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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I keep her from getting mad at stupid things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and a half and its getting stressful since it is a long distance relationship. We get along really well and I really do love her, but she gets angry at me for the smallest and stupidest things and it ...

Why is this guy behaving like this after our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - we went on a date.. he kissed me.. he wanted to touch me up.. i didnt let him...(he got a bit distant) when i got home i rang him to tell him i had a nice time.. he said he did too..he said he would call me. didnt hear from him for 5days ...

He's what you'd call a loser and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Okay so I love my boyfriend. We've been friends for like a year and just started dating a month ago but sometimes he can be so embarrassing. I've never really minded it until now. He's what you'd call a loser and I don't know what to do. ...

Should I let my abusive ex have visitation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have somewhat of a complicated question to ask... My husband and I are getting a divorce. Back in November we had a fight, he got physical with me and I called the police. There is a temporary restraining order on him and the hearing ...

His parents interfere and he is losing interest

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - dear cupid, what do u do when u hav been dating almost a year and the others parents prevent u from talking very often and it seems that the other is losing interest in you what do you do to keep them interested?...

Jekyl and Hyde, nice to me when friends arent there, horrid when they are!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - what does it mean when a guy talks about you and make fun of you to his friends when your not around. but when his friends are not around he is the nicest guy ever. this guy used to like you and you just recently started returning the feelings. you ...

Why do I get so wet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Why do I get sooooooooo wet? when ever I'm with my boyfriend I get really really wet, the sheets are wet kind of like I peed, yeah it's that much.... but the funny part is sometimes I dont even come or feel any pleasure but it still gets soooooooo ...

I am in love with a 15 yo alcoholic

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and I broek up with my boyfriend about 3 moths ago because I had issues with the doubt that I was possibly not IN love with him and we've remained friends and I think I'm finally ready to move on and I tihnk I've fallen for someone, the thing ...

Is he just trying to be friendly or does he like me MORE than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - a month ago i met a really handsome guy. we don't go to the same school, but we have some extra classes together and we see each other only once a week. in our group, besides us, there is one more girl younger than us by one year. i got along very ...

I'm soooo nervous to text him... Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Well I'm in my second last year of school.. and I like this fella in my year! I've only had like one long relationship (6 months)and I know he had a girlfriend for ages. I've never flirted, I've barely talked to him but I really really like him...

I feel envious at people who have slept with much younger girls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Ok, This is how it is. I'm 17 years old and I've seen many people around my age have sex. I'm still a virgin and I really feel envy at people who can have sex with those young girls [15 or 16 years old girls] I seem to be a really horrible person ...

Should I meet for sexual activity? I don't want to date him and I'm 15.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I am meeting with this boy this friday from my school. He is just so mmmmmm sexyyy its weird coz i never fort i wus ever go out with him before in my life. i think he wants to have sex with me but so do i ha i dont wanna go out with him tho j...

Should I pursue she shy guy or let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - hi everyone ! I need some serious help! I like this guy so much and we are in the same class together, he is so shy !! I know that he likes me back, because I've seen him a lot of time looking at me but when I look at him, he looks away or leaves, ...

How to break hymen before having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old .. still a virgin I want to break my hymen before i have sex .. should I do it and if so how would I go about this ??? Thank you :)...

Stubborn boyfriend is rethinking relationship because I'm not ready to move in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Thanks to anyone who reads and replies to this. Ok me and my bf have been going out for about 3 years. Hes just recently asked me if we could move in together after my 1st year of uni. I am not ready for such a commitment like that. Ive just sta...

Everyone started picking on me about this girl - even my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I propose a girl 2 months ago . She said that she wont believe in commitment . Even though i keep falling for her. We become good friends. Everytime we met i told her that i like her. I regularly told about this to my friend . She also started ...

He finds out I like him, and blows it off with another girl the next day! Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! Im going to go straight into this question, im 17 years old and im in sixth form doing my a levels. In my sixth people come from all over the place, but ive been in that school since the age of 12. Well in september this boy came to...

I'm confused about the way she feels about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - Recently i told this girl i liked her but she said she was not looking for a relationship so i asked her to the christmas dance and she said yes. Then we were taking normally for about a week. After about a week she calls me and asks me if i wa...

How can I get out of this despair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I couldn't have ever imagined even in the wildest dream of mine about such an end to my blind faith in her.It was a relationship where though we didn't exchanged words but the hearts knew it all.To be very fair,I absolutely have no idea when it all ...

Please give me some insight on how to get him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and for the last year and 5 months have been in love with a 38 year old man. I've heard it all before, oh he's too old for you, oh he's only using you for sex. So I really dont need to hear it from people on here who dont even know ...

The girl I like has gone cold on me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - the girl i like keeps ignoring me. not long ago when we met we use to talk all the time i think she knows that i like her but why doesnt she talk to me that much anymore?...

Sometimes there's blood when I wipe!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

9 December 2009 (M) - I am really worried. I need your help. Ok, this barely started some time ago, not that long ago, but the problem is that sometimes when i go to the bathroom and then i wipr theres blood. What can this be a sign of ? What shoudl I do ?!...

Do his good points outweigh his bad ones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I've recently starting dating this guy who i am totally besotted with he is like all I think about but I don't know why its really strange. He is charming, sensitive, funny, mysterious, caring and very very handsome but at the same time he is ...

Maybe in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

9 December 2009 (F) - I think I may be bi? I have a best friend who is a "straight" girl- I am closer to her than any other person I know. We literally spend all of our time together. We sleep next to each other whenever she's over. We change and I even talk to her...