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I'm in Love with a Straight Friend

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Question - (7 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *ugo95 writes:

I'm a 15 year old boy from England. I'm also gay. I have good friends and a nice family. Being gay isn't actually the issue, I've told my brother and sister, and some friends. I'm not open about it, so not many people in my school know.

I am pretty much in love with a boy in my year. Well, if not love, a strong strong strong crush. I'm obessed with this guy, infattuated. He is literally all I think about. Over the summer holidays when I didn't see him much I thought I was getting over him but now I'm seeing him in school I'm obbessed with him again. We're sort of friends, we don't really talk that much, but we know each other, and I think he likes me as a friend.

It just makes me so depressed when I remember he's straight, and that I'll never have him. And then I think well he COULD be gay, even if its just a miniscule chance. I'd love so much to just 'get over it' but it's very difficult. Any suggestions?

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2010):

Fairy_Lu agony auntUnfortunatly most people have to go through this, unrequited love it sucks trust me i know. The good news is you do get over it, the bad news is there is no way of knowing when (im still waiting for Johnny Depp to wisk me off my feet its been 10 years so far).

The truth is there is not much you really can do about it but take your mind off him spend time distracting yourself go out with your other friends take up a hobby keeping your mind busy will stop you feeling so depressed about the whole situation. One day you will find your perfect match and forget about this guy

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