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female
age
36-40,
*nteup
writes:I met this guy a few years ago. He was married at the time and we got along well and stayed in touch casually, a coffee every so often but nothing more.He and his wife are now in the process of divorce with her making the move to leave him. He and i also started spending more time together and I am well aware he is on the rebound. This would otherwise be ok for me as i don't want anything serious with him.Now we have also fooled around a bit and i'm discovering i don't want us to go beyond friends. I certainly don't want to lead him on either. I enjoy having him in my life but the sex didn't have a connection. Plus, i'm wondering if being with him to much would keep me from meeting someone i do have a stronger connection with. I have every intention of being up front and honest with him, but can anyone offer advice on how to break this to him gently? He's going through this rough time and i'm worried that all i've done is complicated things for him.thanks in advance!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 October 2010):
 Just be gentle with him tell him that he needs some space coming out of his marriage and you dont want to complicate things anymore for him tell him you care about him as a friend and you dont want to end up hurting him but that you will be there for him strictly as a friend and nothing more.
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