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Archived questions from: 26 May, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

He SEEMED like a genuine, caring guy, but I'm starting to feel that his words don't match his actions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I feel a little lost. My (ex-)boyfriend of two years recently broke up with me several months ago. During our relationship he cheated on me and disrespected me in many ways. I have been very down, but I have been going out with friends and trying ...

Heart broken in two...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I need help I cant decide between two guys. I was dating this guy that I was totally in love with but we had to break up because he was going to rehab we had been going out for a year and i really thought he was the one my family wasnt too fond o...

We've grown apart, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I am dating this guy that i like alot we have been on an off for the past five months now an i think that has really put a toll on me it has drove me crazy. When we first started dating we did everything went to the movies played pool hung out at ...

I have never loved my husband, and although he tries really hard, I never will. Should I divorce him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2278 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Hi. i'm 30 years old. I've been with my husband since I was 20. When I met him I was fresh out of a relationship and wasn't really looking to get into anything new. However I met him and he was different than anyone I had ever dated..sweet, ...

Hurt, my husband has left. Was it the porn or his family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I feel so hurt because my husband stopped loving me. And what hurts the most is that we have children together. I told him it was his porn or us meaning his family. And I want to know was I wrong to make him decide porn or us?he is using me and I ...

A song for feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (M) - You know, I find it funny how a simple thing like a song changes things. Like a few months ago when my girl left me, I sat down on a bench and I heard the song Vegas by All Time Low. I noticed how the lyrics just made things feel better. The song ...

We want to be together but he doesn't want marriage, do I compromise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now - I am 34 and he is 39. Not long by most people's standards but long enough for me to be sure of how much I love him. I recently asked him what he wanted from the future, and he t...

Am I wrong to want closure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really need some advice. I posted on here before. My partner left me about 3 months ago, just suddenly ignored me then got nasty when I asked him why. I am still really upset because we were so close for the 6 yrs we w...

How do I boost my self-esteem and rebuild the trust with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I'd appreciate some advice, and male opinions would be interesting - basically, I'd like to know how to work on boosting my self-esteem and my trust in my bf. To cut a long story short, we were together (living together) for 8 years, until we broke ...

My boyfriend has left me for another girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend who has been overseas the last four months broke up with me today..he said he fell in love with another girl and got together with her a week ago. I sent him a "lovey care" package two days ago. He'll get homemade cookies baked by...

My alcoholic husband is not the same man I married and I'm not sure if I love him anymore

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I have been married for 2 1/2 years to an alcoholic. He has tried to get sober in the past and always goes back to drinking. I have even given him the altimatum and left for 3 weeks until he stopped drinking, but he only stopped until I came home. ...

Strong enough to break it off but how do I continue to do so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - basically theres a guy ive broke contact with, ive liked him for like 6 months and its been too much effort trying to see him, he never makes an effort. We meet up from time to time and he came to my party, we also slept together (i know big mist...

Trip of a lifetime planned with ex but don't know if I should go!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I recently split from my partner of 2 years because i felt he did not treat me right and i gave him multiple chances to change. When we split, i wasnt sure if it were for good or to see if he'd actually change because i had left him. However, i ...

Having a very difficult time disconnecting from him emotionally!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I need some support and advice. I have been in love with my boyfriend for 10 years. We have split up before mainly due to the way he has treated me and his emotional cheating with other women-cannot verify that he physically cheated. He got very ...

I don't know what he is playing at!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - about 7 months ago i lost the love of my life he was my everything i loved himm so much ... since he broke up with me we slept together on a few occasions ..im still madly in love with him but cant seem to move on other guys dont appeal to me cos i ...

How do I get over my boyfriend, he is all I've ever known

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Hi all. Ive just broken up with my boyfriend of 1 year. To put it simply, im devastated. In hindsight, the relationship was going downhill since christmas. I think maybe we got two comfortable with eachother, the spark was gone, we were more or less ...

I need help to get this man out of my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - hi all, i posted a question on the 13th sex while i sleep. it is a long story and there is much more to it than that, but i tried again to end the relationship i was focused and 100% sure i was doing the right thing, but he asked me for sex one last ...

He's only interested atfer I stopped making the effort with him....should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I was/am dating this guy, who for the last month went all weird saying he was too busy to see me etc. It took me by surprise because just prior to that he was saying how much he liked me and how he'd miss me when I went home and how he couldnt ...

Violent boyfriend has left his things at my house but I don't want to be near him right now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. i am 20 and he is turning 23 next month.he suffers from depression and anxity. today he out of the blue got really mad and broke his computer. he smashed it and ran out of my house. later ...

Is he going to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so I have a theory that after the 5 or 6th month of a relationship, it either finishes or it blossoms. I'm in between the 5th and 6th month of a relationship with my current boyfriend. We haven't said "I love you" in a serious or formal way, but ...

I need closure from him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I really need some advice. My partner left me about 3 months ago, just suddenly ignored me then got nasty when I asked him why. I am still really upset because we were so close for the 6 yrs we were together, albeit...

Broke up, back together, he is distant and non-responsive, did he stop caring for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5460 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - We broke up. I asked for him back because i still loved him. Then we got back together. But he never calls me. Only I call him. He never tells me that he misses me anymore. What does this mean? i don't wanna be annoying so I would let a week go by ...

Sent my ex pictures and love songs, now worried I shouldn't have done it, what do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - I recently wrote a post about my ex and I breaking up due to me saying some things to himas he had frustrated me so bad and I had tolerated for so long though I kept apologising to him for long. It's been about a month now though. I sent him some...