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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Anti-Monogamy: why be faithful?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (?) - What is so great about being true to your girl?I was in a situation where I had 2 girls within my grasp( both are awesome hot might add) and they live so seperately that they would never heve met.Perfect dual relationship conditions( i dnt call it ...

I'm 13 and had sex, is that bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - im 13 and i have sex is that bad for me?Please tell me if it is i want to quit.But i cant have kids i dont have a period yet. ...

My boyfriend greets his friends first I think he should come to me first

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - in the morning i come to the place were my boyfriend stands but i get there before him so i talk to any of my friends that are there too. when he comes he goes to his friends first sometimes and then goes to me and my friend who is with me goes go ...

I like him but he has a girl, but he still invites me to his gigs!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I like this boy,he's a year older than me and i really like him,he's the only boy i have shown an interest in and [as silly as it sounds] he's the only boy i see myself with.Problem is, he has a girlfriend,and he sometimes seems happy with her,yet ...

Should I bring it up again? I told him I liked him but no response.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - anyway about a month ago i told this guy in one of my classes i have a crush on him.he never answered me he just walked away. he still talks to me and all but i dont know if i should bring up what i said and if i do so how. should i live it alone ...

Unrequited teacher crush has spiralled me into depression!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I have been in love with my teacher for the past 2 years. Please don't sigh and raise your eyebrows and think "Oh not another pupil-teacher crush, she'll get over it it" and then move on because I desperately need some advice. It did only start o...

Christmas/Anniversary gift ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Okay so Christmas is right around the corner and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend. Also two days after Christmas is our anniversary. I want to get him something that he will like but then something that is also romantic and cute. We have been ...

What do I do about this online, long distance guy that just wants friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I like this guy so much that I'm jealous. :( I've known this guy for a a year and he's helped me through so much, he's like a best mate, the only problem is that he lives in Edinburgh which is 200 miles away from me, a few months ago we started ...

How can I help my family through a troubled time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - ok, so i know this might sound weird but,my family is not doing so great right now, and everybody knows the economy is bad, but i am trying to think of ways to earn some money to help my family out, but the problem is , Im only 14 and i cant get a ...

My love for my best mate has gone to far!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Hope you can help me out here, not only to get over this but also just give your opinion on why this has all happened and what he might feel. Im so depressed! I need help getting over one of my best mates, ive liked him for nearly 2 years however ...

Do other people get punished during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - When me and my boyfriend have sex, he likes to spank me hard with his belt and he has even stuck a few pins in my bum as we are doing it. Do other people get punished the same way?...

I got myself into an awful mess with two guys!

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19 December 2009 (F) - A few days ago me and my boyfriend of 2 and a half years split up. Lets call him Bradley. He is the sort of person who cares very much but doesnt really know how to show it. Because of this I didnt feel loved and I could feel that somethin...

Is it normal to not want a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Is it normal not to want a bf? Or to even not be attracted to guys? I feel it not normal coz it does feel weird not to like guys...

What are some precautions before you have oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - I might eat out my girlfriend for the first time. This would be frist time for me doing it and first time for it being done to her. We have already masterbated one another, so we know we want to do this. What would be some helpful hints/precautions?...

How do deal with a friend who's changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Over the last couple of weeks i think either me or my friend has changed. I just can't be around her for a long time and and she acts immature and mean. I can't say it too her face because everytime I try she say's hasn't. I don't know what to do or ...

Should I just go ahead and kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - i have a bestfriend, yes shes a girl too. ive known her for many years now. when we were younger we did stuff ( fingered eachother). we're way older now and dont even mention it. back then i wasnt attracted to her but now i am. im bi but no body ...

I'm always in a sexual mood!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Alright so im a guy and im 15. And i'm always in a sexual mood now a days.And i always find myself horny, or aroused,sometime for no reason at all. Is it normal to be horny all the time? I mean i guess i would say im a sexual person, siunce im ...

