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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Ways to win my ex back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I want my ex back. He broke up with me I dunno why. I have tried asking but he's shy and shit. I want the most effective way to win him over and be in love again....

He doesn't seem bothered... am I being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Long story but im giving my ex another chance and we are taking it slowly. We spilt up cos he aint ready 4 commitment and hes had time to himself to work through his issues! But sometimes I feel that after weve had a nice day or evening together he ...

How can I prepair myself to leave it and start again?

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4 May 2009 (F) - I know, I will have to leave my long term marriage. I have grown kids, and it is not really about parenting any more. But I wonder how can you deal with the regret, you have after you leave. One of my biggest fears, what is actually holding...

Why do I let him hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I am a 21 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years pretty sure I'm in an abusive relationship. I sound so unsure because its not all the time. I knew it could be this way from not to far along he would do something to hurt my feelings ...

He has pictures of his ex girlfriend hidden on his computer (but I found them).

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 10 months now, and he broke it off with his ex approximately 2 years ago. One day, when left alone at his house with his computer, curiousity took the best of me and I ventured on to see what he looks at when...

She's doing my head in! What's going on with this girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - hey, i am not sure if am doing this for advice or just to get it off my chest. i met this girl a while back. we dated for a short time before she said it wasnt going to work. she never gave me a reason why. i was crushed when she said it cos it w...

How can I get my wife to reconcile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Recently my wife rang me on my way home from work to tell me that it was over and that she didnt love me any more and that she means it for good. 2 months have past by and i have had to get legal advice to get contact with our two kids. Once I h...

Does he need time? Or is he fooling himself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5480 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I'm sorry this is long but I needed to say it all.. please help and answer only if you read it all. Thanks so much :) After 2 years of a wonderful relationship my boyfriend broke up with me because he felt we needed space and time to figure out wh...

My bf left me, and I have 6 kids! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - i woke up this morning and my boyfriend has left me.we had a big argument last night and i said things i didnt mean. He wanted to sort things out and said he didnt mean the things he said but i just went to bed. I've just got up and hes gone. He's ...

Can't stop thinking about my bf's friend! Is this fair to my bf-should we break up??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old. I have been with my partner for 4 years and have two children with him. and i do love him. but since i was at school i have liked one of his friends. and all of a sudden this friend is spending a lot of time with our family and i ...

I ended the friendship because of his dishonesty..so why do I feel so low about it all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - What to do when the EX-boyfriend still lies to you? Why is it so difficult to be just be honest and upfront? I'd told him last year he needn't get back in touch till he was ready to be honest. Well, he did- but the lying still continues. WTH-- we ...

I'm regretting leaving my controlling abusive husband. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - no longer with my ex husband. been with him 11 years, 4 of which married. we divorced and we stayed together one more year. I left due to serious control issues. the was also abuse in the marriage. i new i should leave due to him telling me what to ...

I know it was to break up with him but I feel so sad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hi, my name is Reyna, i need you to help me. Today I ended things with a guy who obviously didn't care about me. We dated for 4 years and i truly can't remember the last time i felt like i was worth something. I want to give you some quick inside i...

Relationship ended but we are still involved

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5482 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - I am hoping that there are people out there that can help me, I am really confused over this situation. I recently broke up with my ex nearly two months ago whilst we have remained good friends, I have still got feeling for him, and I was convince...

Broke up with girlfriend and I'm scared she's going to hurt herself

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4 May 2009 (M) - Help! I am in a mess! I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago .....she still used to string in my life and i felt the need to get some space ... so i broke all contacts with her thinking maybe this would help us move on and we can think about be...

My girl friend and I broke up... I miss her but I don't know how to cope

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I just broke up and we were going out for over a year. It started out great and we had many rough spots. She would get depressed a lot because of school issues and friends etc... and I would be her main support force. My friends ...