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writes:One of my best mates has been sleeping with her ex bf for god nows how many months now, and we have only recently found out about it,The thing is her ex has a gf who is pregnent with his baby and is due this december, I have told my mate to stop this but she is not listening 2 me, she said the other day that he now has started kissing her again during when they have sex, in apparently he never did at the start of this whole cheating thing, she says he kisses her neck and full on snogging. Even more so ive told her to stop, But she will not listen.She thinks by him kissing her means he still has feeling for her and that he still wants sex with her means that he still likes her,She is a close mate and i do want 2 help her but with her not listening i cant so anything, And she seems to have no money and im not sure if shes giving him the money for sex I SAY IM NOT SURE so please dont pick me up on this one,Please what can i do?Mybe he does still like her?Maybe she s right about this ?Your point of veiws please
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (30 November 2009):
 You and I know that the charming ex BF is a waste-of-space. I feel sorry for his pregnant GF. You can tell your friend she is wrong until you are blue in the face but she has to learn her own mistakes the hard way.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 You know the old saying, "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink". You can talk to your mate until you are blue in the face, but until she is willing to listen it will be as if her ears and eyes are clogged up tight.
ALl you can do is sit and wait for the proverbial to hit the fan, and if he has a pregnant girlfriend it will happen sooner or later.
When it does, dont get involved, just be there to help pick up the pieces and be prepared for a few messy weeks. It might take her a while to recognise she has contributed to the mess, but once she does she will be on the way to recovery.
Stand fast and wait for the storm, because it's coming!
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