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writes: I'm 22. my guy is is 27 and we've been dating almost 4years. We both see each other we pay each other visit ,call each other on phone and joke but now his attitude towards me change suddenly, i don't seems to get him any longer if i pay him visit now he hide his fone from me. it been so long since he called so i stopped calling as well.he relocated 2 another house without letting me i went to where to his former house was before i notice he has relocated.there a time i traveled just to write my exams he doesnt show concern and each time he log in facebook he doesnt ask me how are my doing but instead he went ahead asking me wen are mine going to pay him visit.how do i know if he is with another girl does he loves at all,should i pay him d visit or break up please i need ur advice thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2013): Oh hunny, hes a user. This man is not a boyfriend. He did not let you know he had moved! This alone says he doesnt care whether he sees you again or not.
Block him from all contact. Show him that you have woke up to his game and that you are no longer playing.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (24 May 2013):
 No need to break up since, apparently, you aren't his girlfriend and you'd look pretty foolish.
Moving without telling you speaks volumes on its own. Avoiding your calls and showing no interest in you beyond planning your next visit, which I also assume means sex, all point to one thing....you are a booty call and nothing more.
Whether he has a girlfriend elsewhere is irrelevant now.
Mu suggestion is to simply delete and block him from Facebook, block his number and completely ignore him from now on. Let him figure out for himself you've lost interest.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (24 May 2013):
 This man that you describe, it not worthy of another minute of your time and mental energy.....
Drop him, and get a REAL boyfriend...
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2013): Aside from asking him straight out, you have to take his word for it. I am inclined to suggest that you follow your suspicions; because this all sounds all too fishy.He is not forthcoming, and does things behind your back. He doesn't want you in on his personal life; yet refuses to offer you the disclosure that a girlfriend deserves.No offense please, but you must be pretty naive to have put up with this for 4 years! You have put your life on hold for some creepy secretive guy; who just might have been married all this time, and only recently divorced. Sounds like now he has his freedom, and he's trying to discard his mistress. Look back on the past and think about times he cancelled dates, disappeared without explanation,long periods of silence, and absence during holidays. You can check states records to see if there may be a marriage documented in his name. I don't know what country you are in.I may be wrong about all I suspect; but what's more important, is what you think. I'd say you have more than enough evidence to raise enough red-flags to run screaming in the opposite direction.Kick him to the curb, and go find yourself a good man.I wish you much happiness!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 May 2013):
 you are dating almost four years and he moved and did not tell you... he does not call you, he hides his phone...
I assume that pay him a visit means... come over and have sex....
if you don't call him, text him or facebook him, how long does it take for him to contact you and when he does is it a booty call?
if so you have your answer... you are not a girlfriend you are FWB that he treats like crap.
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