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He was flirting with me but now says I'm not his type

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Question - (29 January 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, *b47977 writes:

I have this problem with a coworker of mine that I ended up really liking his name is Bryan… We have known each other since October 2010. He had asked me what his chances were for taking me out to dinner was and I had told him that his chances are good. He had told me that I was a nice sight for his eyes. Said that he liked me because I cute, shy, and like a mystery to figure out. He called me cutie, sweetie, turtle, sweetheart, hun, hunny and wifey…. Then towards the end of him teaching baseball he had said that he would make time for me that never happened. Then I took a chance with on July 28th or a little but earlier that month and asked him to go to Woodstock Fair on September 4, 2011 he got back to me saying that he would love to go with me and that he wanted to win me something and that he wanted a kiss on the cheek… But he ended up getting sick and not telling that he wasn’t going to make it till the time we were going to leave the house. he had said that he wanted to make up for not going. He use to text me first all the time now he doesn’t even do that. He did end up taking me out for lunch/dinner tho on Thursday October 6,2011 but it didn’t feel like he wanted to. I did end up getting a hug (the longest on he had ever gave me) and a kiss on the head when he dropped me off at home (I had a good time he had me laugin the entire time we were together). I’m getting played I was getting played. He is nothing but a big flirt he flirts with almost every girl… I’m sick of guys playing with my head. Making me think they like me and want to go out with me then nothing happens. I’m tired of waiting around and looking for that one special guy… I kinda wish that Bryan would be my first and only boyfriend. Well the point is that he was flirting with me but now he says im not his type. Was he getting my hopes up and what should i do?

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (29 January 2012):

VSAddict agony auntIf he flirts with other girls, then maybe he was getting your hopes up. It seems like he likes the chase but doesn't want to start anything. You should definitely move on. He can't be trusted if he's flirting with everyone and it was crappy for him to do all this just to say you're not his type. Move on, there's much better guys.

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