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writes:What are the signs of a fake friend?I have a friend who completely cut me off when she got a boyfriend, and she arranged to meet up Saturday then blew me off to go somewhere else.I really try with her but sometimes she seems SO! selfish. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (7 February 2009):
maybe you should stop making the effort and maybe she will realise after a while that she does not have many friends left.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah and satindesire..she always cancels on us, so there comes a point where you wonder why bother making the 'effort. theres only so much i can do
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (6 February 2009):
i have a similar problem with one of my friends. she got a bf a few years ago, ditched me and our other friends. she didn't talk to us anymore, meet up,etc. so we carried on having fun without her and then a few years later her bf dumps her and we get a random text saying how sorry she is,blah blah and she wants to start hanging out again. of course we are not comfortable with this, you can't just ditch your friends for some guy!
i always think what happens when another man comes into her life, would she ditch us again. what's the point! i think she needs to find new friends. i know it sounds harsh, but we and you are probably better off without her.
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