A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I recently split from my partner of 2 years because i felt he did not treat me right and i gave him multiple chances to change. When we split, i wasnt sure if it were for good or to see if he'd actually change because i had left him. However, i asked him how many times he had cheated he replied "i dont know because it is not something i like to remember". BAD answer! After that it made me think there was no way id ever want to rekindle the relationship..Since the split i have met another guy and we have gone on a few dates and i have kissed him a few times, we have not had sex. My ex asked me if i had, so i was honest and said yes and he texts me saying how i have shattered his heart and how he now hates me.. Which i do not understand as he kissed AND slept with girls when we were together but i was completly faithfull.I feel really guilty for hurting him so much and we have a holiday booked together for a few months time. Its the trip of a lifetime but now i dont know if i should go- especially if anything happens with this new guy ive met.Help please! :(
View related questions:
my ex, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): If he's cheated on you and been unfaithful more then once then you shouldn't forgive him. I think it's time you moved on. Give this new guy a chance, who knows where it will take you and if he's not the one then i'm sure youll find someone else who will actually treat you with respect!
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): Tell him it's none of his business, he had his chance and blew it, or you could tell him to take a long walk on a short pier lol, thats my choice of words in those situations.
...............................
A
male
reader, Rogerramjet  +, writes (26 May 2009):
He's playing you, because he obviously knows how to manipulate you.
This is one thing i've never understood: Why would you go on a trip with someone you just broke up with? That can only bring trouble and heartache, can't it?
...............................
|
