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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

don't want to leave him but hes got too much baggage... all we do is fight...HELP!?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. I've been with my current boyfriend for 4 years on and off and we live together now, but all we do is fight. we fight about everything from his drug dealing drinking having people over all the time and messing up the hous...

I have a strong feeling he's lying but I didn't tell him that...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - me and my bf are in a relaition ship of 7 months, i'm christian and he's muslim, he always calls me stupid, he says that all his friends tell him that i'm ugly and he deserves better, he controls what i should say and do. he hate all my friends and ...

Lost puppy effect.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - With a friend of mine going through a break up at the moment I have noticed the common behavior of her bf which I want to call the lost puppy effect. Some back ground on the situation is that she broke up with him and is moving on and going through ...

She is so selfish, she's driving my crazy!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - ughhh someone please give me some advice!! i dont mean to sound nasty but my friend is driving me mad! she is so selfish... she broke up with her boyfriend over 6 months ago and was having an affair with another man at the same time she broke u...

Why does he not want to be my friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - A guy and I expressed an attraction for one another. We flirted a lot and both felt like there was this "something" about the other that drew us to each other but we never actually dated. He ultimately felt like we couldn't do this and I was ...

My ex friend doesn't like me anymore. How do I cope being in 2 classes with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (?) - Well my x best friend told me that she didn't want to be my friend anymore because I apparently brought stress to her life. she has anxiety problems. I really loved her and everything and when she told me this, she really broke my heart and ruined ...

She says I'm better even though they were bigger!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - ive been with the same woman for 14 years.i just found out that she slept with 3 of my friends four yrs ago.one a really close friend.iam now very insecure and hurt cuz i knw that they are bigger than me in penis size.so i knw she enjoyed it ...

I'm in Love with a Straight Friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - I'm a 15 year old boy from England. I'm also gay. I have good friends and a nice family. Being gay isn't actually the issue, I've told my brother and sister, and some friends. I'm not open about it, so not many people in my school know. I am pret...

Help me translate what he meant by his comment!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey, so I need some help to translate a comment this guy made. I know him through work, he asked me out at the weekend, had a great time, went to a movie. Then asked me out again last night. Again, had a great time. He sent me a text saying ...

Help!!! What can I say to ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - I met a girl at a house party 2 weeks ago, we got on really well but I never got her number. However I managed to be added by her on facebook (she even sent me a message before I could). I want to ask her out but I don't kow how to when the only way...

Magic Number - 5 too many?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I told a close (male) friend of mine my magic number the other day (5). He seemed to think it was pretty high. I can account for these: 1. first time 2. 3 yr relationship 3. short relationship 4. 1 night stand 5. current relationship. I hav...

Is it a bad idea to go over there and meet this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I'm 17, 18 in a few months, I have been talking to this guy in Washington since around April, he is 20. Anyway he wants me to come over to see him, hes in college and drinks a lot he says, my life is pretty bad at home right now and I see it as the ...

Should I start things up with him again or leave it and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I have a bit of a problem and I would like your advice. When I was in high school, I had a crush with a guy that I was in the same class with. I confronted him about this and he did not show interest in me. At tht time I was 13 yrs and he was 14. ...

Want to get rid of this feeling!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - This is a cliche situation but I think I'm in love with my ex-boss! It started from the first time that we started talking on a personal level. I mean from my side I know I started having feelings for him from then on..my problem is that he's ...

I'm in awe of this guy... Helpppp!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - Omg, now I need help lol!! I'm the one that gives awesome advise!! I'm scared now, see I just started college, and I'm in love with a girl, but she has a bf, and she thinks of us as just friends, but recently...I met this guy, he is in my class, ...

How can I spend more time with him without making it too obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I'm 15 and I really like this guy who's 16. I used to see him a lot but not so much anymore I dont know many of his friends so I cant just go some place with them and hope hes there and I dont have a cell to call or text him so my question is how ...

Boundaries in a relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Question: When in a loving and committed relationship, are there boundaries when it comes to sleeping over somebody of the opposite sex's house alone, even if you are just mates? If your partner is not happy about it but you think it is fine, should ...

Do I need to just bite the bullet and do this to make her happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - hey everyone, this is an issue thats been bothering me a lot recently. basically, i'm gay and have been in my first proper gay relationship for about 6 months now. our relationship is long distance and sometimes its hard not seeing eachother...

He's a loner... but I miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - I'm confused. We have been apart for 4 months. During that period, he have been trying to be friends with me. Wanting to go trips with me, telling me how much I would love the bands he discovered or telling his weird dreams to me. I haven't been ...

I know I'm in dangerous water here...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4883 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - Ok this may be stupid but I think im falling in love. I don't know how it happened. One minute my thoughts were purely on why I was so afraid of everything that has been happening. I mean i've been really perceptive to everything my SO has been ...

Will I be able to find a better guy who will love me...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey Everyone! I'm posting this with lots of hopes in my heart that somebody will definitely answer my question. I'm not able to decide who was right and who was wrong in my past relationship because the end of the story lies undecided at the...

Friend wants me to spy on her ex husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - My colleague wants me to spy on her ex husband... They are now divorced and he left her for someone else 2 years ago. I believe my colleague is very much in love with him still and doesn't accept the fact he's moved on. My colleague has 2 c...

How can I live and make decisions based on a present situation and forget about what happened in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Hey there, I like this guy, I had written in asking about him not too long ago to this site. The problem is that we're friends and I have fallen for friends in the past and I haven't had too much luck with the friends first thing. (Don'...

I wasn't there for my friend and the guilt is consuming me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - So my friend was coerced into having sex a couple of months ago and I only found out about it today. When I did, it was probably the angriest I've ever been in my life. Though we're not going out, I tried to think of a way to help her, but I guess ...

Does my bestfriends brother like me too? or is it just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - My bestfriends brother is AMAZING! :D He's super cute! the other day in school, he walked up to me and randomly gave me a huge hug. It made my stomach tingle and basically made my day. I am seriously confused. Im confused because::: I dont know what ...

What did he mean by saying I'm not pregnant yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Okay. So I have a crush on my friends brother, who is one year older than me. I was at their house yesterday and and said Guess What? My friend said: Uh.. You're pregnant? I said: No. Her brother said: not YET anyways" Whats that supposed to mean!...

How should I tell my friend what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - Ok so we had a fair and my best friend really wanted a big stuffed animal. I won it a little later and I was about to give it to her but then she ran away and said she had to meet her mom. She texted me later and asked me if I left and I said yes. ...

Is she lying to me about the other girl? I need help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - this is kinda tricky, and im in what i would call a problem. One of my friends (female) that we will call F1, gets jealous, and has admited that F2 (also female) always has guys like her more than her, even though they are "best friends". this is ...

Shy guy around girls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - please help me out! i need your advice!! im a 21 years old guy in a good shape and often times i catch some people checking me out. the problem is when i start talking to a girl i always think she is "the one meant to be". so im too nice too ...