The girl I like is already taken, where can I find another like her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - Hello this is my first time here =) Well i am a cool guy, have friends(popular in school), good looking, and kinda profound, but Ive never had a girlfriend or had sex, last girl i tried to get, well she was 1 year older,i talked to her and all w...

My step daughter is flirting with me, making me all hot and bothered

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - I am 47 years old and after being divorced for almost ten years I remarried a women who has a 18 year old daughter. She is college now but when she comes home she flirts with me. My sex life with my wife has become almost non exsistant and she ...

Won't see him for over a week, hope the feelings don't change

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - it is now the christmas holidays and i wont see my boyfriend for over a week,, we can keep in contact by texting but i hope things wont have changed after not seeing eachother for this lentgh of time. what can i do to stop this from happening? ...

I'm not a control freak ....... am I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - ok its me again lol sorry about this!! its boy issues yet again!! homestly i havent got a clue when it comes to men! ok so heres my problem, i met my bf through friend who i were really close to and he was close to them to but i was mainly bette...

My friends wont take my advice and its starting to make me angry!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Ok. I've spent the last 3 years helping my friends when they have a problem, reasuring them and making them smile. I try my best. And when I'm upset I hope for someone to be there for me aswell. Lately all my friends are going through a hard time, ...

He says he isnt interested in me so how come he keeps hugging me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - OK so there is a guys that i just met at the beginning of the school year and i thought he was really weird but then after i broke up with my boyfriend of the time the guy started to get a little closer to me and i started to like him, after a while ...

I want to know how to find another guy who will take things slowly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i just broke up. He was the guy i lost my virginity to, and I only had sex with him because he made me feel comfortable and didnt pressure me to do it. This was a while ago when i was younger, now i'm in college where the only ...

I am pregnant to my step brother and don't know where to turn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I was looking for advice and found this site. Ill try and make this short. I had a bf for 8 months he was ok at first and we started having sex mostly because didnt want him to cheat after awhile it seemed like thats all he wanted me around for ...

Which do girls prefer - virbrator or penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - hey, well im 16 and ive been scared recently because my girlfriend got a vibrator, and im afraid it will replace foreplay, and my actual penis. im about average size (maybe smaller) and im still a virgin and leading towards sex. But im worried that ...

Should I take a chance and pursue the high school jock?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - I am a gay junior in high school and i have a huge crush on this senior guy in one of my classes. anyways... i started liking this guy when i noticed him more in my class. he is soo cool and sooo nice :) ive only talked to him about twice but i...

I think my boyfriend is hinting about having sex, but I don't think I'm ready

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - Today I hung out with my boyfriend and we got on to the topic of sex. We weren't even talking about anything like that before, but he randomly started the topic. He said that like everyone has done it from his school. I think that he was hinting ...

How do I get her to not hate me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

19 December 2009 (M) - theres this girl whose 12 and i am 13, well me and here use to get along real well like talked all night for days we even ran of thing to talk about(this was in the summer). we had a few fights and a wierd situation after i sayed i liked her, she ...

What do guys look for in potential girlfriends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I am 14 and a freshman in high school. I have a lot of guy and girl friends but no boyfriend and lately I have been questioning myself. Three of my closest friends recently got boyfriends and they are always talking about them. I feel so left out, ...

Am I just being paranoid or could he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (?) - I think I like my close friend romantically... he's a male, I hasten to add. We attended the same college last year and spend a lot of time together when we didn't have lessons; he was little reclusive and although he associated with the popular ...

I told a guy I liked him, but he only said "okay"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I have liked a guy at my school since this summer (he is smart and nerdy and funny and perverted and weird and philosophical). I had a budding friendship with him and suddenly found myself ridiculously attracted to him. We spent the whole first ...

My teacher is such a special guy, I am in love with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5253 days ago

19 December 2009 (F) - I am in love with my teacher. I know this sounds cliche, ridiculous, like a "crush" if you will, but from the bottom of my heart, I feel this. He's tall, charming, witty and hilarious. He's such a happy person and brightens everyone's day. I can't ...