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You can say its only sex for him but it still hurt.

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Question - (18 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

after sleeping with someone and talking after the guy saying he wants to sleep and i messing around saying ill take a picture of u asleep and post it on fb

which i was only messing but he replied no dont do that people might get the wrong idea

I said yeah they would knowing i wouldnt do it anyway

But after i thought it throught that kinda hurt as yeah i do like him, and he obviously doesnt like me like that even tho we have sleep togehter about 9 times now yeah you can say its only sex for him but it still hurt

Should i have taken this the wrong way or not i didnt say anything to him about it but still crossed my mind maybe he thinks im minging or something

How should i really take it ?

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (18 October 2010):

dirtball agony auntWhat person12345 said. Decide what you want from him. If you're happy being his FWB, then don't cross that line. If you want more, then you need to be honest about that and most likely move on.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (18 October 2010):

person12345 agony auntI think before you continue with anything, before you have sex again, you need to both lay out what your intentions are. It seems like he just wants someone to have sex with and pretend she doesn't exist (so he can pick up other girls) and you want to be in a relationship. You need to both talk about what you want out of your relationship together and decide if you can agree on something. Otherwise someone is going to get hurt.

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