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Archived questions from: 5 May, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I get over her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - okay me and my girlfriend broke up. we break up a lot but i wont work this time around. and we both know it. we went out for 3 years and we didn't have a great relationship. but there were times when it was good. we've had our ups and downs but ...

Pregnant...but I don't know who the father is!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I am in such a dilemma. Three months ago, I was at my boyfriend's house and he had to leave suddenly after a very secretive phone call he made to someone. My suspicion is that he was calling another girl, whom I know to be my ex-best friend. I think ...

Do I give him a second chance or move on?

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5 May 2009 (F) - what do you do when you just let the love of your life walk out? i had chased him enough and it got the point when i wouldnt want to fight at all i would just cry and open the door. i got sick of him tell me we couldnt be because he doesnt have ...

I feel hurt and used by her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Man I feel like such a pussy typing this up. But I dont want to ask any of my buddies. Two years ago I dated this girl for about a year and a half total. I broke up with her for a couple of reasons, mainly selfishness on my behalf, I wanted...

Should I walk away???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Thank you all for trying to help me with my dilemma. I am no child, he broke up with me about a month ago. He said some degrading things to me that are were not true. We were together for 3yrs and I accepted things that I would of normally walked ...

I broke up with her, now my conscience is cursing me for hurting her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I broke up with my 17 year old girlfriend because i wasnt in love with her. I broke the news without any warning and probably with the silliest reason that i was committment phobic... she was devastated! I had no other way to end this and i was ...

Ex Girlfriend dumped me three weeks ago, now she's sending me messages...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - Hi My Girlfriend and i were together for about 8 months and dumped me out of the blue three weeks ago, told me not to look for her anymore. yesterday she wants to chat on yahoo, to say hi and to ask me what I was up to, could it mean she's sort of ...

Any advice, does he really want it over or am I just not accepting it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I broke up with my partner 4 weeks ago and I just can't get him out of my head. I finished it but I tried to change my mind and he just said fu*k it we're done. I went away for the weekend packed all his stuff, he came to collect it when I wasn't ...

My casual girlfriend dumped me by text so suddenly - why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Hi I met a girl about a year ago and I had my first same sex experience with her which I really enjoyed. We made plans to meet again but she traveled back home and then traveled for work and I eventually managed to meet her again for a drink in...

I want to seperate, but how do I say it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - I want to leave my husband of 6 years but am not sure how to say it. He says its obvious I don't love him (which isn't entirely true) but I am not "in love" with him anymore my question is, how do I tell him. I hate hurting him and seeing him c...

I think I lost him and my whole world is crushed. Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - it all started about 3 and a half months ago when me and my boyfriend of almost a year started getting mad with each other and fighting a lot. we were on and off for a while, constantly "taking a break" and then getting back together. until about a ...

My parents and my best friend all hate my gf! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - My parents and my best friend and some of my church hates my girlfriend. Her and I have been through alot and we dont wanna stop. You cant change how someone feels about someone else in their heart. I wont give up and I wont stop! I will do ...

He has mental issues and I want to dump him! Should I be scared?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has mental issues and the more we stay together the more controlling he is becoming towards me. When we started dating, he was so much fun and exciting and did everything possible (in a good way) to make me fall for him. As we got to ...

She doesn't have a very attractive body...will I get over that eventually?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

5 May 2009 (M) - I recently started a relationship with a girl I get along very well with. She lives in a different city and she is considering moving to the city I live in. When we are together, I am attracted to her mind enough so that we have a decent love life. ...

Alex isn't serious, so should I date this other guy I am intensely attracted to?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - So here's the problem... I've been recently sort of been seeing this guy Alex, he's in the same college as i am and we get along really well, but both him and i don't wish to persue anything serious or committed anytime soon. Summer is comin...

What will he be like when he gets out of jail? Should I wait or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years; since we were both nineteen. And he's been in jail for the last year for a crime he did not commit. In fact, it was a crime his best friend committed but he died because of it. I am...