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writes:Ok so I've been so very lonely for the past 5 years because since 2003 I still don't have a single friend.. I do have many friends back in China but when I come here in Ireland things change.. I don't know what's the problem.. I dont want to be a loner anymore.. Want to change it when i go to college next year.. What should I do.. Reply to this Question
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reader, egrl202  +, writes (29 December 2008):
You have to have this additude like you are the one people want to talk to,be around, and be friends with. Learn what other people like, smile, make small talk with thoses around you, see what you have in common with different people, and you will make friends.
Ask people for their numbers when your talking to them and say something like, "we really need to chill out side of school" or something like that, keep in touch with everyone. Hang in there, there is someone for everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): why not join a club or something, do something you enjoy - its a great way of meeting people and making new friends.
when you go to college act more confident and talk to the people you meet on the first day - no one, or at least not many people will now you so you can be who you want to be.
i know its hard making new friends after moving to another country, i went through the same thing couple of years ago but i have great friends now!
good luck x
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 It will change at college... But if you wanna make some now just ask someone to go do somthing like a movie or to hang out at your place or go to the shops. it's that simple.
if your question has more in depth please explain the details.
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