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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

18 months later and b/f still doesn't have a job..time to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Please can you advise me although I think I may know the answer already.... I have been with my current boyfriend for 18 months after being friends for about 4 years. Previously I had always gone for 'bad' boys and was in a relationship where th...

Dumped by a man who wanted to marry me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I have just been dumped by a man who told me he wanted to marry me. He said he wanted to marry me and then I told him I thought he was just using me for sex and money. He had stood me up several times and was worried I was being used again (by y...

I've been in limbo for 7 months and I need some answers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - my problem is quite complex..i'm 43 and a lesbian and should be in control of my heart and emotions but i am not it seems. i was in a relationship with another woman for 4 and a half years..but we grew apart..and she fell in love with a friend o...

What happened and why is it so hard to move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years . I have had a lot of loss over the last 4 years which caused me not to be in a relationship for a longtime . I felt all these years of being alone and I mean alone I didnt go out at all or date ...

Does my ex still really love me or does he just "want some"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - So me and my ex have been broken up for about two months. Ever since the break up I've regretted it and i have tried to do ANYTHING that I can to get him back. He has only told me that he doesnt feel the same way about me anymore and has pushed me ...

My ex is confusing me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - me and my ex broke up a couple months ago after she cheated on me with the same guy she left to be with me. Over time I forgave her and tried to be friends. We would text each other every now and then. A few weeks ago she texts me and says she made ...

She won't acknowledge our past and wants me to be friends with her new guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - Who is being selfish here? "Jane" and I have been friends for about 5 years now, but for the first 15 months or so it was something more than that. Now, going forward, she wants to disacknowledge there being any history between us to any new people ...

What do you think is going on in her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - I had been seeing my girlfriend for 2 years - we broke up in April of this year - I suspected that she had been meeting with someone else for a while - as things hadnt been good for a while - she seemed to be trying to cause an argument all the time ...

My mum broke me and my boyfriend up because she thinks he is weird, She wont let me be upset, Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Well i was with my bf for a whole year. he two years older than me but we have known each other for years. I knew him from when i was in year 7 (grade 7) and he was year 9, now im in year 11 and have been with him since the begining of year 10. He ...

How do I move forward in a positive way after divorcing a sex addict?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I want to know how to move forward without guilt after divorcing my husband of 20 years because of a sex addiction he had. I want to feel less guilt that I ended the relationship even though he wanted to work on it and try. He is still in ...

How can I get her to take my calls without fake blackmailing her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - After breakup i called her my ex-girlfriend last night. we talked for hours. i got her taking my call by blackmailed her that i would call her dad that she was having affair with me for years. when i tried to take my call being nice with her she ...

Should I take A break from my long term Relationship to explore options or not??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Please help! I been with my mate for goin on 6 years and everything has always been ok. to my knowledge he had never cheated on thats what i believe. and we have had some rocky times in our relationship where he may have slipped up and or I slipped ...

I broke up with him because he is a mama's boy, but now I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - please help! I am so confuse now. I been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we love each other so much.(I mean I do love him so much). But I broke up with him yesterday.We live in Puerto Rico and yesterday I move back in Arizona with my parents.But I ...

Am I being abused?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend. Things in the relationship were fine at first but then he started acting very strange. He started getting very jealous whenever I would hang out with male friends but said that it was because he was afraid of ...

Is it bad that I'm still thinking about her or should I be over her by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - my ex-girlfriend broke up with me about 5months ago and i find that i think about her almost everyday STILL. I occasionally have a dream or two with her in it and my mind often wanders and thinks about her, like what shes doing and if she thinks ...