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Archived questions from: 21 November, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Why is she doing this now after being so cold towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I was very close to my friend and still have feelings for her. We had had a short romance earlier in the year that sort of turned to friendship. A few months ago, I told her I still had feelings for her and she let me down softly. She said she ...

I'm 14 and just into boys... how do I flirt???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Guys, I've never really had a boyfriend before but I really like this guy and everyone is telling me to just flirt with him but how do you flirt? Could you give me tips on stuff I could use because honestly I haven't got anything....

Should I reconsider my outfit???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - I'm going to a concert tonight with my cousin (26), her boyfriend (26), and his brother (18). I'm 16. I know this is silly, but I've seen pics of this guy (cousins bf's little brother) and I think hes really cute :) i was planning on wearing ripped ...

I like her more than just a friend! Should I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - i've known this girl for just less than a year now. We spoke over msn for months and we became really close and met for the first time about a month ago. I met her in person for the first time about a month ago. She'd been going out with a guy i ...

Is my female house mate just being friendly or is it more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Advice from woman please! female house mate! So here's the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key...

Did she really intend to hurt me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - For seven years, Jane and I were participants in a forum about current affairs. We admired each other's writing, and exchanged occasional innocuous private messages. This spring, Jane sent me a PM proposing to tell me some stories about her life. ...

Why do guys turn against girls when they really like them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Quick question... basically why do some guys, even the good guys... why do they turn against a girl if they like them a lot? Like why are they horrible to them or change the way they are with them depending on who they're with and where they are! ...

Why is she freaking out about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I've been best friends with since like 3rd grade. We are so close cuz my brother and him are best friends and me and his sister are best friends. Anyways recently he's been really like touchy and he's one of the hottest most ...

How do you tell the one you love you love someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - How do you tell the one you love you love someone else? I have been with my boyfriend a year now and I'm very happy. I started talkling with his best friend and I'm starting to have really deep feelings for him and I don't know what to do... I'...

What am I supposed to do next with this girl I know...?

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21 November 2009 (M) - Hi all, I've met this girl recently who goes to my university. She has a boyfriend too (who lives half country away), but this one night she said she was bored. So we spoke for hours then she wanted to meet me. We ended up getting a bottle and going ...

How do I convince him it wasn't me who text him?

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21 November 2009 (F) - Ok everyone, I need help in trying to convince this guy that I wasn't texting him from another number trying 2 be someone else, It happened to2 be my ex bf doing this, I had only met this guy 3 times and was beginging 2 really like him. The last thi...

What do I do... pressure... or give her space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - hey all, ok i know a girl in my class since 3 months ago and its really going well, she is so nice and funny likes me and she knows that Ii do like her but I havn't said it at all, and I'm 70% sure she likes me back (why there isnt any 100% fo...

In love with my best friend and can't live without him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been in love with my best friend for 4 years now. He's only 19 and I am 35. I love him so much and I think I can't live without him. Please advise me on what to do....

Advice from woman please! Female house mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Advice from woman please! female house mate! So heres the situation- I'm living in a house share with an attractive woman, whom also happens to be the landlady! I'm not sure if she likes me as more then a friend, however here as some key points- ...

My friend has gotten cynical and bitter! What can I do to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - My best friend has been acting very weird lately. She has just gotten back from being overseas through volunteer work and she seems very moody. She'll have these random outbursts. For example, tonight I was downloading something on her computer and ...

We're very close but he ignores me in public

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Ok, im just so confused. So i like a guy, and he happens to be a good friend of mine...but he acts so weird. im really shy, so i cant initiate conversation. He used to have...sorta an unspoken rule about only talking to me once a day in a designat...

A girl with a boyfriend likes me a lot... what should I do?

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21 November 2009 (M) - Hi guys, One of my friends (who has a bf, but doesn't see him much any more) has started hanging out with me a lot, she invites me out to town around once or twice a week, and sometimes sleeps round my house. I like her a lot myself. I can...

I told him a very personal thing about me and now all his friends are calling me names. I don't know how to handle it any more. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

21 November 2009 (?) - Last night i told my boyfriend of 10 months that i had been raped before we got together and that is why i do not wish to have sex before we are married as i am scared and any time i think about sex i see His face. its horrible. Even for my ...

My mate lied to me and it cost me my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - Hi, when i was 22 i bumped in to my old school friends and became good mates again like we were back at school, 2 years later i was still single and my mate jess promised me to set me up with her mate and she said her mate claire is interested in me ...