum wasa single mum, my dad walked out, so my mum was tryna raise me. koz when i was living with her, she tried 3 suicidal attemps infront of my face. + i was too young to under...

Sex really hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - ive been in a relationship for about 7 months now and im sexually active, but i have a problem when i do have sex, everything is fine but if my bf puts his penis all the way in me it reallly hurts, makes me cry even, even if im really aroused/wet ...

If you're not dating a guy, how far is too far?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - If you and a guy start talking and yournot going out yet, how far is tooo far? Are you aloud to make out with him or go farther? Or should you wait until your going out. Should you hold of to give a blowjob or have sex? HELP!...

Is there anyway to get him to want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - So i went out with this guy once when i was 14 and i have to admit he never left my mind sure, i dated other guys but never forgot about him. He was always there in the back of my mind. Now 17 me and him, having not seen eachother in a long time, ...

Is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy at the gym like everyday for nearly 2 months now. He's really cute and I went to middle school with him, but he didn't recongnize me (thank god!) and we never had classes together or talked in middle school. I started ...

I think it's time to stop lying and fess up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - To get to the point he's 26, I'm 16. We've been [secretly] dating for over a year and out of paranoia(if that makes sense), I've never told my parents. He's my mother's best friend's son and helps my father out a lot. So there's a lot of trust g...

What is the average age people get their first kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - what is the average age people get there first kiss i think theres this social status there such as "go for it perverts?age 12-13'' ''mr. popular age 12,13. ''not losers but not popular 13,14 ''losers 'nerds' 15,16. tell me if im wrong im probably ...

Is this a good plan?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (M) - Hello all again, I'm the same one from http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-recreate-a-scene-from-the-twilight.html . I slept over it, and after indirectly-asking a friend of hers, I came up with what I can do, so that she will have the most...

He's a Momma's boy. And Momma does NOT like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend to death. No one can doubt that. We've been through a lot, he's even saved me from wanting to take my own life. But theres one thing that bugs me about him. He's a Momma's Boy. And his Momma does NOT like me. I'm his first kiss ...

I don't know what's wrong with me! But I don't want to feel smothered and married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i was just in a 2 year relationship and felt smothered by him cause he was so inlove with me and up my butt it drove me crazy. so i cheated on him with this boy named sean and and eventually we got abck together i loved partying and playing with my ...

Too young to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - [Mod note: two questions from same user combined here.] Q1: i have alwasy had a gut feeling to wait for the perfect guy. and to not have sex until marriage or to wait till i am older to have sex. ive had boyyrfirneds in the past but im in love wi...

He's been a flirt recently, and we just cuddled on a long bus ride....what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - so i am a freshman in high school, and he is senior... he has has been a little flirt lately, he will hug me, touch me, just be so sweet around me. well, i thought it was just him being like that. but he sat next to me on a 3 1/2 hour bus ride. and ...

We've been talking for a while and stuff and we're going to have sex. Only I'm scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Okay I met this really great guy we've been talking for a while now and stuff and he wants to have sex. I do too but I'm really scared of how much it is going to hurt. So could u all help me understand how much it is going to hurt it would be great. ...

I have two friends who generally are not very respectful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - i have 2 friends who generally are not very respectful. they both think their amazing and a lot of people don't. but anyway we were having a conversation and one of them told me that she treats the upperclassmen in the drama department like ...

Do you think he wants to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I am a freshman in high school, and this boy has been a little flirt lately, he will hug me, touch me, just be so sweet around me. Well, I thought it was just him but we had a 3 1/2 hour bus drive and he sat next to me and well we talked and I had ...

His mother introduces me as his 'acquaintance' (after 2 year together!) and speaks Albanian around me! Should I end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 years and last thanksgiving (11/26/09) my boyfriend's mom introduced me to her friends (who btw already knew me from previous meetings) as Ervin's aquaintence from school. 1) I'm his girlfriend, ...

I broke his heart. Help me help him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Hey guys, need a bit of help. 5 months ago my ex left me and i was devasted, we had been together for a year and a half, and i found it hard to become stable as i couldnt do anything without being reminded of him and bursting into tears. W...

I want to date my dad's girlfriend's son, gosh, he's wow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - my dad is dating a new girl and we went out for my birthday and i met her son who is the same age as me. i really like him and he likes me but our parents said if we were to like each other they would split witch i don't want to happen but gosh hes ...

After a drunken night of hot tub sex, I find out he's got a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

7 December 2009 (F) - Alright so I'm 17 and I went to my friends house last night to drink with him, his brother and his brothers girlfriend. We are all friends here. So the night progresses on and me and this guy , lets call him George, start to get closer. George and I ...