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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I let him know I miss him as a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I had been kinda hanging out with this guy for a month. I got to meet him through a very good friend of mine who told me that he was a really great guy. In that month (August)everything just seemed perfect we would take walks together,watch movies ...

How can I get over being so controlling? Is it justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - This woman was my first real relationship. Real as In a person I could see myself marrying. I grew up with no father and my mom a abused me and ditched me. My best friend who was also a chick ditched me. And my first real girlfriend used me cheated ...

Does she still have feelings for him? Or should I forget the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - I broke up with my gf of one year on our anniversary. i was apologizing nearly 3 hours after i did it and wanted to talk to her and make it better, during our one month split, we were still contacting each other and she even let me keep some ...

He regrets knowing me...so how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - Thank you for previous replies to my posts http://www.dearcupid.org/question/follow-up-on-emigrating-to-oz-while-my.html and wanted to update that today my boyfriend basically gave me an ultimatum that it was not acceptable for me to come and go out ...

She says she needs space, but is she really looking for someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Hi, I posted earlier that my girlfriend of 5 years left for her internship 3000 miles away about a month ago and will be back in about 4 months from now. After a week and a half of leaving we got into a little argument and told me she wanted a bre...

How do I get over losing the girl of my dreams?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Hi Everybody sorry for the long story but, I am desperately looking for your help, please answer and please don't pull any punches, I have just recently split up with my girl friend of a year and and half, we have had major trust problems in the ...

Could this really be it after 8 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - ok after 8 yrs my girl said its over .yeah we had or problems in the past just minor stuff arguing nothing crazy shes the girl that changed everything about me over that time. she has always gave in when we argued before but now she wont even return ...

How can I get him back without pushing him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5323 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I need help... I'm in love with a guy, our past is pretty messed up... (he's cheated once while drunk, etc) ... we've fought off an on since then about petty crap and the same issue (cheating). He made amends when it came to cheating, though...

I feel stupid for letting it get so bad, we have to fix this or we break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I'm not really used to this whole blogging your feelings thing but here it goes: -takes deep breath- I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I truly do love him. He is honest(tactless but honest nonetheless), a great provider, and sh...

Is this girl playing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. After months of no contact, my ex called me and said she missed me. I still have feelings for her, but I feel strange because she can't just come back to me right? When I think of it, she's way higher class than me, and I get ...

I'm a chinese guy who has broken up with my indian girlfriend...because her parents don't approve

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

6 October 2009 (M) - im a chinese guy and i met this indian girl at work a year from now. i felt this strong bond with her so last month i asked her out and she felt same way so she became my gf. i know most indian parents want arranged marriage or people from the same ...

I just can't be with him anymore. How can I get him out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

6 October 2009 (F) - I need to move on and I know that. The man I was seeing (fallen in love with) was separated and going through a divorce. He asked me out and I accepted and we had the most fantastic 5 months together. His ex started threatening to move away with ...