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Archived questions from: 21 May, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Is he at it with me or is he telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I'm heartbroken, I've driven the man I cherish away, we have been together nearly 2 years, he told me he was seperated, i thought it was strange he never wanted me to meet his family and he always hid my things when his friends came to stay, he said ...

Does it sound like my boyfriend is interested again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - After dating for over a year, my boyfriend breaks up with me. In the first month, I tried everything to get him back. Then I completely backed off. A week later, he made up an excuse to come over and see me. A week after that, he called me. Now, ...

Why can't I get him to communicate with me to at least try to work it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi, well like many others my boyfriend of a year dumped me, a day before our one year anniversary. I don't think it was a commitment thing cuz he always was asking for me to move in and such . But I was on a lease and couldn't at the time . But ...

I still want her in my life after a year apart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - ok i really miss this girl now ...she ant be said my ex girlfriend but we came so close once upon a time that it was even not less than that ...it was a long distance relationship ... long story short ,we have had a lot of fun in the past and we ...

Does my boyfriend want us to get back together or is he just lonely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple months ago because of growing tensions. We had been together over a year and talked marriage. A month into our breakup, he started traveling for work. He'll be traveling for a few months. At that same time ...

I slept with my ex-gf, but she says she's in love with another guy, should I believe her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - Last Week I had sex with my now ex-gf. it's been a month since she broke up, because she told me she didnt love me, but she had feelings for another guy. She gets mad when I tell her she doesn't love this dude even though she slept with me and she's ...

Hard break-up, should I keep any hope of getting him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I am in the deepest pain I have ever been in my life, deeper even than when I lost a very close relative. My boyfriend of 8 amazing months broke up with me on Monday because of something I said. For a bit over 3 months, he was gone on his study ab...

Part of me is craving being single, and the other part loves my perfect girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - So, I've been going out with long-term girlfriends for the past five years, since I was 15. There's never been much of a gap between long-term relationships. The first turned out to be a compulsive liar and screwed with my head quite badly, the ...

I left my ex to be with my new man and now he thinks I will do the same to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - The man im with now, i met him while i was in a 4 year relationship, i broke up with my ex to be with this new man....but now hes worried im going to do the same to him....im so confused as i cant change the past what can i do? Do you think it ruin ...

How can I tell him I've had enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I am really confused as to what I should do? Me and my partner met 3 years ago and were dating for about 1 and a half years then became exclusive. We have been living together for just over a year. It has been difficult at times as he has been away ...

Need advice - Is my husband gay? Desperate for answers.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I am posting this personal information in hopes of getting different perspectives on my current situation. I am a 39 year old married woman. I have been married to my husband for almost a year, with him for 3 years. I found out 6 months into...

How can I tell my kids I am divorcing their dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi like your views please I am in the prosses of leaving my h/b as i cant forget him cheating and lying,my 21 years of marriage has been a sham. I hate myself for arranging all what i am doing behind his back as i feel like i am no different to him...

10 reasons its her fault the relationship didnt work

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - Here are the top 10 reasons that it's HER fault the relationship didn't work. Reason 1: You aren't cool enough. Guys love cool girls, its probably our favorite characteristic for a girl we want to keep around longer than 2 hours. The problem...

He cheated on me, dumped me and wants to think about where we go from here, I am heartbroken, what do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of one year and three months just broke up with me because I tried to discuss my feelings. He has a past of cheating with me and after the incidents it left us with the problem of me not being able to trust him, that was back in Sept...

She wants to break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - Three weeks ago there was this girl that i got together with and we felt like we were the best couple ever, better than any of our other relationships. one day she just changed, she hasn't been trying to get a hold of me in any way, now she wants ...