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*onronjon
writes:This woman was my first real relationship. Real as In a person I could see myself marrying. I grew up with no father and my mom a abused me and ditched me. My best friend who was also a chick ditched me. And my first real girlfriend used me cheated on me with my friends and basicly brother. Time passed and she grew up. And we have been togther and engaged for 6 months. He'll she even wanted and got the same tattoo on her ring finger that I have. So she has grown up and changed but I seem to have gotten worse. I get mad at her cuz she talks to all her exes still if on myspace or cell. She claims them to be friends but most of them she never had a friendship with until they fucked.one of them was even the guy she cheated on me with. After a fight she says she stop talking to them and deleted them off her phone and myspace. I also have a stupid habit of getting mad when she hangs with her friends, feels like she's ditching me cuz the weekends are our time but I get less to see her now cuz she's with them.Even when she's with me she's texting and talkin to her friends. Even after sex one day she noticed she had a missed call and called one of her dude friends leaving me waiting there for 40 mins. Is it me or am I becoming one of those controlling assholes? Not like I mean too. It's just it's a pain when all her friends want too hook up with her.Anyone know of good ways to control jelousy? I want us to work and so does she. I believe that relationships are not all easy and take hard work.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 You need to talk to her and explain how you feel. Try and work something out.
Good Luck!
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reader, Lola1 +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Relationships are also full of compromise. You need to think about what is specifically making you feel this way. I an help with more information.
When you feel badly towards the male friends or to her? Can you hang out with her friends with her? What types of things do you do when you are together? Do you have many friends of your own?
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reader, Max Clark  +, writes (6 October 2009):
 Yeah man, i can relate with that. Seriously i get so annoyed when i feel like she has ditched me for her friends. I am going to get a hobby, i already go to a drama club once a week but i think i need something that will take up a lot of my time, without her!!
This is something you should do, it will help keep you entertained. Be careful because if you are too controlling it will just push her away, i would know, i am the same as you!
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