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I want to get back with my ex but I cant kick my boyfriend out because he owes my parents money! What should I do?

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Question - (16 May 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Well me and my boyfriend have been 'together' for nearly 3 years right at the beginning it was a casual thing we were only young and I kissed someone at a party, and up until yesterday that was all I had done.

Whereas he has cheated on me 5+ times taken numerous drugs which I absolutely hate and he knows. Around 7-8 months ago he got kicked out of his adopted parents house to be fair through no fault of his own. Everything was looking up he didn't really go out with his druggie friends we'd booked a holiday to Egypt in summer which he is currently paying my parents back for (still owes around £450) until around a week ago he went out with his friends and I knew something was up when he got back turned out he'd taken drugs I was fuming, people very close to be have died of overdoses and it makes me sick. The only reason I didn't kick him out was because he owed my parents a lot of money and I know he wouldn't pay them back.

We had a break around a year into our relationship and I got with someone else it was a good relationship and it ended well, and by shear coincidence this ex text me after my boyfriend took the drugs. Normally I wouldn't have replied but I was so angry with him to cut a it short My boyfriend went away to London last night on business and I ended up meeting my ex and had the most amazing sex just like we used to.

So in short I can't kick him out because he owes money to my parents which they won't get which isn't fair on them, I kinda wanna see my ex again, there's no lust between me and my boyfriend I've lost all respect and am just disgusted in him because of the drugs, last night was the first time I've felt like a woman and felt wanted in a long time, I don't want to get back with my ex perhaps a casual thing? Should I see him again ?

I just feel like a slag hopefully you can understand ? Everything he has done to me...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2013):

Kick him out or you leave do what is necessary to correct the problem. See a lawyer your going to need one. Good-luck.

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