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Have I ruined my chances for a relationship AND friendship?

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Question - (17 December 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

I am very good friends with a guy i work with, he is a few years younger than me, nothing has ever happened between us but we are very close and other people assume it has. I know that he has strong feelings for me, yet mine are stronger for him. Lately he seems to have backed away from me and we are having more arguments and i don't know why? should i also back away or should i try to repair what i think is a fantastic friendship even though i know it cannot be anything else?

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2005):

shania agony auntI think that because you are very keen on this guy,he has noticed it,he is feeling uncomfortable with it and he has started to back away.You havent liked it and therefore the arguments have begun.I know you must be feeling very frustrated but i think you should back off.If he does value your friendship then he knows where you are.Really the friendship isnt enough for you and you want more but this guy is out of reach.Look else where.

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