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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ive got a boyfriend and hes so amazing. this other girl we know fancies him and shes just told everybody even though im going out with him. i know he will never go out with her even if he wasnt going out with me. but now that she knows i know shes started flirting with him. how can i tell her to back off because both me and my boyfriend are gettin uncomfortable with her cause she keeps huggin him n putting her hand on his arm when hes got his arm around me. she very insecure and is a cry baby etc so i need to tell her subtly. any ideas how people?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): Just ignore the girl, don't retaliate or even comment on what she's said...she will get bored when she doesn't get a rise out of you. Some people! Possibly your boyfriend was a little too rude to her and she's taking it out on you.....Glad to hear he is sticking up for you though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx for the advice sorry its a bit late (my internet was broken ) :( he told her to back off and she has but now shes bullying me called me a slag and fat and i took your advice and paid attention to my boyfriend and we've been going out nearly 3 months now :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): That is for your boyfriend to take care of.....if he doesn't like her advances/attention, then he needs to handle it, not you.....you don't own him and you all are a quite frankly a bunch of kids.....really you might want to make friends with this girl instead of being her enemy. Remember boyfriend's come and go, especially at this age. Don't get a reputation for being bossy, possessive and caring about a boy more than you do about yourself.
If you really want to know the problem is not with the other girl, it is with your boyfriend should he choose to go out with her....Right now, she is just being overly friendly to him and doing it when you are there is her way of trying not to act like a threat to you......don't believe he said she said rumors, don't give them a second thought. Pay attention to your boyfriend's behavior towards you and towards her and address it with him, not her.
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