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Can I say we are in a relationship already?

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Question - (31 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been having a long distance friendship with a guy I met 2 years ago in a business delivery I made. He's military so he left soon after that. The weird part is that we met only 2 times but a click happened there.

Since that meeting we've been in contact through emails. First it was once a month, then twice a month, then whenever we feel like it to weekly, now I call him and talk on the phone. He was in Japan at that time, now in the US but far yet from me. Even deployed we communicate. We say we are friends, BUT when I talk about me hanging out with other guys he kinda reacts like NOT liking it.

I even feel guilty when I try and date, I feel for him. When we talk some kind of sexual tension is felt. There are things he already consider me like respecting what we have, so if I start to keep in touch with someone else he doesn't like it. Can I say I'm starting to have a more steady relationship with him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009):

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Would the situation change if I say he's married?

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