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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend keeps leaving the house when we start arguing and saying its over. I struggled a lot just before we met with money being on my own working mininum wage and having two kids. He has helped me out but now throws it in my face. I've gone yeara without all the nice things in life and its gotten me down but he startwd spoiling me and treating me. Now he's not earning what he used to he makes out like i contribute nothing although i pay rent and loads of other bills. Some women i know have never worked and live off benefits, I try really hard and he's throwing everything in my face that hes given me. He told me my life's a mess I have no fun or sense of humour that im a s^^g and sleep round before I met him which isnt true. I'm sat in bed crying over a man who obciouusly hates the site of me. What can I do, to stay strong, and stop myself texting him hurtful things. When he says its over I feel sad. How can I stop thinking that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2013): He made you unhappy, just think of that, and being with someone who is not right for you is very draining. So if you waver - think of all the negative aspects. Tell yourself you deserve to be happy, either alone or with someone suited to you.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (22 May 2013):
 Hi
I was a single mum after a divorce, worked hard and went without. That's how it is. It's still better to go without and have peace of mind in your home.
The kids will grow up knowing you did everything for them, and one day be independent and earning beceause you have shown them the right way to live.
This man just brings you down and throws insults at you. You should be proud of what you achieve. You do not need some idiot around you - or your children because they will know whats going on.
Don't give him the satisfaction - be strong, put him out of your mind and do not contact him.
He is in the wrong and he is not worth being in your life.Yes he's fine when the goings good but not when his life changes and income drops, he just resents you all then.
I hope the childrens father pays maintenance, if not then sort it out.
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reader, shmily_girl01  +, writes (22 May 2013):
 An independent woman is a turn on to most men. And I believe you start right now on how to become an independent person.
Work on yourself first and the rest around you will fall into place.
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