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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm confused as to when pre-ejaculation occurs as I have heard various things. Any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - If my boyfriend and I had sex and he was inside me not even a minute before putting a condom on, is there a chance there was pre-cum? I am confused also as to when pre-ejaculation occurs. I've heard various things. Please help....

My stretch marks make me nervous about having sex with my bf.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Hello. Ugh well this is embarrassing but I'm scared. I'm 23 and me and my bf have been talking about having sex. My birthday is coming up and he said that we could do something special for dinner then go back to his apartment. And I was very ove...

Girls...do you prefer shaven or unshaven??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - There is this girl i think i might loose my virginity too, i have no questions about sex or the kind just one, to girls like their guy to have pubic hair? If you could help me that'd be great!...

The thought of making love to my husband repulses me. Should I end the marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I have been married to the "perfect" man for 15 years. We do not have children together (he has had a vasectomy) but he has children from his first marriage although they are now grown up. I have a job that I love (fitness instructor) but does not ...

How can you be sure somebody loves and cares for you before you have sex with them??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - How can you know if a guy really loves and cares for you before you have sex with him? I have read that one should hold out a little longer until one is sure...but can one really be sure?? Only after the act can one know what the other person is ...

He jokingly said I am not active whilst in the missionary position, when HE is in charge. Any suggestions - to surprise him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

11 January 2008 (?) - Usually, me and my partner have sex in the missionary position. I'm not sure I like this as much as I did to begin with though, for several reasons. 1) It's hard to change into other positions, as he is in charge. 2) He jokes that I don't do much ...

Guys please help me and tell me what turns a guy on.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

11 January 2008 (?) - Hey guys, I really need your advice. What turns guys on? I love giving my boyfriend oral, and having sex with him, but I feel so scared incase I hurt him when I 'explore'. What is it that hurts if someone kicks your testicles? How can I avoid givi...

He says we cannot share a relationship as he does not have a cell phone - to be able to maintain contact. Should I stay away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to this guy a few months ago. Since then we talk. I want a relationship but he doesn't. He says he likes me, but it would be hard to be in a relationship because he doesn't have a cell phone and it wouldn't be fair to me ...

Got up to answer phone and he noticed the condom had bust. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Hi In December my bf and i were having sex. We had just started and he probably stroked me about 10 times and the phone rang so i got up to answer it, he then discovered that the condom has bust. He didnt come and wasnt close to coming. Is it po...

Can you dye your pubic hair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - Can you dye your pubic hair? Mine's so light, I want it darker!...

Extra tips to increase the pleasure? Am I on the right path?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

11 January 2008 (?) - My boyfriend says I'm already amazing at oral sex, and he always responds really well, but is there anything I can do to make him enjoy it even more? I know the head is good to stimulate, and I always hold his shaft and move it up and down, and ma...

According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...

Would a sex doll help me become better in bed??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Ok, so ive been living the single life for a few months now and I am looking to get back on the dating scene when I go back to college next week. To boost my confidence, I was wondering if buying a sex doll or one of those realistic molded vaginas ...

When I masturbate I always phantasise about homosexual acts, men or women. Sex with my boyfriend is never influenced by these images, but what do they mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - im in a relationship with a man, have been for four years. but when i masturbate i often think of women kissing each other or just womens bodies. i also fantasize about two men being together. i never fantasize about heterosexual sex acts, always g...

How does a man feel if a woman he's with for the first time tells him of her desire and that she wants to be satisfied without delay? Should I feel so embarassed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

11 January 2008 (F) - I am feeling a bit embarrassed about something I did last night and would really like to know the opinions of some of you wise strangers. I have been dating a man for about 3 months now. I had told him up front that I did not want to rush into a ...

Is it normal to think of naked pre-teen boys and girls when masturbating?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

11 January 2008 (M) - Hi, I am 18, but I am NOT sick. Sometimes, when I masturbate, I think of naked pre-teen boys and girls. Is this normal?...