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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

So much drama with this girl...is it worth it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - I know this looks long but the question is short. 2/3 of it is just part of the argument we had that id like you guys to weigh in on. This is kinda a follow-up to my earlier question: http://www.dearcupid.org/quest...

Like her, but don't want to be hurt anymore. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up one month ago after she told me that she has feeling for someone else. We became best friends 6 years ago and were best friends for 3 years of high school, then she confessed her feelings for me. It was a turbulent time for me ...

Am so used to being used and mistreated, it's what I look for now in a relationship! How do I end the cycle?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Is there something wrong with me? Has this really changed me? I was in a bad relationship where I was lied and cheated on. I forgave her and it just never got better. Things ended kind of with occasional relapses in hanging out. I absolutely was ...

He said he needs space but I emailed him and said I said: "I can't see myself being with anyone else"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - My boyrfriend and I have been together for one year. Back then we used to see each other everyday, but then he had to move to a different state and my parents don't like him. We talk to each other on the phone for atleast 2 hours everyday before we ...

We broke up but can we go back to how we were before she got depressed and got big?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - My g/f broke up with me last week. Now let me explain how our relationship was. We have been dating for about 19 months and it was the best time of my life. About 5 months ago we decided to move in together. Shortly after that she never seemed like ...

I cant seem to balance my relationship and my friends so I broke up with him but I still love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 2 months ago. I did it because I cant seem to balance my friends and him at the same time. He doesnt understand why I need anyone else but him. The last 2 months have been hell for me. Ive missed him so ...

Is there still hope that I can make changes and save our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I have been married for 15 years. My husband has asked to leave... I have asked for him to stay and let us try... we have been trying for years. I am not able to quite. He has agreed to stay in our home (by my begging) until he finds a place which ...

I was doing so well getting over him but all my hard work has been undone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - 2 years ago i fell in love, it was amazing, i had never met anyone like him,. everyone said we made the perfect couple, and we were so happy. we went out for a year, but towards the last month he said that it was going to quick, he was too young ...

I feel so scared and alone, the one good thing in my life has gone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I think this has been long overdue and I'm not even sure I know how to express exactly how i'm feeling in one question, but I have to try. I'm almost eighteen now and I really feel like i've hit an all time low, rock bottom you might say. I kn...

Are either of us looking for more than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - broke up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago. We lived together and it ended badly. It hurt a lot for both of us and he went away to France with work so we never spoke to each other. On Friday I had to e-mail him to say his post was still coming, ...

Am I blind to what she may have got up to at a party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Ok so me and my girlfriend just broke up a couple days ago. I broke up with her because of a long distance thing (4 hours). It felt like we were becoming more distant and I did not see any use in dragging something out that I didn't feel would last. ...

Need advice and thoughts on situation with ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm so confused and I need an honest opinion....I was with my ex for 3 and a half years...before that we were best friends for 6 years so in total, we've been close for 9 almost 10 years...recently (about a month ago) he dumped m...

I'm starting to think of him a lot - where do I go from here?

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5 October 2009 (F) - hi, two years ago i dated this guy that i deeply fell in love with. we dated for two weeks then broke up. nine months later, we dated again for four months and it didnt work out again. we were just high school kids, so we made a lot of mistakes, we ...

Sometimes it really feels like I'm moving on, and other times it feels like I'm still really hoping for something

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - hi, I had a lover for about a year who I became very attached to. She didn't want a committed relationship, it was pretty casual, but she told me she loved me and sometimes would let her guard down and say things that were pretty loving. But I...

He says a "break" will make us stronger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for two years. He says he wants a "break" because I doesn't feel he deserves me right now and feels he needs to mature before he can have me. He said he can't go on hurting me anymore by stupid things he does ...

Why is he suddenly acting so cruel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

5 October 2009 (?) - Just want to know why guys do this!! After a long term relationship in which we were completely in love and going to get married, he calls off the relationship out of the blue. Cheating and abuse of any kind were not involved. He cries and su...