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anonymous
writes:I like this guy, he's a friend of a friend and we talk on Facebook; we get on quite well and he recently revealed to me that he used to be depressed and has scars from it, he asked me not to tell his friends so that might mean they don't know?The problem I'm having is that firstly, he only seems to see me as a friend, I'm nice but as far from his type as it gets. Secondly, our mutual friend revealed that when I met up with them once, unplanned, that the guy I likes complained that my friend, I'll call him sam, and Tom(another friend)were spending more time with me then him and their other mates. When we talk he seems rather flirty, but am I just being hopeful? I really like him but I'm not sure how to get him to like me back... What should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2012): I wrote this question, I know I'm not his type because I'm milky white, ginger and have blue eyes. He likes black girls :/ plus I tried telling him once and he said he didn't see me like that, Sam actually finds it rather funny that I like this guy :/
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 January 2012):
 First off how do you know that you are not his type? Just because you might be different to a usual type of girl he goes for does not mean that he is not interested in you. First of friendship is always a good base for these things. He has told you something very personal about himself so this shows what great trust he has in you, that is not something that he would probably be able to talk about easily. It does sound to me like he has great respect for you, and maybe his complaining is showing that he is jealous of these other guys. If you do not want to tell him that you like him directly well then maybe just try flirting with him more and see what happens. Good luck.
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