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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

Can an unclebe attracted to his niece?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - surely not? can an uncle be attracted sexually to his niece? when i was with my partner(ex now} i had nagging gut feelings to the way he was around his niece.this is his sisters daughter by the way. shes 18 hes 42 and she was staying at her grans wh...

How do I get my parents to compromise with a little freedom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - my problem is having a boyfriend. My parents won't allow it. I'm 15 in my last year school, and he's my first boyfriend. I really like him, i usually don't pay attention to stuff like that, but i felt that he's different. He likes me for who i am...

B/f says I'm selfish and keeping him away from his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and living together for 3 years! We have a two year old boy and i am pregnant with our second!! I know our relationship has never been the best in the world or the healthiest Lately we have been ...

The old question: In love with a straight guy part infinity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - (MOD NOTE: POSTER'S ORIGINAL TITLE) I'm a just turned 20 year old (gay)guy who always attract straight guys. But here is the problem: I like my brother in law too much then i actually should. Everytime he looks/smiles or even talkes to m...

I'm caught in the middle of a family fight!!! Please, I need your help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I am stuck in the middle of three sisters one my Mums side of the family and a bad relationship with my mum and my Dad's sister. I try to be nice to everyone in My family because I hardly see them and when I do I like it to be a good, happy time, ...

Why does my brother try to steal my girlfriends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - why the hell is my brother tring to steal my girlfriend when he knows i love her and she loves me to make matters worse he has a girlfriend. my girl is not what he likes, she is not his type, but hes giving hints and shes falling for them....

I don't have any parenting skills and she has a 2 year old...should there be some instant bond or something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - I have met a old flame from school, I havnt seen her in 6years. When we met the same chemistry was still there and we hit it off as though we hadn't stopped seeing each other all those years! She has recently came out of a relationship as have I. ...

Can I tell my family I'm pregnant without disclosing the relationship information?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Okay - i am preganant and living with my folks. Most of my family still believe me to be a virgin, they have no idea that i had a boyfriend for a few months a little while ago. This is gonna be hard because they will not exspect it at all - if i was ...

Its complicated...please some objective input?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...

My 2 children don't know their father! Should I contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - hi i am married woman the mother of two kids,the man i am married is not the father of my kids , they are from relationship before my kids do not know there father we separate when one was one year and other was not yet born i do not see father ...

Mom's short skirts are causing me to have troubled sexual thoughts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hi, Hope i can get some advise here. I am 22 now originally India only a son for my parents. I got a small traditional family back in my Country. My mother she is 37(5'4" tall, medium built, dark complexion) and my dad is 56(yes nearly 20 years ...

Is our relationship ever going to settle down? Is he ever going to change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I met my bf when we both werent looking for a relationship. we never wanted to be apart, he made me feel wonderful, he was inspired to change his outlook on life, we were both so alike(and still are in some ways). passionate, kind, thoughtful...

Last day in Spain, I have to go home, but I don't want to leave. I'm so sad. Please advise?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hola, For those of you that don´t know me, I´m an aunt here on this site. I´m always glad to help, and I try to give very direct and sincere advice without judging people. I´m here because I´m feeling a little sad today and I´m not really sur...

Is it wrong to wish he'd just pass away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My dad has been a severe alcoholic most of my life. He was emotionally dead when I was a teen and went through a brief point of sobriety when i was in my early 20''s. for the last couple of years, he's cheated death several times. he has survived ...

Should I ask out my cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Okay, this is a... predicament, so i will remain anonymous for obvious reasons- Here's the story: I recently traveled out of state to visit aunts, uncles, cousins, and so on... I was hanging out with one of my male cousins, when two girls ...

Do you think he hates me for all the stupid mistakes I've made?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - this is a relatively long question/story, just warning you. In December of last year, I started visiting a chatroom especially for the iPod touch. I was pretty bored, telling people I was 17, and I'm 14 was 13 then. I did not have pics, since...

Age difference and disapproving parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - i decided to go back to college and further my education. I am a bit older than normal college age (late 30's). While there I've met a woman that I fell for. She tells me that she has the same feelings for me, but her family disapproves of it ...

Do I try and show her father I've changed? He's a cop.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Ok , I live in a small town wehre everyone knows everyone. As a teenager and in to my ealrie 20's i went through the whole bad boy stage. Ditching school , drinking, fighting, racing cars, drugs, tattoos, I did jail time for break and enter and drug ...

How do I handle this habit of my mothers....she wants whats best for me, but we disagree on what that is...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My mom has this strange habit, and I´m curious as to what it means. I´ve never been married and not sure I want to be. I have this childhood friend, and I only think of him as a friend. He´s a good friend and I like him as a person but he is...

Ex leaving threatening messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have recently emigrated to another country with my 9 year old son. I am a single mother and have been for some time. My son has had very little contact with his father during his 9 years of life (even though his dad lived only 5 minutes down ...