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Archived questions from: 4 February, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Married and hopelessly lonely

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs.he's had 3 affairs that I know of! Should I walk away,or try to work @ it again??...

Rejected by mother and father, fearing rejection as an adult. Falling for guys who give attention.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - We have been together for almost 12 years and have a son together. Its the 4th time now where she has developed feelings she thinks are love, with a guy she has gotten to know, who has charmed her, treated her well and shown her attention. She has ...

Is Three A Crowd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts. Okay alot of people will think im a lucky girl but to me, its a nightmare! A year ago i was out clubbing with my girl friends and i met a guy Alex* talking, he bought me drinks etc. Well after about an hour, he said 'Be right back', when ...

He said he was dating to teach his ex girlfriend a lesson. Where does that leave me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi guys. I really like this guy and we've been out a few times but he is still in touch with his GF and I recently found out that he decided to start dating as a 'payback' (according to him) to 'teach her a lesson' for some lie or other she told ...

7 years, now long distance. He says we should see other people. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Boyfriend and I have been trying to get work in another state. He just informed me he got a high paying job in the state where we both have talked of going. He said he's going to look for a place there this weekend. He also said that we should see ...

He is playing with my emotions and stopping me from moving on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I dated a coworker for six months and even though I'm 26, it was the second time I've fallen for anyone. We both work at the Holocaust Museum in D.C. where there was a shooting last summer. We were both there that day, but I was in the middle of it. ...

I don't want any other mans baby, but we are not together anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - this isn't so much that i don't know the right thing to do, but i'm having a hard time with the problem. My ex and i, before the engagement was broken, were talking seriously about having children. we'd come up with names and everything, already ...

I want to end the relationship because she has put on too much weight

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - I am trying to find a way to end a relationship with a woman who has simply become too obese for me and I don't want to hurt her feelings. Is there anyone who can give me some advice?...

Should we rekindle a first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I have just met up again with my first love, Matt, who I went out with for 3 years, 18 years after we parted ways. In all that time, even through my past marriage, I never stopped thinking about him and all of the "what ifs". Last year, we got back ...

He has me so down and depressed I feel trapped!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - My husband has always seemed to find slightly twisted ways of running me down on a semi-regular basis but last week has really made me want to leave. In an argument in which he told me I was taking too long to study and change my career (I'm doing ...

Why are ex's usually hot and cold?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Just wondering in general why do people say things like "im not in love with you anymore" or "i dont have feelings for you anymore" or "i know what im doing and i know what i want" only to later say they didnt mean any of it..or, there actions dont ...

We were in love and were together for ten years and now it is as I don't exist

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm very distressed because my partner and I split up a few months ago and recently saw each other around Christmas time but didn't sleep together. We have unresolved issues and I wanted to meet to talk to him. We still have feelings for each ...

My husband has a serious drinking problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - i've been married for 10 years; my husband has a drinking problem and it's worsening. He has promised to attend AA meetings. I'm thinking of leaving him. Is it right to leave him at this point when he has promised to attend AA meetings?...

I believe he has changed, but my mother says he is a jerk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi I am 18 years old My boyfriend is 24 We first started dating when I was only 13 After almost five years together He changed and I knew something was wrong I kind of knew he was cheating I believe that us women just know that kind of things we get ...

I broke up with my boyfriend because my heart was elsewhere,but now the second guy is pulling away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I don’t know where to start..I broke up with my boyfriend for 7 years because I am in love with a guy who is my bf’s friend. I am 27 years old already. I had physical intimacy with this guy for 4 years and I’ve been keeping this guilt feeling for so ...

Mind Games or Is it really over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I met someone online 1.5 months ago. I blew him off for a week after our first conversation and apologized. I let him know I was talking to other people but nothing serious so I wanted to get to know him better. We met 3 weeks ago. He has a foot fet...

I want to patch things up with my ex boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hello all, My bf and I broke up 4 days back. We had been together for 1 and a half years and he was the one really keen on me and told me he loved me – I eventually fell in love with him. He lost of his job cos of his drinking and then everything ...